How to have good, trad, LTR oriented dates?

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[–]asterias 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Eventually her friend called her and she left

Sounds like she had this prepared beforehand.

Anyway, tt's not clear what you are trying to accomplish here. And you probably have too much faith in females being able to make a conscious decision without getting carried away by their "feelings".

[–]Pink[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Sounds like she had this prepared beforehand.

Yeah I'm not sure how she did it, I don't think it was on the spot because she never got up to text. It would have been something where she wanted to spend some time at my place but not all night

[–]asterias 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's a strategy so that she gets an excuse to leave in case she doesn't like you.

[–]Pink[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Anyway, tt's not clear what you are trying to accomplish here. And you probably have too much faith in females being able to make a conscious decision without getting carried away by their "feelings".

I want a tradwife. And yes female decision making is stupid, I know that. I just don't know how to please these so-called conservative girls. Sadly I have to please them because their fathers can't arrange a marriage with me in 2021.

[–]asterias 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Your mindset is wrong. You shouldn't care too much about pleasing them. Do what pleases you instead. And don't be deceived thinking that those so-called conservative girls are any different that the rest, because usually they aren't.