No, a four-year-old girl is not ‘really’ a boy

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-06-13T18:45:48+00:00

It’s a massive red flag for me that she has a male twin brother. I imagine that he got comfier clothes, better toys, more freedom to run around, be noisy and do whatever the hell he liked, and she thought that she wanted to have a piece of that too.

It’s similar to how Rachael Dolezal’s issues kinda became clear to me when I found out that her parents also adopted black children who probably got a lot of attention and concessions that the biological children didn’t.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-06-13T14:58:45+00:00

Well men sort of do…fat blokes with man boobs just have excess fat, they don’t actually grow the underlying breast tissue and the appropriate feeding structures. Like if you were struggling to breast feed you couldn’t ask your obese husband to step in as a wet nurse. Breasts and chests are different things.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-06-13T14:05:13+00:00

Yes of course they do. Obviously this doesn’t apply to all, but if you have a preference over what your own genitals look like then surely that also counts? TIMs that have a preference for getting their balls chopped off and their dicks turned inverted are a bit hypocritical if they then moan about women having a preference about whether they want to just have sex with a dick or fanny.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-03-11T15:16:06+00:00

Nope! Unless that young man happens to be a TIM who is one of the minority that passes at a distance. In which case, they are rightly scared that a man that is sexually aggressive towards them has done so by accident, and if they twig that it’s actually a bloke they’d be in danger of being attacked because of homophobia/transphobia and NOT misogyny. Even then, it’s almost certainly going to be a more evenly matched physical fight. Plus I imagine you’re a lot less likely to be raped if you’ve got a cock rather than a vag, unless they’re unlucky enough that their attacker swings both ways.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-02-09T13:19:13+00:00

Are we sure that Martina et al are not just trolling them? Their suggested compromises sound rubbish? I kinda like the idea of them having their own leagues. If we can have the paralympics and have a like a million categories then surely there’s enough for trans and intersex leagues.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-02-09T12:55:11+00:00

Of course there’s a danger. Even the TIMs themselves admit that - they’re too scared to use the gents in case they get attacked. Either they’re actually “stealth” in which case this is misogyny not transphobia. Or it’s blokes attacking other blokes because they’re dressed up “ as women” in which case, not our problem! Men gonna be men.

Tbh my biggest problem is the fact that they fucking piss EVERYWHERE. Like, have you ever been in a mixed loo in a place like Starbucks after a guy? It’s like they whip their dick out then just spin round in circles on the spot whilst pissing. No better than dogs.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-02-09T12:36:07+00:00

Why on earth did this woman even have a kid if it’s so traumatic and dysphoric for her. Couldn’t they have adopted?!

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-01-17T16:08:37+00:00

That’s Olympic weightlifting - the snatch and clean & jerk. Very dynamic and technical movements. Powerlifting is just deadlift, back squat and bench press or shoulder press - much more simple movements. The former requires good genetics, skill, technique, mobility - they’re more like gymnasts than body builders. The latter requires pure strength and the average bloke will usually be able to lift around double the women, so HRT doesn’t suddenly halve this!

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-01-17T16:02:28+00:00

Horrifying...isn’t this sexual assault? It’s pretty rapey

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-01-15T20:22:17+00:00

I actually think that they’ve got half of this right in allowing their child to express their PERSONALITY freely without any (conscious) expectation of him to act like the sexist stereotype of a boy. However They’ve obviously got the other half seriously wrong in confusing sex and gender. I don’t get what’s sooo bad about biological sex? How’re they going to teach their son that he can get people pregnant?! Are this new generation of children just going to have to leave it to random chance about whether they’ll be able to conceive or not?

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-01-15T20:07:09+00:00

"I grew up pursuing Olympic dreams, and that was taken away from me in the sport of powerlifting," Cooper said. He does know that powerlifting isn’t in the Olympics right?!

