Uh okay. "Visual is important to women, but may not be the first bait." Did you ever see that ABC (or was it NBC report) where women refused to consider dating a short man. He was normal, not ugly, but he was like 5'1. Even if he was a millionaire they laughed and said they would only consider it if their other options were criminals. I'm sure you've seen the tinder graph comparing bell graphs for men rating women versus the lopsided one for women rating men. I won't link it since I have an uncommon interpretation on the data.

So, not to repeat incel talking points, but I suppose I could dig up that venn diagram suggesting that women are less aware of their superficiality than men. It's an open debate over who is more, but the data is clear that the importance men place on things is about correct with their actual actions, where as women have a larger variation in how they think they are making choices compared to how they actually make them. This might not be a bad thing, although I (like others) suspect that it is.