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They are still trying to delete/silence us, right here on Saidit. by Lilith_Fair in GenderCritical

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This isn’t new it’s always been an issue for saidit, or at least long before we got here.

Change.org believes that rape victims are discriminating against transgender women by believing that they were raped because they were born female by its1342 in GenderCritical

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Have you seen the Magdalens Berns video of the guy saying exactly this? He suggests becoming a lesbian transwoman to take control over women. It was a joke back then but now... it’s almost believable

Change.org believes that rape victims are discriminating against transgender women by believing that they were raped because they were born female by its1342 in GenderCritical

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What- am I reading that right? I can’t be.

Are people seriously trying to say repealing non-discrimination laws is a good thing, that discrimination will actually help fair employment and education? And the senate actually voted yes?! What kind of upside down Twilight Zone shit am I living in?? I want off this ride.

Change.org believes that rape victims are discriminating against transgender women by believing that they were raped because they were born female by its1342 in GenderCritical

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They act as if these heinous crimes are the result of an organized business that must follow politically correct practices. I’m picturing these criminals with a quota sheet, losing sleep out of worry for not meeting their monthly quota of transwomen. At this point I wouldn’t be surprised if we can’t petition against crimes if it hurts the predators feelings.

This is so beyond ignorance, we need a new word! To actively refuse petitions trying to help women or rape victims for such selfish reasons is disgusting.

Is anyone letting JK Rowling know that we're here? by peakitypeaked in GenderCritical

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Mumsnet’s feminism group is about on par with us too, we usually post the same topics. She could be there too!

Change.org believes that rape victims are discriminating against transgender women by believing that they were raped because they were born female

by its1342 to /s/GenderCritical from mobile.twitter.com

Check out this mod on Reddit... talk about pedophilia red flags by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Pretty sure that’s a satire sub

80% of people think men should not be allowed into changing rooms via self ID by GConly in GenderCritical

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It’s also hilarious that for a survey that’s gone so far to “correctly” gender everything, they default to calling the baby “it”.

Sally was born a man, but now Sally is a beautiful woman. Should Sally be able to be considered a mother to hi- her- them- the bab- it!

So does anyone actually understand gender theory? by bi_otter in LGBDropTheT

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No it’s not “strongly refuted”. I see your other comment about “male and female brains” this is a myth. There is no proven science behind it, it’s been disproven.

Has anyone ever come back from peak trans? by materialrealityplz in GenderCritical

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Big fat nope!! I used to give people benefit of the doubt, “maybe transmen truly are just running from being a woman, maybe transwomen really do think they're women”. Then I realized almost anyone is capable of acting normal in public. Just about every single trans person I’ve met has had some heavy mental health issues under the surface, but you’d only know it after getting to know them.

Warning, extra long personal life-scarring story ahead:

I worked with a TIM about 9 years ago (back when I was naive and supported the bathroom bills). Some random days he would come in dressed completely goth with chains, spikes, black lips, the whole 9- but otherwise he was pretty laid back, funny, and relatively normal. One day he came in extra excited because our work was going to allow him to start using the women’s room and it happened to be the same day he got some kind of fake boobs to wear? I thought it was weird but he was happy so I was supportive, so to “celebrate” we agreed to take an early lunch together.

He must’ve felt comfortable since I was supportive of him, and took that as an invitation to go into waaayy too much detail about his personal issues. He talked about having multiple personalities (why he would randomly show up goth), one of the personalities wasn’t actually a personality but a being from another planet that would communicate with him in a language only he understood. He told me he would tell them all about “earth things”, work, and me and wanted me to “talk to him through him”.

Here’s this chill guy I worked next to and ate lunch with for 6 months and had no idea he’d turn out to be absolutely mental. We had a table in a restaurant so I couldn’t dip and honestly I was nervous about pissing him off. Worst lunch of my life. I wound up quitting a month later for unrelated reason but my god.

Every trans person I’ve met since then, has shown signs of being “off” and as soon as that happens I don’t stick around to find out why. Somehow, god knows why, that wasn’t the thing to peak me. I was still open to being “respectful” and playing along for those 9 years until I finally found GC earlier this year and make the connection to sex-based rights and children’s safety being at risk. It’s insane how much information you don’t even realize you’re missing when it comes to “back burner” topics. It’s also scary how many other people just aren’t aware of the weight it carries either.

