Two guys have a healthy relationship with each other? Clearly they’re gay undercover lovers who can’t come out quite yet and are such small UwU beans!!

And a lot of that is driven by women. I might see or hear a guy make a "lol homos" crack about two guys being bros, but it's almost always a one-off thing and quickly forgotten. But women? They'll latch on to that shit with a terrifying fervor and spin an entire reality around it. There was boy band, One Direction I think, that had some really insane--to the point where the members themselves actually became unpleasantly aware of it--gay shipping going on with its members, and almost all of it from women. And I know that male k-pop groups have to deal with it too, again almost entirely from women.

But that's not evidence of toxic femininity, is it? No such thing exists.