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[–]julesburm1891 48 insightful - 9 fun48 insightful - 8 fun49 insightful - 9 fun -  (7 children)

Transphobes have always been the fucking bane of the LGBT community

That part actually made me laugh when I first read it. He’s reacting to lesbians discussing not liking dick in this tantrum. So, what he’s saying is, “homosexuals have always been the bane of the gay community!” Uhh, okay.

But, you know, I also know a fair amount of older LGB people. Curiously, none of them remember trans people around much from the 70s-mid 2000s.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 30 insightful - 4 fun30 insightful - 3 fun31 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

I met 1 in the late 90's. They were unicorns they were so rare.

Now they are everywhere.

[–]julesburm1891 22 insightful - 3 fun22 insightful - 2 fun23 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

When I started university in 2010, there wasn’t a single trans or otherwise gender special person in our campus’s gay group. It was all LGB and TQ never came up. Somehow, TQ just exploded in that group in my senior year with no precursor. Always been around my ass.

[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Somehow, TQ just exploded in that group in my senior year with no precursor.

Why do you think that happened? Do you remember if something specific prompted it? When I came to my college in 2015 the QSU was almost entirely T, and genderspecial. There were a few ssa people, but none identified as gay, only queer, nonbinary, agender, pangender, those kinds of labels. I'm curious now if that "shift" happened on many campuses around the same time.

[–]julesburm1891 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

If I had to guess, tumblr. In fall 2010-fall 2012, it was LGB people. Spring 2013, it was suddenly a bunch of lesbians who became transmen and a bunch of straight girls who said they were asexual, pansexual, or demisexual. They were all big into tumblr. They were also all kind of awkward people who spent way too much time online and seemed to be looking for approval for others.

Idk. For whatever reason, tumblr seemed to push insecure people down rabbit holes and get people to go from 0 to 100 on things.

[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Huh, interesting. Were people just not using Tumblr before 2012 or did it actually come into existence then? I feel like TRA stuff weirdly arose somehow out of hipster culture, but I don't know how to explain that link.

I wish I'd been around to experience the gay group on my campus before it got overwhelmed with gender ideology.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 15 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

it was lg and then lgb... gender stuff was drag kings and queens, butch and fem lgb. now its all I'm the other gender or no gender or both genders or