RantRANT: Whycan't we have our own fucking spaces?

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[–]fuck_reddit 27 insightful - 10 fun27 insightful - 9 fun28 insightful - 10 fun -  (13 children)

Someone should make a FB group or subreddit with such a boring, conservative, religious title that no TRA would ever want to join. Something like a private discussion group for discussing St Thomas Aquinas for people in their third year of Catholic Seminary studying to become a Little Sister of the Poor. Then in actuality it’s for LGB people. That way there doesnt need to be any explicit “no trans” rules. Nor would we need to ban anyone. It would spread by word of mouth or something.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 27 insightful - 19 fun27 insightful - 18 fun28 insightful - 19 fun -  (2 children)

Just make it a support group for people to explore their past wrongs toward others and hold each other accountable for attempting to right those wrongs when feasible. You'll never see a TRA within a thousand miles of it.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Genius.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 11 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Professional victims have a predictable set of allergies. Accountability is number one.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 11 insightful - 14 fun11 insightful - 13 fun12 insightful - 14 fun -  (3 children)

The first lesbian porn I saw was when I was 13 years old during a school trip, it was about nuns scissoring and my crush was besides me. For this, I'm very fond of religious stuff related to sexuality. I'm in.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 6 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

Oh you~

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Do you like lesbian nuns too, babe? ;)

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 11 insightful - 7 fun11 insightful - 6 fun12 insightful - 7 fun -  (3 children)

Love this idea. I’m cracking up at your example. Have trans-identified males invaded nunneries yet?

[–]Taln_Reich 13 insightful - 6 fun13 insightful - 5 fun14 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

well, there's at least one trying https://twitter.com/JuPitch84/status/1380162187604426756

[–]julesburm1891 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Considering the Vatican really likes people who obey orders, I can’t imagine causing a scene and pestering everyone in the church will help this guy’s case.

[–]fuck_reddit 7 insightful - 9 fun7 insightful - 8 fun8 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Idk, i feel like they’d refuse to take the vow of chastity even though they’re clearly living it in practice

[–]millicentfawcett 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm in a FB group like this, women have been doing it for quite a while. Completely random group name that gives no hints as to what is discussed there. Admittance is word of mouth only and based on referral by an existing member preferably with some real life contact. Downsides are that it's totally private and off the radar of lots of women who would really benefit from joining will never know it's there. It would be the same with a group specific to the L, the G or B. Young LGB people who are just coming out really need to hear from older people that boundaries are okay and unfortunately super secret groups are counterintuitive to this. It's a real dilemma.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 5 insightful - 6 fun5 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

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