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[–]Iridescence 46 insightful - 5 fun46 insightful - 4 fun47 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

What I find really disturbing about this thread is all the responses saying 'it's ok to want a divorce because you're not attracted to women', like that's the only issue at hand here. The issues she brought up are not to do with her trans husband's 'femininity' - unless masturbating in someone else's underwear, dressing in an excessively sexual and provocative manner, and complaining that you're not on your period are essential features of womanhood. It's not about 'I don't want to be married to a woman', it's more like 'I don't want to be married to a pervert'...

[–]No_ 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

They might be saying that since reddit will ban the truth.

When people say that, I hear “leave, he’s crazy”

I would phrase my response as such so as not to have it removed.

[–]yousaythosethings 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't know what would be more disturbing - that people and especially women know exactly what they can't say even though they believe it and the creepiness and narcissism of this guy is so self-evident or that people and especially women have been so indoctrinated that their minds just glaze over and ignore all of the creepy shit and jump right to validation? Which is more dystopian?