you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–]worried19 21 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

Some of them apparently are that homophobic, at least according to the recent BBC report.

We did have a lot of families and parents who would actively tell us that, "oh, I'm so glad at least my child is not gay or lesbian," implying that having a trans outcome would be better for their children.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTRnrp9pXHY

[–]luckystar 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

They might be thinking if their child can fully "pass" one day that it'll be easier to "hide" than a child in a same sex relationship.

[–]Sittingonarainbow 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That is a fancy way to say the parents are homophobic.

[–]Wrencer 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Are we really back there ? To old fashioned homophobia ? Ewww

[–]Finnegan7921 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think that is also part of the woke cult. Being trans is higher on the ladder than just plain old gay; your kid is ONLY gay or lesbian, how passe'. The people that are ok with their kids being gay are going to be super excited that their kid is trans. They'll be the awesome parents of they/them and brag about how well they/them is doing with all of their newfound interests, friends, etc.

Also, how many of these parents absolutely fear being called transphobic if they question their kid being trans ? You have to take that into account when discerning their motives.

[–]worried19 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Some people are definitely on the woke train, but for others this sentiment seems to be about pure homophobia. The report mentioned that homophobia came up in all of the interviews. And this is in England, which is arguably much less homophobic than the United States.

[–]Killer_Danish 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lesbians still get LOTS of shit in schools and are usually found at the bottom of the social hierarchy.

In this day and age, becoming trans or enby is a means of upward social mobility for a lot of young lesbians. They go from picked on or ignored, to the most popular kid in school...