T is both anti-gay and anti-God by hetisachoice in LGBDropTheT

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God's anti-gay, what's your point?

LGBT in a nutshell. by Destruction in LGBDropTheT

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Ngl I thought they were kids at first

I need more alcohol to process this word salad fully. by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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I am nonbinary by fuckupaddams in GenderCritical

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Either Adrenaline or Around the Fur. Although, their album Like Linus is a banger. I haven't thought about it since I didn't think too hard picking this name haha, what about you?

Het gay bros, how do you keep your front hole moist? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This is why she needs to ask women and not men. One of the comments told her coconut oil is safe on genitals, but you don't put that shit inside your vagina.

You won't believe it's not transbutter by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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One of the basic things a gyno does is a pap smear, right? That involves the cervix, which transsexual males do not have. Men should not be wasting gyneocologists' time.

I am nonbinary by fuckupaddams in GenderCritical

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If I'm a first or second generation immigrant and the cultures in my home country and the country I live in are so different that masculinity and femininity are composed of different things, what am I?

The White House website’s simple act of trans solidarity proves why this will be the most inclusive administration ever by Rationalmind in GenderCritical

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I'm already exhausted.

How I became a gay man in one easy pill by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Que the fuck?

#cancelporn by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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I don't have tiktok but they sound like the standard male 'feminist' who uses the label to try to sleep with women, and girls on tiktok are probably more gullible.

Why should I accept male bodied people in female only bathrooms? by 1lemon in GenderCritical

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I'm so sorry that happened to you. Even a single incident of this happening should be one too many, but these genderites are too busy thinking that they are creating the next revolution and jerking themselves off over it to think that male erections might not be as important as women's basic human rights for just a moment. I am terrified to think about what might happen, especially since this isn't a medical scandal like all the others. Lobotomies were awful, but transing kids and sterilising gay youth and everything else all serve men and the patriarchy, and so I feel there will be huge amounts of residue left behind if this ever blows over. I've given up thinking that this could ever somehow be resolved within my lifetime and so I've resigned to accepting that sexual assault will be a part of life for most women. Rape and voyeurism have already happened to me and it is just a matter of counting down the days until it next strikes.

I'm sorry this was negative but I don't know what to tell women anymore other than to take care, take action, and watch shit unfold.

Trans bats are bats. by [deleted] in itsafetish

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Some Men are Women.

Get Over It!™

How I wake up every morning, cisgaying the day away by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I can definitely see why that is, what are your reasons for it?

How I wake up every morning, cisgaying the day away by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Same here, the term always reminds me of Blackfoot's album 'Tomcattin''.

TiF Talks About Weirdest Dysphoria Triggers by socialistrobot in GenderCritical

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Hmm, I wonder might be causing the dysphoria..

How I wake up every morning, cisgaying the day away by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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It's supposed to be an 'empowering' term for independent women, but I find it incredibly infantilising.

“some of the rejection of transgender gay men is rooted in misogyny, often expressed as fear or revulsion towards female bodies, especially female genitals.” by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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It might be because they're gay, sweetie.

Has anyone cut off or been cut off by friends and family over the political divide. by PencilPusher55 in AskSaidIt

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I'm in the UK and I'm no longer political. I focus on women's and children's rights, and can get on with just about anyone. From what I've seen though, it's mostly the woke left who distance themselves from me. I don't bother cutting people off because staying in an echo chamber is stressful, reminds you about the issues you're trying to fight against, and stops you from having a good time.

Having said that, I can't stand idiocy.

Brigading never ends on r/askgaybros... by lazy-summer-god in LGBDropTheT

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I personally noticed change in 2017, but I wasn't paying too much attention to the T at the time, just the lesbian parts. 2018 wasn't pretty, that's when there were a lot of lesbians with dissenting opinions getting clamped down on. 2019 is when I actively sought it out, and by then I think there were multiple trans moderators. Someone will have to back me up on this.

Brigading never ends on r/askgaybros... by lazy-summer-god in LGBDropTheT

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I'm bi not lesbian but I used to go there and not post in the good old days. The decline was painful to see.

Humanities vs sciences by HelloMomo in LGBDropTheT

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Oh yes please, I'd be interested in the resources.