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-01-09T15:23:58+00:00

“Nobody is being silenced”. That is quite possibly the most meta thing any male has said 😂

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-01-09T15:19:38+00:00

This concept is so dumb. It comes with a complete misunderstanding of what HRT is. The replacement doesn’t actually mean “will magically replace your body into that of a fully functioning woman”. It just means it replaces SOME of the hormones missing in WOMEN who don’t make enough. If this had anything to do with fertility then it’s would be used as a female fertility treatment! For the women who need it, eg menopausal women and those with low oestrogen following chemo for example, it still can’t make them fertile again. And even then it’s only enough to alleviate the symptoms (although it comes with its own side effects).

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-01-02T17:46:26+00:00

That’s no more a vagina than saying men have breasts because they also still have pointless nipples. Foetuses also look like tadpoles for a while but we’re not supposing that we’re actually misshapen adult frogs are we.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2021-01-02T17:30:29+00:00

This is bonkers...i presume they wanted to get rid of all sex based language rather than gendered language. Because if they get rid of gendered language then what words are trans going to use to describe themselves?!?! How can they be validated as the opposite sex if the only words we have left to describe ourselves are person. I despair 😂

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-12-31T22:53:59+00:00

Having internal testes and a micro penis doesn’t miraculously give him a functioning vagina instead.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-12-31T22:38:59+00:00

Is that correct? I only know about this from researching Caster Semenya (and the two other individuals who shared the Olympic podium with her). I believe that he is genetically a male, hormonally a male, is physiologically clearly a male, was raised as a baby girl due to undeveloped external genitalia, internal testes not ovaries, but now identifies as a man (or a butch lesbian but that’s not really safe in South Africa). Having a micro penis does not mean he has a vagina.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-12-30T22:01:48+00:00

Do you not recall being a child?! Having boys around changes things... mostly I recall that they were noisy, violent, disruptive, inappropriate, sexually aggressive, rude... there were a few decent kind ones. No doubt they’d now be told that they’re actually girls.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-12-29T22:58:19+00:00

I used to like the fact that EI made me realise he was just a person in clothes and not necessarily in women’s clothes. So disappointed he’s jumped on the trans train. He’s failed several times to get ahead in the Labour Party. I wonder if this is a new plan instead.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-12-29T22:34:38+00:00

Well now I work from home I don’t have to deal with the “bloke in a blouse”* who uses the ladies loo. *I don’t mean to sound ignorant, I’ve never been introduced to him so I don’t know his name.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-12-29T22:31:24+00:00

It’s not the cis bit I object to more than the whole word “cisgender”. I believe this infers that my gender and sex “match”. I just don’t identify with this. I am a woman. Simple. I don’t have a gender identity at all.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-12-04T10:39:24+00:00

Apologies that this more general feminism than gender critical specific but I don’t visit any other forums. Got sent this gem in the work newsletter. Not sure that all of these claims can be correct... 40% of domestic abuse victims are men?! Anyone got anything I can use to refute some of these please?

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-12-01T22:26:44+00:00

Interesting. So she’s a professional imposter, experienced trainer in the dark arts of how to be mistaken for a woman, and yet she still doesn’t even pass on the telly 😂 it’s almost as though “non-passing TIMs” is a tautology.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-12-01T22:17:36+00:00

Woop woop. What a woman. I hope that Keira is able to find some peace and have a full and happy life.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-12-01T22:15:10+00:00

I had to go and look this person up to figure out what was going on...she is a woman, a lesbian, but wants to be “non-binary” so is in effect attempting to balance out her stereotypically feminine appearance with male pronouns. Omg I’m almost glad my poor grandparents are dead so I don’t have to explain this bs to them. What’s wrong with just having a personality?!

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-12-01T22:06:04+00:00

Oh wow 🤯 it’s sounds a bit trite at first but my mind is blown

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-29T16:36:57+00:00

“Alice Dreger and others who research autogynephillia have shown that it is more than an erotic paraphillia, it also contains a romantic type of love. So we can’t write it off as a fetish.” What does this mean please? A romantic type of love for what? Of being the the opposite sex?

