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A blog about the translabrys flag. No TERFS allowed. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Are they gonna use the labrys to cut off their dicks?

Students: How are you doing? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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This is an old post but I really want to share my thoughts...

It's difficult, I decided to go studying something I never did before but I was (and am) curious about it.

It feels like time is never enough to read the books, compare notes, rewrite and study. Also, some professors act like we should already know what they are talking about (looking at you, math's prof).

I get distracted pretty easily and feel like I'm not retaining enough information and some of the books feel like they were written by assholes that like overcomplicating stuff, full of typos and repetitions.

(Sorry form my English, am not native).

What is everyone doing for Halloween? by WildwoodFlower in Lesbians

[–]Disillusioned 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Making crafts, studying and hopefully making some Halloween activities with my niece! This year I'm really crazy about Halloween shit.

Btw, if you have some 180gsm paper and a colour printer, go to creative park (canon) and see the beautiful crafts they offer! Or just browse Pinterest :)

What do you gals like about women that straight men usually don't? by Gynephile in Lesbians

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I like women that are funny, independent and smart. I like when they are not afraid of sharing their opinions with me (without being assh-les about them). You, see. Most men don't like any of these things!

Any thoughts of friends with benefits? by Lizzythelezzo in Lesbians

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I had a friend with benefits, kind of. We didn't actually have sex. I liked her very much and she liked me, we were pretty similar and enojed hanging out together. I almost fell for her.

Now I'm in a relationship (and hope it won't end) but I think that the whole thing is not for me. I like having a good connection and intimacy before having sex and don't think that I'll have those with a "friend" and if I did, I'd probably fall for her!

TRA's Continuating bridage of askgaybros by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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That's why I wish we could... I know we get banned and threaten for saying such things!

TRA's Continuating bridage of askgaybros by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I wanna thank all the gay men that participated in that thread! I wish my lesbian sisters did the same (in lesbian spaces of course)

Trans people need to be the centre of attention at all time, even on a bass subreddit, or else they will literally die. by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT

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"sex and gender are two different things. Also I'm female even tho I was born xy, have a penis and I'm not intersex! And how dare you making a poll asking for sex and not gender and how can you disagree that there are more than two sexes in homo sapiens?!"

Height difference when dating by [deleted] in Lesbians

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Me and my gf are almost the same height, I'm a bit taller, tho.

Let's say that I do care, I don't wanna a gf under 150cm nor above 175cm. I think 20cm of difference would be too much for me, too

Any Lesbian Programmers? by LesbiSilly in Lesbians

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I always wanted to learn python! But I lack perseverance and don't know well how to schedule the lessons. Anytime I tried I couldn't focus or progress a lot because I have to study, to do this and that. Consider me a wanna be programmer, I swear that I'll get a hold of it!

Just another laydeee committing a laydeee crime... by BEB in GenderCritical

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They "gender and sex are different things"

Also them "Transwomen are female".

Pros of being a lesbian? by Shroomba in Lesbians

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Not having to deal with men sexually and romantically, that's a great plus to me! Then, women and the ability to connect with them on another level

*One* dating app for lesbians exists and you can guess the reaction. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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I really don't understand what their problem is with "cis"-exclusive spaces.

"Since when has an influx of trans people on dating websites actually been an issue for anyone though"

Since you can't filter them out and they often lie about it?

everyone's feelings and anxieties are valid unless a lesbian woman experiences them by Disillusioned in Lesbians

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My ex, that was bi, called me a bigot because I told her that a 3some with a man won't ever happen, ever!

I'm a lesbian, FFS. I don't wanna see a naked man, I don't want a man to fuck my gf nor to fuck me. I'm gay, this statement won't change unless I was bisexual, a thing I'm not.

everyone's feelings and anxieties are valid unless a lesbian woman experiences them by Disillusioned in Lesbians

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I agree with all you said. I'm fine with my partner being bi but I sure don't wanna talk about their attraction to men, too.

Some people see this as biphobic, I don't care! It makes me uncomfortable.

everyone's feelings and anxieties are valid unless a lesbian woman experiences them

by Disillusioned to /s/Lesbians from i.imgur.com

Threesomes or polyamory by Jessica1993 in Lesbians

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It's not my cup of tea. I think anyone can do what they want but I don't wanna be treated like a bigot because I seriously believe in monogamy and want an exclusive monogamous relationship (so no threesomes, open relationships and polyamory).

There's no such thing as "bi lesbian" or "bi gay". Quit this bullshit by Disillusioned in LGBDropTheT

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And yes, op is male

There's no such thing as "bi lesbian" or "bi gay". Quit this bullshitLGB Erasure

by Disillusioned to /s/LGBDropTheT from i.imgur.com

Notice the sub’s name? Guess that means nothing. There’s no space only for women anymore. by letal_22 in GenderCritical

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Like heterosexual sex or male body aren't discussed enough.

They should fuck off.

They're targeting Gaybros today by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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They can't understand that homosexuals like interacting with the right genitals. They usually say shit like "my pussy/dick doesn't need to be involved in sex!" Wtf

I think I was just raped and I really need support by DevianttKitten in GenderCritical

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I have reading comprehension problems, did you tell him 'no' except the upset belly thing? Not that it changes much, he should have got hint that you didn't feel like it. Plus the fact that he didn't ask your permission and didn't use lube makes him even a bigger asshole. Men like that are just jerks, they think that anything they see happen in porn is A-OK, they don't even think that many women may not be into it and that they should always ask what they can and can't. I bet he knows that women often stay silent in order not to get killed or injured and he takes advantage of it. Talk to a helpline and remember that it's not your fault.

Censorship Thursday - share your sub bans here! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Banned from Dankleft for saying that transgenders shouldn't be offended by being reminded they are biologically the other sex. I meant like doctor appointments, reading or hearing it casually (like a biology book saying that only females can menstruate)

How did you and your partner(s)/ex-partner(s) meet? by IamWomanHearMeRoar in Lesbians

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My ex on a group with gals from a forum. My current on a dating app. Met a ''fling'' at school. That's it, I'm pretty boring and socially awkward.

Languages you speak/are learning? by Vernalmuffins in Lesbians

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Native: Italian and Polish B2(?): English, I mean, I have no problem with understanding. B1ish: German, Spanish (but I have pretty much abandoned it).

I want to learn Russian but I'm focusing on other things rn.

Has there been an instant spark with your romantic interests or did the attraction take time to develop? by piylot in Lesbians

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Our first date, initially I thought she was pretty and even better than the photos. Then she hit me with a nice personality, she was funnier and less cold than I expected. After some time I wanted to touch her, felt butterflies etc. Was curious about seeing her again.

So yeah, I was attracted almost from the very beginning. However, usually I'm someone who needs a bit of time but considering her pretty is a must

How do you stay active/exercise? by Vernalmuffins in Lesbians

[–]Disillusioned 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am using apps (the silly 30 days ones), darebee which has free workouts and a pair of dumbbells. I used to go out for intense walks but now it gives me anxiety and I have noone to go on them with. Gf doesn't live close.

What's your petty dealbreaker for relationships? by Jaded in Lesbians

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I love every bit of your answer.

Of course it doesn't matter that the prefix ''bi'' in bisexual literally means two. The meaning of the flag also doesn't matter! /s by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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fixed