LGB ErasureThere's no such thing as "bi lesbian" or "bi gay". Quit this bullshit

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[–]DisillusionedDrop the T like it's hot[S] 27 insightful - 13 fun27 insightful - 12 fun28 insightful - 13 fun -  (9 children)

And yes, op is male

[–]hellonumpty 20 insightful - 6 fun20 insightful - 5 fun21 insightful - 6 fun -  (3 children)

I noticed that most, if not all, pushing the whole 'bi lesbian' thing on AL are indeed male which honestly is so on brand for TRAs and their reality denial. They also say that anyone against 'bi lesbians' are TERFs or TERF-adjacent so any lesbian or bi women that disagree with the concept of bi lesbians come off as TERFs.

[–]bastetkat 18 insightful - 11 fun18 insightful - 10 fun19 insightful - 11 fun -  (1 child)

They also say that “bi lesbian” was created by “TERFs”. They really can’t make up their minds.

[–]hellonumpty 15 insightful - 6 fun15 insightful - 5 fun16 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

I totally forgot they say this! But yes, I've seen them say that it was created by TERFs to 'other' lesbians who are into trans women. Then other times they say that 'bi lesbians' have actually always historically existed but TERFs pushed them out. Their fairytales are wild.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I noticed that most

Impertinent reply to compliment you on your username.

[–]HollywoodLESBIAN 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Most of the "bi lesbian" bullshit I see on Twitter is perpetuated by trans women. Then when real lesbians call them out they say we need to stop policing their identities

[–]CJLez 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You know those accounts who go into threads and just spam k-pop videos to stiffle debate with 'never mind that, here's a video of ABC from XYZ'? I've noticed a trend recently where they've started doing it against the 'bi lesbians.' I don't know if it's different groups adopting the same tactics or if more people are starting to get annoyed.

[–]Gearbeta 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It seems like at least on twitter, people don't really like the term "bi lesbian"(they were or are claiming TERFs made it up...). I remember there was a tiny bit of drama regarding that and the other weird one that popped up which was "straight lesbian" which people HATED. So twitter knows, at least on paper that lesbians are not attracted to men but they won't understand this consistently. So transwoman who looks exactly like a man with a woman is a lesbian, but if you say you're a lesbian and fuck cismen or imply that you do, they will get mad at you.

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

L o fucking l. This is like when my male ex came out to me as a non-binary woman.

[–]PriestTheyCalledHimBisexual 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Wait what? How is he, a man, non-binary, and also supposedly a woman or trans woman? How did you meet him?

I have femme, and androgynous bisexual and gay male friends but they are not non-binary, and even the ones who are part time drag queens have no desire to transition, identify as women, etc. They are ages late 30s to mid 50s so if they were teens or young adults today they would be pressured to transition, identify as non-binary, etc.