are just spewing typical anti-male feminist bullshit

I'm posting accurate data to correct your misinformation. Triggered much?

Do you want sources, because I check literally every fact.

Btw, it's not 90% of spending.

Leading gender analysts Catalyst.Org, estimates that, on average, 67% of all UK Household consumption is controlled or influenced by women.

Bloomberg puts it about about 70-80%

Some data on how this money gets spent.

https://www.royallondon.com/media/press-releases/press-releases-2020/january2/how-men-and-women-divide-the-household-money-chores-revealed---royal-london-research/

Women living with their partner overwhelmingly take control of two money chores – the day-to-day spending (the “purse strings”) (55 per cent of women versus 31 per cent of men living with a partner say it’s their responsibility),

Like I said, it's groceries and the like. Want to have more control? Buy the food yourself.

I can find the data on the deaths too.

Why men often die earlier than women

Why Men Die Younger Than Women

The top three causes of death contributing to higher mortality in males than in females were heart disease, road injuries, and lung cancers.

Danger zone: Men, masculinity and occupational health and safety in high risk occupations

In general, men have demonstrated that they are more likely than women to engage in risky activities, such as smoking, alcohol overuse and unsafe sexual practices (Dolan, 2011; Creighton and Oliffe, 2010). Conversely, men are less likely than women to engage in health seeking and health promotion behaviours (Berger et al., 2005; Addis and Mahalik, 2003).

If you want to know how male risk taking leads to excess male deaths, I suggest you look at the list of deaths in Disneyland. Some tragedies, but mostly 14-24 yo males farting about.

If you look at the dangerous jobs, a lot of them are self employed, or very outdoors types working heavy machinery. Ignoring safety regs is a big issue in deaths there. Men are attracted to these jobs, idk why. Mix of pay, personal freedom, and no office bs I guess.

Next time check your facts before you spew.