“there is a group of people who feel a desperate need to socially and medically transition and whose lives are improved by transition”. I feel like these people are living in a fantasy world. They’d be better off accepting and learning to love themselves as they are. There’s no such thing as socially transitioning unless you mean acting out enough gender stereotypes (eg for men, long hair, make-up, high heels) that some people start to try to address them as female out of politeness. Any kind of delusion that they’re “passing” is just that, a delusion. Medically transitioning is even more problematic. I don’t know how any ethical surgeon can mutilate healthy bodies. Again, it also make a mockery of female stereotypes. Even without the surgery it’s not a transition from a to b, it’s still a lifetime of daily medication?

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-27T18:23:37+00:00

Oh man I wanna find out what happened! All the comments made by this poster are concerning to me. Why are they so obsessed with how deep their wound is? Like the deeper the better somehow? And very odd dilating towards their bum. Tbh I can’t imagine how they enjoy sex with the hole at all given that the dilating alone sounds awful

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-23T23:11:23+00:00

I’m not sure that you’ve peaked yet. Have a look on Vice. It’s pretty peaky stuff.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-19T21:32:16+00:00

Hmm I’m not sure this is a great example. All women (and men who buy make-up of course) should boycott Max Factor as the heir is a convicted rapist: https://www.latimes.com/local/lanow/la-xpm-2013-apr-16-la-me-ln-luster-gets-50-years-20130416-story.html

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-19T20:39:40+00:00

A front hole? Regardless of whether you’re male or female I really hope that’s only for peeing.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-19T19:57:02+00:00

Haha I assume he said fanny? It’s not polite but it’s not transphobic to state the truth is it.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-13T09:40:03+00:00

SS has been all over the media recently. The last time this happened a few years ago it was about his weight loss. Reading between the lines of this and his recent interviews this gender dysmorphia seems to have stemmed from the fact that he used to be obese since childhood. He had gynaecomastia (boy boobs) and potentially also a more typically female fat distribution on his thighs and ass rather than the male belly. Maybe this was a hormone imbalance but maybe that’s sometimes just how it goes. Anyway, he was able to alleviate his feelings of fat shame by explaining to himself that he actually must’ve had a woman’s body and that his excess fat were actually synonymous with the curves of a woman. Hey presto - no longer has to feel bad about being overweight and gay (not my words!) if those parts are female identifying 😂 I swear whoever his therapist is must be laughing all the way to the bank...

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-13T09:29:17+00:00

This is never going to be the future. Think about HRT for women rather than men - it alleviates some of the symptoms of menopause, but not within side effects. And most importantly - it does not allow them to keep their fertility. So even though they have all the necessary female organs, structures, genes still etc - we have not yet worked out a way to administer female hormones to just keep it going! Then I’m supposed to believe that you could transplant that uterus into a male body and somehow make it work with HRT? How would their cells contain any instructions on how to make a placenta?! How would their bodies know how to respond to the babies demands for various nutrients from them through this system? How would these babies signal that they’re ready to be born? This whole debacle just shows how little people think of what being a woman means. We are not just men pumped full of HRT with a uterus sack inside us. The systems needed to create and sustain life are written into our genes. You either make small or large gametes and no amount of surgical tinkering or genetic mishap is going to change that.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-13T09:15:28+00:00

Very odd. I admit that perhaps the only deluded fantasy I haven’t seen any TIMs spout about online is FGM...I wonder if any of them find it dysphoric that it can’t ever apply to them? I know some incels compare it to circumcision which I agree is also barbaric but not in the same league. Funny how they’re never actually looking for really fucking shit female experiences isn’t it.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-13T09:08:16+00:00

4) Can you explain why gender identity does not exist? Don't cisgender people identify as/feel like they are the sex they were assigned at birth? Don't other animals identify as their sex assigned at birth due to lack of cognitive ability to identify as anything but their own sex?

