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[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (23 children)

yes we have a biological need for sex, and we go nuts without it. 100% agreed there.

[–]VulptexVoluntaryist 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (22 children)

It's not my need to ejaculate thst is the problem although that is annoying. Being male does a lot more to you than just sex. A WHOLE lot more. It redefines every aspect of you, even mentally, which I really hate being someone who wants autonomy. And the way it changes you is not positive. Not for yourself at least.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (21 children)

I agree there. not just ejaculating or porn and masturbating would be enough. Or even a prostitute. Not just sex, need validation, love, a family. Even if married though sometimes women start refusing to have sex, as they may have gotten married just for resources. It starts with sex though, if you were really asexual and you also didn't want a romantic relationship you'd be happy and not complaining that anything is wrong, you sense something is wrong with society but you have a hard time realizing what.

[–]VulptexVoluntaryist 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (20 children)

No, the problem is I want one thing when I am developed to be good at another thing. Just because I don't want sex doesn't mean my body won't listen to its genetic code to design me for it above all else. I wouldn't care except that it gets in the way of what I want and destroys my life. Not only do I have zero talent anymore and no creativity or intelligence, but my emotions suck and I can't even perceive color or other senses vividly anymore. It's hell, and all in exchange for something I don't want in the first place. I don't like what I'm changing into, I liked how I was before.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (19 children)

yeah that genetic code is why you want sex

hard to change that, maybe these mRNA vaccines can? Besides something like that I'd say accept reality. You're down on yourself but you seem like a good, smart guy. I don't have answers for you, I won't sugarcoat it either. I'd just say gather all your best copes and enjoy life as much as you can, death is just a void, nothingness. IMO that is worse than hell.

[–]VulptexVoluntaryist 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (18 children)

hard to change that

Mutations. My brain is obviously colossally fucked up in many ways, so I'm not surprised. By your logic it's also impossible to be gay or bi which we know isn't true.

IMO that is worse than hell.

I don't believe that but even if it is I think you're confused about what it means. It's the state of unconsciousness, not you sitting in blackness with your thoughts forever.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (17 children)

ok yeah i thought you were the one misudnerstanding it, yeah it's state of unconscious, which to me is worse than hell. Of course when we're unconscious and sleeping we either dream or we will be conscious again when we awake. But forever nothingess is worse, you may think that's preferable to the pain of life but life is a gift, we're lucky we got it.

[–]VulptexVoluntaryist 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (16 children)

If that's the case then I have all the more reasons to hate how mine turned out.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (15 children)

1>0

so what this means is something is better than nothing. You could have winded up with nothing meaning you could have never been born. Or maybe if you were, you could have been born as an animal with no consciousness. You could have been an amoeba. There are even interpretations of the fermi paradox that earth has the only intelligent life in the universe. You might have won the biggest lottery ever, literally 1 in 1 trillion trillion.

[–]VulptexVoluntaryist 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

A lottery assumes the prexistence of souls who want to be incarnated. And you already stated you don't believe in that.

[–]VulptexVoluntaryist 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

You're also forgetting that 0 > -1 ;)