Why aren't there any lesbian stories/studies on the internet?

yellowtail · 2021-10-16T21:07:01+00:00

i think theyre just called gays, not gay men. unless we want gays to start calling themselves gay lesbians.

Lesbians tend not to have any coming out stories because they come out much later in life since theyre very comfortable with their close proximity to bisexuals politically and culturally, and are confused about their sexuality to the point where they end up coming out at 28 or well into their adult years.

https://www.youtube.com/c/MissFenderr

this is a lebsian i used to watch. she spent so much of her time pushing for bi political activism and thought she was bi for the longest time. she's over 25 and squandered so much of her energy into contributing to a group she's not even a part of. She was even about to marry a man. And now she's come out as a lesbian. I feel like the lesbian community doesnt have any cohesion because the small time of their lives that's supposed to be spent building your community and identity, they squander on their "bisexual" phase and all their energy is given to another community.

yellowtail · 2021-10-13T13:15:58+00:00

The only way these people (AGP men) hijacked our institutions was by calling every single institution and lobby group racist because it wasnt representing black people and it was mostly white people with money...which was the point: they were the best to represent homosexual interests.

But they kept invoking "intersectionalism" over and over again. Fetishizing blackness and its "victimhood". Every single gay and lesbian lobby group was hijacked by them through charges of racism. And now that very same oppression olympics they uplifted and used against gays and lesbians is now screwing them over because he's black.

yellowtail · 2021-10-13T13:13:10+00:00

It's interesting how over and over again, on multiple twitter accounts and even comments on reddit, these straight men in wigs have been trying (but failing) to manipulate the anger they provoked on to gays and it inevitably goes on to lesbians.

Homosexuals always had to be clever in how we were accepted. It had to be a mist of acceptance that was organic and natural, where people just naturally spoke well of us. And these people came on in a time of severe consequences for violating political correctness. That's when they were successful in hijacking gay/lesbian lobbying groups and made them all trans. So when gays and lesbians actually built social and cultural capital, respect and a proper movement we could bequeath to gay and lesbian kids, all of that energy and money, and compassion and trust we built with heteros was squandered on harassing straight people with pronouns.

yellowtail · 2021-10-12T05:58:08+00:00

How? How does that even work? The only people who i see misuse racism charges as if they'd even work are the black LGB. You're the ones who originally started the "fuck me you bigots" campaign.

You're also the ones who helped spread black homophobia by justifying it until it blew up in your face and now you're deprived of the forgiveness you seek for your own mistakes.

The black community has been given a pass to be as homophobic as the KKK specifically because of people like you who deflect charges of homophobia by saying, "oh yeah! you think homophobia within the black community is bad? They kill, beat and kick their own black gay children into the streets!? Well, wait till you get a hold of the racism from the most progressive community on the planet: the gay community! White supermodels wont have sex with me so theyre racist!" and then made the problem seem like it's 50/50.

So..thanks for that.

yellowtail · 2021-10-12T05:53:17+00:00

It goes far beyond that and even seeps into the gay community further: Gay "tops" are misogynistic for not wanting to have sex with a "bottom" who puts 20 lbs of make up on their face and acts like an idiot. Gay "tops" need to search within themselves to explore and purge their inner misogyny for not wanting to have sex with someone who goes "YAAAAS KWEEEEN SLAAAAY".

yellowtail · 2021-10-12T05:00:15+00:00

This is going to be a massive problem for homosexuals. We built the community, struggled to humanize our same sex attractions and our humanity in spite of everyone else, and this has been talked about plenty to screw us over: to "negotiate" for representation and come to a compromise where all our hard work ends up being siphoned off by bisexuals.

So all our hard work as a community amounts to: "we hate you for being gay...but let's negotiate and give you a homophobic compromise: let him be half and half". And bisexuals have no problem leveraging homophobia against gays to achieve this. Superman's son should have been gay. And this problem and pattern is going to repeat and these people will be complicit in pushing this.

It's similar to how racist white people made a "compromise" with black people for representation by accepting biracial people only and that caused even more problems for the black community to "teach" them what type of black was acceptable and normal.

yellowtail · 2021-10-08T03:32:44+00:00

They fetishize and obsess over gay men. Half the internet is now filled with straight women obsessing over gay men having sex with each other.

yellowtail · 2021-10-08T03:31:36+00:00

It's a homophobic sense of entitlement.

yellowtail · 2021-10-08T03:30:01+00:00

You personally had the conversation? You did well. And these people dont get it and never will. She essentializes heteronormativity to such an extreme that she thinks it's biological and knows she's "violating" biology in her head. So she does see herself as "the woman" and wants a gay man to be her man? So she just thinks gay guys are into "non women", whatever that means?

Theyre missing that the entire history of homophobia was gender roles. And her narcissism and sense of entitlement: "well, you're not part of the Multi-Level-Marketing community? Who are you, as a homosexual to even complain about the place i'm colonizing? You're not a gay man. Oh, you're inextricably linked to homosexual males and are a permanent part of their community? Well, ....well" lol they hate, and i mean hate when they very slowly find out gays and lesbians are permanently linked together and have to back each other up because the homophobia affects both.

They have this homophobic sense of entitlement of, "excuse me, im a hetero woman trying to colonize homosexual males and their community....you can quietly stand over there as the straight men attempt to do the same to you".

yellowtail · 2021-10-08T03:23:16+00:00

How is this any different than fox news hiring black hosts to attack black people? "Gays are pathetic losers and...theyre gender critical because theyre soooo unchic and they dress bad!" Ok? And he spends most of his time telling us how he's not sexually attracted to them? AND?

yellowtail · 2021-10-06T05:41:43+00:00

I've talked to multiple people like this. Hormones dont work the way people think they do. In the old days throughout pathologizing and medicalizing homosexuality, doctors in the 30's thought "gay men just need more testosterone and they'll be so manly that they'll want to have sex with women!" and that "lesbians need more estrogen pumped into them so they can become sexually submissive to men!". It really doesnt work like that.

I also traced down and found the person who had rape fantasies about gay men and she identified as a gay man. It turns out, throughout her profile, she believed she was a lesbian most of her life simply out of confusion. She's a female but has very "masculine" dominant urges. She believes she's sexually incompatible with hetero/bi men because she likes dominating and it's gotten to the point where she openly talks about her rape fantasies. She fetishizes gay femininity. She's also a trauma counsellor by the way. She helps rape victims. This is a gender thing.

People like her (AAP) end up in lesbian communities the same way straight and bi men believe theyre gay when they suffer from AGP so they think theyre gay and then slowly realize theyre trans "lesbians". So the gay and lesbian community are temporarily storing AGP's and AAP's both hiding in our communities and when they realize theyre not really that same sex attracted, they launch themselves into the other same sex community.

She also has "theories" on homosexuals. She sees them more as social categories and not "born this way". She kept talking about fluidity. She believes that homosexuals are traumatized and hiding their opposite sex attraction and need to work through it. This isnt the first time i've heard this.

So they see our genders (gays being more feminine, lesbians being more masculine (as stereotypes) and think their gender is similar to ours, they must be same sex attracted (or exclusively same sex attracted)

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