Finally given up on ever looking through r/Actuallesbians again... Also this is a total fantasy.

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[–]GConly 48 insightful - 17 fun48 insightful - 16 fun49 insightful - 17 fun -  (2 children)

In my experience I have dealt more with chasers who happened to be women,

My bullshit detector is going off.

[–]rosegoldstar 39 insightful - 11 fun39 insightful - 10 fun40 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

gonna take a wild guess and say he was referring to other ~transbians~.

[–]lavender_menace 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

unless they count women they bullied, shamed, guilted or used pity (for themselves to get laid) as chasers

[–]LasagnaRossa 25 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

I still don't understand why they're unhappy about chasers. Some people seek and appreciate you for that specific body part, you should be happy. Unless they also objectify you, there's nothing wrong.

The situation is the same if you are blonde and attract "blonde chasers".

[–]MezozoicGay 28 insightful - 7 fun28 insightful - 6 fun29 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

But they want real lesbians to sleep with them, not someone who already likes penises.

[–]greenish 24 insightful - 3 fun24 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Because 'chasers' are interested in them for being trans, not for being women, and what they want is the validation of someone of their preferred sex (LOL) being attracted to them on the basis of being women, not as trans, which is invalidating of their delusions.

Many even like being objectified, but only if they think it's because they're women, not because they're trans. They will complain bitterly about the latter and use it to prove their "oppression", while being flattered by and seeking the former, because it makes them feel soooo sexy and validated.

[–]LasagnaRossa 19 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Hmm, I think you're right.

Because 'chasers' are interested in them for being trans, not for being women,

Well, who else would be attracted to them otherwise? What do they expect? LOL

Casually my boyfriend is one of those people who like trans women (too) for their "transness". When I told him his taste would actually be frowned upon by the trans community itself, he was surprised.

But that's reality: we are attracted to people because of their bodies too. I for example like women for their "womaness" and men for their "maleness". So called chasers are no different.

which is invalidating of their delusions.

I'm pretty sure that's the key.

[–]trannychaser 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Chaser here (username checks out). It's for exactly the reasons some smart people have identified below - if I seek them out for their transness, it breaks the illusion of being perceived as their desired gender.

It's really that simple.

[–]Tikiri 23 insightful - 5 fun23 insightful - 4 fun24 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

How much do you wanna bet that this same dude will be posting after a while that he’s not getting any dates etc. because the women ghost him or lose interest when they find out he’s a TiM?🙄

[–]trannychaser 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's probably already happened. This is extremely common.

[–][deleted] 15 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I mean I gave up on all of reddit a while ago. The place is just a lot of trans and TRAs and handmaidens. Fuck em.