English is my first language and while I know multiple languages, I want to study English language and linguistics. I just don't know how much of the future curriculum will be put towards TRA bullshit, and how much I'd have to censor myself if I choose to analyse something. I also adore philosophy and psychology, and I don't know, can we trust the latter these days?

I think the genderites in tech and uni need to learn to struggle in life a little lmao. There's more to life than accessorising your lack of personality with pronouns. (Not directed towards the people who have suffered sexual abuse or anything like that, I know gender can be an escape.)

What field are you in if you don't mind me asking?

Bi culture: possible? desirable? what should it look like? by PenseePansy in Bisexuals

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For me it happens to sync with my period, and I get my period every six weeks.

The weeks before, during, and after my period, I prefer women. The three weeks after that, I prefer men. I just so happen to prefer feminine women and masculine men, but overall I like all women.

The week I'm ovulating is usually the last week I prefer men, and it hits me hard, as in I just cannot stop thinking about them lmao and I'm constantly aroused. It all dies down and my preferences flip the next week.

I get intense mood swings in the week before my period, and I don't know how much of that is attributed to changing hormone levels, so I'm not sure if that's linked to the sudden change from obsessing over men to preferring women completely.

It's strange thinking about it and I wonder if it's all coincidence or if I'm making it up, but this has happened for a few years before I started tracking the cycle with my.. cycle.

Brigading never ends on r/askgaybros... by lazy-summer-god in LGBDropTheT

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AskGayBros has always felt so based compared to ActualLesbians, sometimes I go to AGB to feel jealous.

The fucking love that word by Mermer in GenderCritical

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They have ruined many words for me.

Valid, transition, HRT, preferences, inherent, natal, normativity, feminine, gender, discriminate, tolerate, identify, identity, rights, progressive, liberal, politics, nazi, bigot, woman, inclusion, exclusion, lesbian, spectrum, diverse.. the list is much longer than that but you get the picture.

Humanities vs sciences by HelloMomo in LGBDropTheT

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I work in tech and the techy education I went through (not uni) was mildly woke (I live in the UK) and right now I can mostly brush it off without participating. Still gets on my nerves though.

I'm put off of art and language now because of the TRA bullshit. I may study online when I decide to attend uni, hopefully that will help a little.

Transgender book for teens includes account of 6-year-old enjoying oral sex by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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This is a book which talks about a six year old being raped and being too young to understand the implications of boundaries being crossed. No six year old 'performs' oral 'sex' on someone else and LIKES IT.

Does anyone else feel weird describing themselves as their sexual orientation, because the words have become so watered-down now? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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I say I'm interested in both sexes to avoid the bigenderal 'sex is a spectrum' bullshit.

Since bisexuality manifests differently from person to person - preferring one over the other, only wanting to do one thing with women and another thing with men - it started off being pretty watered down already. I don't associate with men much, which lets me avoid the men who 'discovered' they were 'bisexual' after watching BDSM sissy porn or some shit, and I'm happy about that because I found they tend to be misogynistic (having sex for the sake of it, having sex with any hole). I don't talk to minors for casual conversation, so I'm mostly around bisexuals who aren't looking for attention and don't think it's a cool label.

I found that there are women at any age who will say they're bisexual but are obviously straight.

I am pissed that despite bisexuality literally being the most inclusive sexuality, TRAs and libfems managed to spin it so that it requires even more intersectionality.

I am in the UK btw. People here a bit more sane, queer isn't really a thing, but I see organisations pushing for it. It might be more of a thing in universities, but I wouldn't know that.

Bi culture: possible? desirable? what should it look like? by PenseePansy in Bisexuals

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This isn't really a culture thing but I track my bi cycling with my menstrual cycle. Obviously this isn't really possible for men but it would be cool to have stuff with moons, kind of like a way of getting back at people who say it's a phase, like a moon phase.

I'm surprised this post wasn't removed. by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

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That's interesting, I haven't seen it from radical feminists much before. I think radical feminism is a good way of pinpointing what causes female oppression and how women also uphold the patriarchy along with men. Could you give some examples?

The cis fag and the neuroqueer gigadyke by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I want to get off Mr TRA's Wild Ride (personal vent) by TransspeciesUnicorn in LGBDropTheT

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A man heading a girls' orphanage sounds like the grounds for a news story..

What is a butch transbian? I want to understand. by bolla_top in GenderCritical

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A man who wants to correctively rape lesbians, and harm women and girls.