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[–]TumbleweedFireflies🍷 your ol' drunk mod[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (1 child)

Peeps, when you link to Reddit, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE archive what you link to just before/after you share.

The OP of the Reddit post deleted. So now we can't see what they said with your link.

Luckily, Pushshift got it despite regular lags accessing and saving from Reddit APIs

I don't think you should have to out yourself as trans to your cis partners/potential partners. I'm sure people will disagree with me but, quite honestly? I don't give a shit.

Whether they're pre or post-op, if you can't love someone based off of whatever genitals they have, maybe you're just a coward who doesn't deserve to be in a relationship until you grow TF up.

I've felt this way for a l o n g time, even before I knew I was trans. My opinion still stands. If you're a gay man and you can't eat a little ACTUAL "bussy"? Then say you prefer cis men you fuckin coward and don't waste anyone's time. Same with lesbians. If you can't succ a lil dick (and you know damn well trans women keep it very clean), then idk maybe just say your love excludes trans women & be on your way.

Ofc there are some moments you might need to disclose your gender identity in terms of what pronouns you prefer. But otherwise? Nah.

Really tired of having to differentiate between "cis" women and "trans" women when I'm talking about women as a whole. I just love women & I'm no coward. If a woman shows up to a date with me, it goes well, we go back to her or my place, get a little freaky, and she pulls out a pre-installed strap? Less work for both of us let's fuckin GOOOOO. I'll call it whatever you want honey, just put it in my mouth.

That's the vibes dude. As it should be!!!👏🏾

Cut right to the chase and stop being a waste of time for people if you don't include trans individuals in your sexual orientation, and just shut the hell up.

Thank you for coming to my TEDxTalk😌

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 40 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 0 fun41 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

We shouldn't have to disclose it because sure, preferences I guess, but it really shouldn't be that big of a deal in the way that it is. And I'm not talking about abuse victims or a preference. If it matters that much then change your sexual identification since you wanna exclude trans people.

And when we changed our sexual identification to indicate that we want to exclude transpeople (super-), then you whine about that as well.

Also cannot stand that the only way (in their view) that you can justify not wanting to sleep with the opposite sex is to have been sexually abused or assaulted. What happened to 'no is a full sentence' and 'consent can be retracted at any point'?

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We shouldn't have to disclose it because sure, preferences I guess, but it really shouldn't be that big of a deal in the way that it is.

Maybe it's a big deal because some trans people actively catfish people by using clear cut deception?

Like Aideens who put padding in their crotches in order to pretend to have a bulge? Or MtF who abuse filters on dating apps in order to deceive lesbians?

Hell, I could apply this to HSTS who tuck out their dicks in order to deceive straight men.

[–]sneeuweekhoorn 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

People can have genital preferences and that isn't transphobic imo. What makes them transphobic is them trying to redefine other people's sexuality because they're insecure that other people don't have the same genital preferences as them and are fine with trans people.

Person redefining sexuality to be genital preference complaining about other people redefining sexualities is a special kind of stupid. How do they get to this point where they're so completely divorced from reality?

Agreed, however if they’re gonna be interacting with your junk it might get awkward or dangerous if you don’t mention it - we shouldn’t have to disclose our genitals but also some people won’t disclose that they don’t wanna be seeing certain genitals so it’s kinda a no-win situation right now

Jesus fucking Christ. When I say I'm a lesbian I am disclosing that I don't want to be seeing dicks. How the fuck else do these pieces of shit expect me to disclose that?

[–]hufflepuff-poet 32 insightful - 3 fun32 insightful - 2 fun33 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

These people have never had sex... "interacting with your junk", do they realize what actual healthy sex is or involves?! A decent portion of sex is "interacting with someone's junk", so yeah genitals and sexual attraction matter in dating!

[–]sneeuweekhoorn 23 insightful - 2 fun23 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Explains why they're so pro-rape, they'd never have sex otherwise.

Hell, even if someone could get past her genitals, no one is going to get past her narcissistic personality.

[–]dramasexual 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

her

edit: whoa my god I double checked and this rapist is actually a woman. My bad. This absolutely read as an MTF incel manifesto.

[–]lesbianbarbie 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

A lot of these aidens are narcissists the same as their MTF incel counterparts. They exhibit the same rage and entitlement issues.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

These people have never had sex...

They think hornyposting 24/7 on twitter is sex.

[–]xandit 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Super lesbian

[–]sneeuweekhoorn 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

They really didn't like it when we used that. It's almost like they don't actually want us to disclose our sexual orientation and just want to force us to have sex with them.

[–]chandra 28 insightful - 3 fun28 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

What annoys me more than the 'take the girldick, bigot' psychos are the ones who say we're allowed to want only dicks/vaginas but only if that includes post-op trans genitals. THEY ARE NOT THE SAME! But of course they can't admit that because that would mean admitting that there's a valid, material, non-bigoted reason to permanently exclude all trans people from your dating pool regardless of what efforts they make to transition, and that would bring their whole fantasy world crashing down.

