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[–]hufflepuff-poet 36 insightful - 4 fun36 insightful - 3 fun37 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

So many people coming out as "q*eer", wtf does that even mean?! Are you coming out as same-sex attracted, bisexual, asexual, trans, or just extra special spicy straight?! I'm so tired of this slur being used as a blanket term for LGB and TQ+, it's useless.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 21 insightful - 13 fun21 insightful - 12 fun22 insightful - 13 fun -  (1 child)

The actor and singer came out as LGBTQ after making comments about finding Harry Styles “hot.”

that must be difficult to be gay AND a lesbian AND bi

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Also finding someone aesthetically pleasing doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. I think many male actors/models are nice to look at, but I don't find them sexually appealing.

[–]Rage-Xion 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So the only LGBs are

Colton Underwood T.J. Osborne Carl Nassib Kehlani Josh Cavallo ...

[–][deleted] 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Why come out as lesbian when you'll be harassed/threatened/assaulted for not dating men when you can come out as queer and you don't have to explain shit to anyone?

[–]Mermer 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

They said they’ve always felt like they “don’t fit in anywhere,” and now when they look at their reflection, see “a human being so far away from norms, misogyny and labels.”

Ah yes. I'm not like other girls, misogyny doesn't concern me.

I'm sorry girl, but you can't escape misogyny.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 16 insightful - 5 fun16 insightful - 4 fun17 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Also the picture they chose for her just had to be a highly feminine Marilyn Monroe look.

[–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They still don't get it. Misogyny caused a lot of this bullshit in the first place. Treat little girls like garbage then wonder why they all want to be little boys...

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

“Queer bride”? Someone tell this trendster who is totes not like the other girls that wearing a bridal gown and identifying as “queer” is not the subversive act she hopes it will be. Literally no one cares anywhere unless you’re trying to marry a member of the opposite same sex. Which we all know she won’t. And she knows it too. Because even if she were attracted to the opposite same sex (which she’s not), marrying a woman would actually tank her career. Whereas this keeps her relevant and trendy.

[–]dilsencySame-sex community 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think you mean same-sex, lol.

[–]Bright_paintingLoad, lesbian biologist 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why would it tank her career to marry someone of the opposite sex?

[–]Hannibalboy93 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sarah Ramirez is cringey as fuck on " And just like that"

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

how saying you're a... hm... "she/they" is coming out... I'm so tired

and to be honest how can women say openly they're lesbian if they have a group of deranged TRAs that will make them say that dicks are included in their "gender attraction". it's asking for troubles and sane women have enough of those already.