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[–]yellowtail 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've talked to multiple people like this. Hormones dont work the way people think they do. In the old days throughout pathologizing and medicalizing homosexuality, doctors in the 30's thought "gay men just need more testosterone and they'll be so manly that they'll want to have sex with women!" and that "lesbians need more estrogen pumped into them so they can become sexually submissive to men!". It really doesnt work like that.

I also traced down and found the person who had rape fantasies about gay men and she identified as a gay man. It turns out, throughout her profile, she believed she was a lesbian most of her life simply out of confusion. She's a female but has very "masculine" dominant urges. She believes she's sexually incompatible with hetero/bi men because she likes dominating and it's gotten to the point where she openly talks about her rape fantasies. She fetishizes gay femininity. She's also a trauma counsellor by the way. She helps rape victims. This is a gender thing.

People like her (AAP) end up in lesbian communities the same way straight and bi men believe theyre gay when they suffer from AGP so they think theyre gay and then slowly realize theyre trans "lesbians". So the gay and lesbian community are temporarily storing AGP's and AAP's both hiding in our communities and when they realize theyre not really that same sex attracted, they launch themselves into the other same sex community.

She also has "theories" on homosexuals. She sees them more as social categories and not "born this way". She kept talking about fluidity. She believes that homosexuals are traumatized and hiding their opposite sex attraction and need to work through it. This isnt the first time i've heard this.

So they see our genders (gays being more feminine, lesbians being more masculine (as stereotypes) and think their gender is similar to ours, they must be same sex attracted (or exclusively same sex attracted)