LesbianLesbians find it difficult to distinguish between their lack of desire for men and ... their lack of desire for men

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[–]ns_for_work 64 insightful - 5 fun64 insightful - 4 fun65 insightful - 5 fun -  (4 children)

It's funny when they imply that being attracted to the same sex is 'social conditioning' as if we were taught to be homosexual and it's just 'bigotry' keeping us from being bi/straight like ? Makes no sense

[–]jiljol 32 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

They harass us and pressure us to "re-examine" our "exclusionary and bigoted attraction" (aka homosexuality), but god forbid you tell them they should try re-examining their gender identity. Oh boy, that's a fucking act of violence right there.

[–]LiterallyawomanTERF IRL 22 insightful - 6 fun22 insightful - 5 fun23 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Homosexuality is SO passé now the cool kids have no gender, no boundaries, and no preferences besides their pronouns! And if you don’t agree you’re a terrible person and a genital fetishist!

[–]PlayCardsNotPeople 9 insightful - 9 fun9 insightful - 8 fun10 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Are you telling me you didn't attend lesbian classes in primary school to receive your conditioning? /s

[–]muhgurldick 37 insightful - 9 fun37 insightful - 8 fun38 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Transbians are literal cancer.

[–]PainfulTruthsMatter 39 insightful - 1 fun39 insightful - 0 fun40 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Further proof that transgenderism is inherently homophobic at its core and sees "same-sex" attraction as a real enemy for heterosexual males who identify as trans.

[–]fuck_reddit 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yep, like I can't imagine equating "hurt feelings" with a primal desire to avoid penis. Like wtf???

[–]notdelusionalbased faggot 32 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

"...the constant need to explain, educate, and advocate..."

There is nothing to explain because she knows you're male, and you know you're male. There is nothing to educate, unless what you really mean is indoctrinate. You can advocate all you want, but it's a waste of your time.

As a real man, meaning that I am male, it's embarrassing to observe other men doing this to women.

[–]BraveAndStunningTERF 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"...the constant need to explain, educate, and advocate..."

Its hard being a cult.

[–]SpatOuttheKoolaid 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"explain, educate, advocate" = Transplain, dictate, and bully

[–]chrysthefeminist 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"...the constant need to explain, educate, and advocate..."

Cry me a river.

[–]julesburm1891 30 insightful - 3 fun30 insightful - 2 fun31 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Gaslighting at its finest.

[–]LiterallyawomanTERF IRL 31 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 0 fun32 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The obsession with sex and the endless need of outside validation is unreal. I think the underlining lesson is

  1. You can’t force people to desire you

  2. No one “owes you a chance”

  3. It’s not other people’s responsibility to validate you. Treat you with respect? Yes! Fuck you? Hell no.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 25 insightful - 5 fun25 insightful - 4 fun26 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

Those people are pretty annoying, as because of their agenda, now sometimes straight men coming to me with something like "it is just preference, try with me! You'll like it!"

[–]fuck_reddit 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No different from "You've been converted by a homosexual/I was too overbearing of a mother, Jesus can help you break this affliction if you truly want to overcome it."

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They are straight men.

[–]peety 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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[–]Canardyyy 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

It’s not difficult to know who you’re attracted too and who you aren’t attracted too. For example, lesbians are attracted to other biological women and if they chose not to date someone with a penis, wether or not if they claim to be a woman, it’s perfectly fine and shouldn’t be considered transphobic.

If they were so concerned about their dating pool, they should date within their trans community or the pansexuals. But let’s face it, being a lesbian or with one is very fetishized within men.

[–]Jamiethiel2018 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

And the numpties are straight... no conversion therapy needed.

My heart breaks & I'm enraged for & on behalf of femmes.

I'm out of the dating pool, so I'm wondering: butch lesbians on OLD or IRL, do you get the same bs rapey approach?

[–]Canardyyy 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I’m also out of the dating pool. But I think butches are more or less considered eggs.

[–]Jamiethiel2018 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Yeah, perhaps just wishfull thinking that my younger sisters might survive.

[–]Canardyyy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think at this point is just try to make them understand you concerns when the time comes. Hopefully when that time comes, they won’t be too deep into their “movement” and will see what you are trying to convey.

[–]Jamiethiel2018 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I've only had one friend say, "But isn't it more about the person?" SMH. I simply said, "It doesn't work that way." I know most bisexual women absolutely understand this point, but she didn't. It was much easier talking to straight friends as the instinctually know no woman what do.

when this hits the fun, it'll be our fault (if we can't seperate, & god knows they get too much mileage out of LGBT to drop the label) and part of me world like receipts to hold everyone accountable. Edit: spelling

[–]Canardyyy 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly, they’ll blame us for their downfall, they’ll blame us because they can’t get laid, they’ll blame us for anything that goes wrong in their lives. But what they don’t know is eventually people will wake up, realize what they are saying is absolutely nonsense and come to terms that it’s wrong. And don’t worry, they are most likely gonna keep those receipts to blame us.

[–][deleted] 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

“Transphobic cultural conditioning” aka “noticing maleness and not getting sexy feelings”

[–]Liz-B-Anne 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Nope, nothing "conditioned" about it. And you're not gonna ex-gay condition me out of it either. Orientation is innate; maybe there's not a "gay gene" but it's not something you choose or can change. We've spent the past 40+ years trying to establish that fact scientifically and here come these narcissists trying to undo it. No such luck. Go swing your dicks elsewhere. We don't want them.

[–]Jamiethiel2018 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So glad they acknowledge unfair and accusatory statements sound...

unfair & accusatory.

[–]Quixoticfutz 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Creepy rapey bastards, just can't help themselves

[–]fijupanda 5 insightful - 6 fun5 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

lemme educate y'all

  1. gender is fluid
  2. fluid is a substance that continually deforms under an applied shear stress, or external force
  3. fluid can't resist any force applied to it
  4. just yell NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
  5. the gender fluid is gone.