Also this post is classic motivated reasoning: 'Real pure love is only based on standards I can meet; wanting something I can't give is immature, petty and bigoted, and people should stop it.'

[–]Sunflowerdevyl[S] 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Post-op genitals are actually the most unappealing to me.

[–]Finnegan7921 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Probably b/c they are not genitals.

[–]Sunflowerdevyl[S] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Well not anymore

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 2 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

They're stunning and brave gaping wounds that identify as genitals.

[–]julesburm1891 20 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 3 fun -  (7 children)

If you’re a gay man and you can’t eat a little ACTUAL “bussy”? Then say you prefer cis men you fuckin coward and don’t waste anyone’s time. Same with lesbians. If you can’t succ a lil dick (and you know damn well trans women keep it very clean), then idk maybe just say your love excludes trans women & be on your way.

  1. When we say we aren’t into the opposite sex, TRAs come for us with pitchforks and torches. Most LGB people would happily clarify this point on a tinder bio, but these crazies will have our account deleted if we do.
  2. Perhaps this could all be remedied by TRAs not forcibly redefining language with more zeal than a Soviet Bloc dictator. Up until a couple of years ago “I’m gay/lesbian” clearly meant “I don’t like the opposite sex, especially their genitalia.” Fuck off from the words we use to describe ourselves and you won’t run into this problem.
  3. Saying that transwomen keep their penises clean, ergo lesbians should want it is a weird flex. Firstly, citation needed. Secondly, claiming this is like stating that I should want to drink piss because it’s in a crystal goblet. It doesn’t matter how your present something I find revolting. I’m still not going to want it.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

ACTUAL “bussy”?

Oh my, their power level is showing.

Then say you prefer cis men you fuckin coward and don’t waste anyone’s time.

I could say the same about this person larping as man instead of accepting their biological sex.

Same with lesbians. If you can’t succ a lil dick (and you know damn well trans women keep it very clean)

No, they don't.

HSTS keep their dicks clean, but transbians (aka. AGP men) are grease balls who know nothing about personal hygiene.

[–]Finnegan7921 14 insightful - 5 fun14 insightful - 4 fun15 insightful - 5 fun -  (5 children)

The "keeping it clean" was the most absurd part imo. I'm sure there are truckloads of women out there who became lesbians for no other reason than their first sexual experiences were marred by dirty dicks. "I can't take the dick filth, I guess it's puss for me from now on." How can these people say it is not a mental illness when they define lesbian as "someone who has a aversion to dirty penises" ?

[–]ArthnoldManacatsamanOoh, flair. 9 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 7 fun -  (4 children)

I, a gay man, am also not super keen on dirty peen.

Am I a lesbian now too?

Yes.

uwu

[–]Finnegan7921 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah, but you're one of those special lesbians who is attracted to gay men. Totally simple, right ? That illustrates the absurdity of the state of the TQIA2+ mentality...if you actually said to one of them "I'm a lesbian who is attracted to gay dudes", they'd be totally ok with that.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsamanOoh, flair. 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

HOW DARE YOU ERASE

[–]xandit 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Lesbians try girl peen, the wieners are cleaner

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

🎵Girldick: It's strawberry flavoured 🎵

[–]sadbihours 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The OP post may be gone but the comments are still there and please stay away from me you rapists. Good God.

[–]pacmanla 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

This would all be remedied if people could just say that their only interested in being intimate/romantic with the biological sex of their sexual orientation. But, me being a heterosexual biological born male who's only interested in being intimate/romantic with heterosexual biological born females & stating that in my bio is grounds for a deleted account.

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    [–]DropTheT 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Look at how they act: "dont be a coward and stop wasting everyone's time. Just state that you're not interested in trans people"...as if we're scared to say it. And when someone does say it, it's apparently so devastating and so hateful that half their "community" will threaten to commit suicide and what was said was so dangerous that it must never be mentioned again.

    Their narratives are slowly transforming so they can try to reclaim their incel dignity: Theyre ashamed and embarrassed at how they got to this point where they achieved a conspiracy of silence by incessantly threatening to kill themselves if anyone said they wouldnt date them and it's transphobic... but now they want their dignity back and want to pretend the people they pleaded to stay silent out of pity for them are now cowardly snivelling little duplicitous rats who need to out themselves and "stop wasting everyone's time".

    See what happens when you give them an inch? Dont ever expect them not to use your complicity against you. Just like how most gays and lesbians, out of pity said: "sure, trans women are women now leave me alone". If you accept their premise, then they turn it around and say we're genital fetishists because we said trans women are women but lesbians said they wouldnt have sex with them so theyre perverts. Any premise you accept has inferences that can be used against you.

    So now they're revising history to pretend the silence they begged for under the threat of suicide is a silence of cowardice rather than given to them out of pity, disguising this issue by implying we personally feel like it's some sort of shameful secret and moral failure on our part that we need to confess that we dont see them as lesbian women or gay men.