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[–]JulienMayfair 22 insightful - 9 fun22 insightful - 8 fun23 insightful - 9 fun -  (3 children)

I can feel pity for someone who's neither attractive as a woman or as a man, but that's about the extent of my sympathy.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

She's not really my type but ngl she would probably be pretty popular with lesbians who are into masc trailer trash/country grunge aesthetics 🤷🏾‍♀️ if it weren't for the clear mental illness and predatory vibes atleast, that makes her suuuuper unattractive.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

as someone who has to admit a certain attraction to country grunge, this one is still a mess.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My early 80's self used to wear that shirt to catholic school

[–]hellonumpty 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

So checked this person twitter and like...she works with kids (nannying/childminding I'm assuming), posts the kids face on her twitter as well as nude photos of herself? Am I getting this right?

Hopefully I'm misunderstanding.

[–]SolRosenberg 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

[–]julesburm1891 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes. It looks like you got it right. Also, Raffi is a pretty renown and respected children’s musician in America. So, she’s trying to play off his name while being one of the last people I’d want to put around kids.

[–]MBMayfair 7 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

I saw one of her videos and she has the telltale froggy dwarf voice.

[–]Rosefield 16 insightful - 8 fun16 insightful - 7 fun17 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

That's not a bonus. That's a malus (at least for gay men). We should use the term malus hole when referring to homophobic women on steroids.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I’d hate to break it to the bearded lady, but gay men have penises as well as two holes. Yes, two holes. A mouth and an anus. We don’t need a third hole.

[–]julesburm1891 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Tbh, I’m struggling to imagine one person who wants to sleep with this woman. Between the hair, shitty mustache, horrible fashion choices, lackluster body, clear mental illness, and raging narcissism there’s not really anything to draw in anyone.

[–]RiverSong 16 insightful - 10 fun16 insightful - 9 fun17 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

She looks like a redneck truck driver named Buck, and I'm apologizing to redneck truck drivers for the insulting comparison. 😕

[–]hellonumpty 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think her boyfriend is also FTM.

[–]fuck_reddit 7 insightful - 7 fun7 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

What??? You mean you don’t want to spend a passionate night with the tiger king???

[–]reluctant_commenter 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You know, it's kinda fucked up people like this act like gay men will just fuck anything with a hole.

Like maybe you have that approach to sex, but that doesn't mean gay men do...

[–]Hyperborea 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Homophobic freak show

[–]Mikulbleu 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Can you imagine if Rachael Dolezal put the N-word in her twitter bio? But its completely okay for a woman to call herself the F slur. These people are so ignorant to history, sure its just a word, and that word might not bother YOU personally, but there are a lot of gay men alive today who were bashed and degraded with it, its one thing if WE use that word, but seeing outsiders tossing around a word that was used to bully me, especially when they regularly bully gay men sickens me. Its almost as if they actually hate gay men 🤨

[–]Virginia_Plain 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There's probably a big, sad story about why she is this way, but I really don't care anymore. I don't know what's happened, I've just recently lost any shred of sympathy for people like this. I have mild autism. I became in love with a straight friend. I was able to figure out, despite my cognitively deficient abilities to process social situations and understand others' theories of mind, that despite my deep unhappiness he was not obligated to want me back. I also never developed the level of resentment that these people exhibit. I instead became very depressed, feeling that I would never find anyone.

Why the hell is it that a literal special ed student with a developmental disability is able to figure this shit out better than this self-described nurturer.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 11 insightful - 6 fun11 insightful - 5 fun12 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Gross. I've said this before but I'll say it again: even if you, by some miracle of the gods and goddesses and the One Creator of All that Is, Was, and Ever Will Be, happened to be an actual biological male ... I still would not fuck you with a ten foot pole.

[–]CancelPowerSuper Bi Male 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

A genuine question. Is it bad that I still feel some sympathy for these things? Like, don't get me wrong, they are totally rapists and pieces of shit but...I just can't help but feel that they were probably born in shitty situations, with mental illnesses here and there, and just unfortunate overall. A normal healthy human being doesn't just wake up and say this shit.

I wish they take them away from society, not kill them or even imprison them, just take them away to some psychiatrist hospital and leave them there until researchers figure out an effective way to deal with them.

[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I don't think it's bad to feel empathy for fellow human beings, no matter how terrible or ill (mentally or otherwise) they are. Our ability to do so is what separates us from other life forms. We have self-awareness, and can be kind and cruel and discerning all at the same time.

Describing people as "these things"? Ehhhh ... I'm feeling a little judgy about that. But given the circumstances, I understand. And I also think it's important to not let sympathy override reality and truth.

I don't think locking them away is the right answer, as that gives more authority to the same forces that are allowing them to do what they do now. I'm not sure I have a solution though.

[–]CancelPowerSuper Bi Male 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, I admit that "these things" was a bit too harsh of me. I shouldn't have said that.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These people need intense mental health support and instead they're enabled in their delusions by everyone around them. There is no one to tell these people what's real and what's not; it reminds me of the mathematician from a brilliant mind who sees people who aren't really there and has a double life that's a complete fiction since he was in college, imagined a college roommate, imagined an entire career, just lost in his own mind. He asks people he knows are real to confirm that what he's seeing/who he's talking to also exists in reality and not just his mind. These people don't even have the benefit of being grounded by the people around them/loved ones. Everyone in their lives claps as they fall further into delusions and agrees that they should destroy themselves in the name of their delusions.

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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