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[–]oyasuminasai50 39 insightful - 2 fun39 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

Well, frankly, if I were dating, and I found out on the first or second date that he couldn't ejaculate or get an erection, that might be a deal breaker for me? I mean, not if I really loved him, I'd get over it. But wanting a partner with functioning reproductive organs doesn't make you a monster.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I have exactly the same opinion with boobs for example lmao (I'm a lesbian). If for some reason (for example, health issues) a woman had to take off her boobs (mastectomy), that could be a deal breaker for me. I don't say 100% for sure, because I mean, if I had an incredible connection I would consider it for sure. OR if I was ALREADY in a relationship with her, I for sure wouldn't dump her for that and my love wouldn't suddenly disappear (that I'd personally say it would be cruel). But if it was a woman I was only just meeting and was like meh, then that would be a factor that would make me even more uninterested and could be a defining factor. I like boobs lmao and that's not hateful.

[–]fuck_reddit 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

ikr? Like I just saw a TRA saying "but that's just the symptoms of ED" in response to someone saying trans guys don't have real dicks and I was like "hm, I guess that's true, I don't think I could be with a guy with ED either." I don't think their logic is having the impact they think it is...

[–][deleted] 20 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

They also say “what if a woman is INFERTILE” when people say only women can have babies. Lolol. It’s all logical fallacies. The worst is when they compare race to trans

[–]fuck_reddit 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Theyre just so... so willfully obtuse... they take the most horribly simplistic arguments and think they’ve achieved an enlightened perspective.

[–]oyasuminasai50 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I mean, especially if you're in your 20s and 30s, you deserve at least a few decades of good sex, understanding that as we get older, sometimes prostate cancer or erectile dysfunction can develop. It's one thing to see the quality of your sex life decline in your 50s. It's another in your 20s.

[–]fuck_reddit 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I should clarify that I do have some nuance lol, my bf had a medical scare and was so stressed he couldn't get hard for a few weeks and we didn't know when it was going to end. I obviously stood by him (and it turned out to be nothing major so it's all good now).