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[–]joogabahGay shows the way 47 insightful - 2 fun47 insightful - 1 fun48 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Sexual rejection requires no justification or explanation whatsoever. To posit otherwise is a form of coercion that approaches the mindset of a rapist. It is totalitarian to police people's sexual desires or shame their dating preferences.

[–]JulienMayfair 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This is the right answer. These people have no boundaries. I always like what Queen Elizabeth is rumored to have said about the religious controversies of her time: "I have no wish to make windows into men's souls."

You should never even get into these arguments. All you should say is, "I like what I like, and it's none of your business."

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You should never even get into these arguments. All you should say is, "I like what I like, and it's none of your business."

Sage advice. My sole caveat (if any) would be adding the optional: "I also dislike what I disike, and THAT'S none of your business, either."

(Oh, and that quote from Queen Bess-- along with the sentiment behind it-- is a longtime fave of mine as well!)

[–]Rune 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"No" is a complete sentence.

[–]oyasuminasai50 39 insightful - 2 fun39 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

Well, frankly, if I were dating, and I found out on the first or second date that he couldn't ejaculate or get an erection, that might be a deal breaker for me? I mean, not if I really loved him, I'd get over it. But wanting a partner with functioning reproductive organs doesn't make you a monster.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I have exactly the same opinion with boobs for example lmao (I'm a lesbian). If for some reason (for example, health issues) a woman had to take off her boobs (mastectomy), that could be a deal breaker for me. I don't say 100% for sure, because I mean, if I had an incredible connection I would consider it for sure. OR if I was ALREADY in a relationship with her, I for sure wouldn't dump her for that and my love wouldn't suddenly disappear (that I'd personally say it would be cruel). But if it was a woman I was only just meeting and was like meh, then that would be a factor that would make me even more uninterested and could be a defining factor. I like boobs lmao and that's not hateful.

[–]fuck_reddit 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

ikr? Like I just saw a TRA saying "but that's just the symptoms of ED" in response to someone saying trans guys don't have real dicks and I was like "hm, I guess that's true, I don't think I could be with a guy with ED either." I don't think their logic is having the impact they think it is...

[–][deleted] 20 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

They also say “what if a woman is INFERTILE” when people say only women can have babies. Lolol. It’s all logical fallacies. The worst is when they compare race to trans

[–]fuck_reddit 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Theyre just so... so willfully obtuse... they take the most horribly simplistic arguments and think they’ve achieved an enlightened perspective.

[–]oyasuminasai50 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I mean, especially if you're in your 20s and 30s, you deserve at least a few decades of good sex, understanding that as we get older, sometimes prostate cancer or erectile dysfunction can develop. It's one thing to see the quality of your sex life decline in your 50s. It's another in your 20s.

[–]fuck_reddit 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I should clarify that I do have some nuance lol, my bf had a medical scare and was so stressed he couldn't get hard for a few weeks and we didn't know when it was going to end. I obviously stood by him (and it turned out to be nothing major so it's all good now).

[–]Rosefield 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Medical condition that has been fixed" . Biological sex isn't a medical condition and can't be "fixed" either.

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 29 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Why are people suddenly so fucking concerned with who OTHER PEOPLE want to fuck??

[–][deleted] 25 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Well, lesbians have been getting told we should want to fuck men for years. And couples, and women with boyfriends, and now men who want to be women, and women who don’t want to be women, or else we are HORRIBLE PEOPLE. So, since forever.

[–]jjdub7TERF (Trans Exterminating Reactionary Fascist) 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The fact that society has now attempted to push this lesbophobia via AGPs would be comical if it weren't absolutely insidious and terrifying.

[–]a_blue_bird 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It's not just ''genital'' preferences though. Even the best looking and best passing MTFs don't look like regular women. There's always something uncanny about their faces, their body shapes, their voices etc. Let's stop pretending that it's just about the genitals. It's about the whole body.

[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 8 fun17 insightful - 7 fun18 insightful - 8 fun -  (2 children)

I would really like to see these sources that come from supposed medical professionals, doctors, and surgeons that claim female humans can produce sperm.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 17 insightful - 6 fun17 insightful - 5 fun18 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

they think science is working on growing genitals in a vat that they can stick on.

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Mister Potato Junk, or Mx. Potato Junk, I guess, lololol

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Could someone tell me the link so that I support my fellow gay brothers and upvote? Lmao

[–][deleted] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 15 insightful - 5 fun15 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 5 fun -  (3 children)

Thanks! (I'm loving the gay men rage lmaoooooo!)

[–][deleted] 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

I'm loving the gay men rage lmaoooooo

Same. Us gay dudes will NOT put up with this bullshit.

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I’ve been waiting for this! Lol. These ppl are making a mistake coming for gay men.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It upsets me thinking they still have their space, while reddit has not fucking real lesbians sub anymore. I know reddit is male dominated, perv hetero males are far more common than the opposite, still sucks

[–]Poofter 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Transmen literally will never be able to produce semen. It’s ridiculous that that’s controversial to say, lol

[–]jjdub7TERF (Trans Exterminating Reactionary Fascist) 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not denying science

...I'm just insisting that its not important or in any way relevant

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That person has to be a troll

[–]notdelusionalbased faggot 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I haven't checked every car I've driven for an engine before starting it, but if I ever go to drive one that doesn't have an engine, I'm gonna be pissed and not want anything to do with that car.

[–]roach_titties 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sometime in the very distant future, maybe a complete and total sex change is possible, but until then I'm sticking with natural dick, thank you very much