Is anyone letting JK Rowling know that we're here? by peakitypeaked in GenderCritical

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I’d probably just wait until the GC website is up. This place is a good temporary home, but I dont think it’s very secure. If you google it, its been targeted the past few months and been attacked.

If for some reason it gets revealed that she’s participating on this site (even if it’s a slim chance), she’d probably lose a lot of credibility for her arguments since this site is home to some real 4chan level views. Even for us really, the sooner we’re out of here the better.

Twitter is permanently banning users who say females get cervical cancer by Heteronormativefuckt in GenderCritical

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Not even woke, just money hungry. Big Money says transwomen are women and silence opposing facts? Bam, deleted, no questions asked.

NHS (UK National Health Service) child gender clinic: Staff welfare concerns ‘shut down’ - BBC Newsnight by Movellon in LGBDropTheT

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BBC just pulled their funding to several transgender foundations too. Hopefully this means either some big news is about to break, or we’re finally reaching the point of people in “power” gaining some common sense. Either way it’s a win.

So does anyone actually understand gender theory? by bi_otter in LGBDropTheT

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I’ll try to explain my understanding of gender vs sex. There will be a lot of redundancy but I think it’s necessary when explaining terms that get confused easily:

Sex is biological, male or female. “Male” and “female” are applicable to most species of animals, so to distinguish male and female humans we use the words man and woman.

Gender is like a terrible nickname, but instead of being based on an embarrassing moment, it’s based on your sex. It’s given to you by society the day you are born and once determined, it’s the guiding principle for others on how to treat you. Gender is a sex-based stereotype.

This is the only way sex and gender are linked. Gender is “socially constructed” from your sex (ie, society constructing stereotypes based on your sex).

You, as an individual, can not change gender as a whole. It’s why things are labeled masculine or feminine, the reason baby boys have blue rooms and girls, pink; why men wear suits and women wear heels. Gender is a sex-based stereotype.

Colors are just colors, clothes are just pieces of manufactured materials, these things have no link to biology.

However, because society only categorizes things as either masculine or feminine, things like colors and clothes are stereotyped and arbitrarily placed into these gender boxes. Many people feel they must conform to these “rules” and stay within the restrictions of the gender-box society put them in (women in the feminine box, men in the masculine box).

Those who choose not to conform to society’s rules and ignore the gender boxes can be seen as “gender non-conforming”. However, just because they aren’t listening to society’s stereotypes doesn’t stop them from being a human male (man) or human female (woman).

Realistically, every single person is already gender non-conforming in some way. In an ideal world, gender (sex-based stereotypes) wouldn’t exist at all. There would be no boxes to fit into to.

This is why things like non-binary, transgender, genderfluid, etc. are completely nonsensical. Not fitting into a box doesn’t require an additional box being made, a human male (man) enjoying the feminine box doesn’t turn him into a human female (woman). Liking some things from the masculine box, and some from the feminine box doesn’t require a third box labeled non-binary or genderfluid.

These labels and mental gymnastics do nothing but harm and just reinforce the idea that societal sex-based stereotypes (gender) are necessary and set in stone, rather than eliminating them all together and allowing people to live as themselves.

(As an aside, this is the basis for “gender critical” thinking- rejecting/being critical of the concept of gender and the effects it has on society as a whole.)

Some interesting views from Reddit r/LGBT on what this sub was about after the ban by snub-nosedmonkey in LGBDropTheT

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I once screenshotted the traits of narcissism as a reply, and they went to cry to their trans sub titling it something like “terf makes checklist of narcissism as a comparison of trans” but it backfired.

The replies were literally not refuting it, just a collection of “yeah well google isn’t a diagnostic tool” and “no u”.

But the best ones were “I actually have a lot of those traits.. but that doesn’t mean-!” and “they forgot to check these two other ones... but they’re still wrong!”

It was beautiful.

Their reaction to us beinf banned. Sickening. by TheCatsEyeNebula in LGBDropTheT

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They unironically consider reading rational, opposing views a “form of self harm” and they’re actually asking for alternative subs to go feel victimized from. Pretty sure that’s why they say we’re “literally violent”.

You’ve got to really have a deep hatred of yourself if just reading words is considered “violent self harm” but I guess that’s what you get when you mix delusion with gaslighting.

"Imagine if the public knew about TERFs, so many people would take their side." by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

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Probably the same type of people who buy into Wendys and Slim Jims “quirky comebacks” marketing tactics on social media.

r/terfisaslur, r/GenderCriticalGuys, and r/LGBDroptheT all just got banned by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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From my understanding, detrans is the sane sub. According to them, actualdetrans is run by transwomen, who have no intentions of detransitioning and just strictly police language.

