Excellent question.

Ask any woman who is against feminism what it should be instead. I'd guess they'd say a more measured, balanced, approach, less about dominating and suppressing others, more about cooperating, keeping the family together, building on the strengths of each other, rather than focusing on the weaknesses or imbalances and inequities of nature. Being fair.

It's been a long time since we've seen that kind of rational thinking from people who identify as "feminists", so maybe go back to the 60s before the CIA's Gloria Steinem infiltrated, subverted, and changed the course of feminism.