I am offended by the term cisgender as it is comprised of two words - neither of which I identify with at all! I guess I’d compare not believing in gender identity in the same way that there’s lots of other belief systems that I don’t prescribe to, because I know that they’re not true - religion, Tooth Fairy, flat-earth, Santa Claus, curses, Loch Ness Monster, unicorns, Scientology, essential oils, the Law of Attraction. I could go on forever. But I am not defined by my non-belief in these systems. The except is perhaps religion, where I am forced into the label “atheist”. I also find it offensive to have to select this option of being defined “as not believing in a made up higher power.”

I don’t prescribe to many of the gender stereotypes - I rarely wear makeup or high heels, I hate shopping, I have lots of male friends, my hobbies are more often done by men. Yet it has never even occurred to me for a fleeting second that I might not be anything but a woman.

I’m glad that you bring up other species though because clearly other animals are not assigned anything at birth. I’ve watched a lot of David Attenborough documentaries and that has never been mentioned. I guess animals can instinctively tell which of them are which sex due to the fact that they usually look/smell a bit different. I guess the biological urge to successfully reproduce and pass on genes that fuels all life on this planet also sometimes means they behave differently. Anyway, my point is that we are also animals and we are no different! I could take a Lion, shave off his mane, castrate him, teach him how to hunt etc but something tells me that the rest of the pack are never going to be fooled. He’s not miraculously a lioness is he?

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-12T11:15:35+00:00

I couldn’t actually ring myself to watch this - but is this an example of what’s on TikTok?! I thought it was just dancing n stuff. There was a lot of explicit and offensive material. Mostly of women. I’m shocked. I worry for what children are exposed to online.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-08T08:19:44+00:00

I agree that this is a great idea.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-08T08:18:34+00:00

“All the things that bring happiness in life I've given up, like children, sports, or just being able to exist without being the target of discrimination.” WTF?! Clearly this person should’ve known that having his balls cut off was going to mean he’d never be a father. Of course he can still play sports - just not competitive/contact sports with women. And as for the last part, sounds like he just misses his male privilege.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-03T22:49:34+00:00

139 trans people in prison! Surely that is enough people now that they can just have their own prison? Or at least a wing of one. Problem solved.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-03T22:43:55+00:00

So the mothers advice was “if you [don't] want to be outed, just play it off,'" she told him. Outed?!?! It’s hilarious that anyone thinks they’re actually “passing”.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-11-03T22:34:22+00:00

I’d be fine with this. They should just make the gender box free format so people can write whatever they like to describe their personality. But only if the also have a preceding question which asks for your sex.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-10-25T17:38:10+00:00

“They are still hypocrites though for not calling out every writer that has offensive opinions.”

Ummm not sure about this as I don’t think JKR does have offensive opinions does she? I mean, anyone can disagree with anyone but I don’t think that anyone can say that her opinions are offensive or controversial. She’s definitely not even transphobic.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-10-24T07:37:48+00:00

“The issue of trans rights has divided Britain, with a split between traditionalists who believe gender is assigned at birth and progressives who believe a liberal society should make strides against any form of discrimination towards trans people.” I can’t believe THE DAILY MAIL wrote this!!!

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-10-20T20:11:21+00:00

Yes this. Exactly this. It’s brilliant. All I had to add was I don’t like sharing loos with blokes (eg on planes) because they have a habit of pissing everywhere and not always washing their hands. And wanking.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-10-20T20:06:41+00:00

Well that’s 15 mins of my life I’ll never get back 😂

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-10-19T20:21:16+00:00

Ugh I hate how he compares being an overweight man to being a woman. No your fat legs and man boobs are not girls thighs and girls breasts. A woman is not a man with a higher percentage of body fat Sam.

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-10-19T20:15:53+00:00

wontdiewaiting ...surely this is the point?!

SweetBabyCheeses · 2020-10-04T08:14:33+00:00

No. All in the reply.

wontdiewaiting ...surely this is the point?!

SweetBabyCheeses