BBC Distancing Itself from Mermaids, The LGBT Foundation, The Gender Trust, and The Gender Identity Research and Education Society (cross-posted from spinster.xyz) by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Oh wow they really didn’t sugarcoat that report, did they? Someone should record a copy of it. I have a feeling if the usual suspects get word of it they’ll have it taken down too

We were banned on Reddit on July 10th, shortly after 11:30am by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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One of the replies to the Reddit thread on the bans was “Hows that mouthfeel, TERFS”.

So glad rape apologist’s beliefs are being positively reinforced. Since Reddit banned the “bad guys” that must mean they’re the “good guys” and that behavior is totally fine and not disgusting whatsoever!

r/terfisaslur, r/GenderCriticalGuys, and r/LGBDroptheT all just got banned by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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It’s back up... for now

r/terfisaslur, r/GenderCriticalGuys, and r/LGBDroptheT all just got banned by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Pretty sure gc_woc got hit too

Check this out. Reddit sub literally admits brigading and tagging users by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Because trans

Has anyone been keeping up on Vanessa Guillens story? by its1342 in GenderCritical

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Just when I thought I couldn’t be more shocked and disgusted. How absolutely vile. I hope those women find safety, true safety and those men get revealed. I can’t even begin to imagine the pain they must be going through.

I saw YouTube comments of someone saying the “Commanding SgtMaj killed himself too but we cant find him”. Thought it was a troll since the comment got deleted within an hour... but then so did the Army's Chain of Command profile page of him so the whole thing seems deeper than they're letting on.

Thank you, I’m glad to hear there are other’s that have had enough.

Has anyone been keeping up on Vanessa Guillens story?

by its1342 to /s/GenderCritical from self.GenderCritical

Husband’s ignorance leads to an unhealthy woman having to put her body through a risky, potentially damaging pregnancy. So quirky and silly of him! Haha :) by its1342 in PinkPillFeminism

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100% you’re correct

Husband’s ignorance leads to an unhealthy woman having to put her body through a risky, potentially damaging pregnancy. So quirky and silly of him! Haha :) by its1342 in PinkPillFeminism

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For context, he walked in the bathroom to find his cat tore up the condom drawer with the condoms “scattered all around”. So instead of inspecting them he just threw them back in the draw and was apparently “surprised” when they didn’t work, then blames the cat for getting her pregnant, not his ignorance. He even made a comment about her “swallowing like a champ for years”.

I am so disgusted and sad for her.

Post is currently sitting at 13k upvotes with top comments commending him on his humor, and any critical comments being downvoted. Reddit hates women, indeed.

Husband’s ignorance leads to an unhealthy woman having to put her body through a risky, potentially damaging pregnancy. So quirky and silly of him! Haha :)

by its1342 to /s/PinkPillFeminism from i.imgur.com

Peak trans: tell your story here by Sittingonarainbow in GenderCritical

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Here’s the archive link for the previous peak trans threads, and so far it seems like the links work to get to past ones. (I’m not sure if it’s because I’m on mobile, but Peak Trans XI just redirects to todays date and a message saying GC is banned.) Peak Trans X

My new subreddit was banned. by teatii in GenderCritical

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We’re LiTeRaLlY not though. We aren’t here “to throw a tantrum” we’re here to regroup. Honestly come on, you can’t be that dense. The fact you actually followed us here to make sure we hear you whine about your feelings being hurt because women don’t want to include you is the real concern lmao

My new subreddit was banned. by teatii in GenderCritical

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The only tantrums I’ve seen in GC were by entitled men who thought they were the special exception, much like you and what you’re doing here :)

So it's come to this. by gparmesan in GenderCritical

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You’re awesome, thank you!!

Reddit and Hate Speech by ManWithABanana in MeanwhileOnReddit

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But hold on, if GC was shut down as a hate sub and by many woke accounts, the target of that hate was men.. shouldn’t we have been fine? Men are the majority after all, and hate speech isnt possible when directed at the majority

So it's come to this. by gparmesan in GenderCritical

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Dang. I tried too, but my account is too new

So it's come to this. by gparmesan in GenderCritical

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Hey do you think you can grab PinkPillFeminism too? Just saw its been deleted (or set to private but most likely banned) they were a radical fem page as well and they were sitting at 18k.