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[–]literalotherkinNorm MacDonald Nationalism 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (24 children)

Seriously? You just said, "which really hurt my feelings ill have you know!!"

I was kidding. Calm down. Also none of the other things in my original response are personal insults that lower the tone they're observations.

As usual you won't take responsibility for your own behaviour.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (23 children)

I was kidding. Calm down.

There is absolutely nothing in your posts - other than "silly goose" - that indicates that you are kidding about anything.

Also none of the other things are personal insults that lower the tone they're observations.

Yes, they are.

As usual you won't take responsibility for your own behaviour.

Name something you want me to "take responsibility" for. I am kindly responding to your abuses and accusations. What exactly are you expecting after you've insulted someone in ALL of your responses? Should I say: thank you for calling me a faggot. Have a wonderful day.

[–]literalotherkinNorm MacDonald Nationalism 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

What exactly are you expecting after you've insulted someone in ALL of your responses?

Not much. You should really be asking yourself that question though, Socks.

Also this is my final word on the matter and it's a response to a mod:

Dude it's totally fine. We traded insults. Don't ban him [socks] on account of me and I was just kidding when I said it hurt my feelings. I know it wasn't a threat or anything it's just internet bantz. All I'm trying to point out to him is that he started insulting people so he got the same back so he shouldn't complain nothing else.

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Tsk, tsk. You're being a mean pee pee head.

Sometimes the PoD feels like a copout to tell on the banter once someone gets insulted. I know that it can end up distracting from real discussion after someones panties get in enough of a wad, but it would be neat if we could express the expletives without all of that and just continue to discuss things.

[–]literalotherkinNorm MacDonald Nationalism 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

PoD?

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Pyramid of Debate

[–]literalotherkinNorm MacDonald Nationalism 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Got you. I still have no idea what any of your comment means though.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

That's concerning, considering that I just turned in an essay assignment.

The first bit was making fun of the bit between you and socks.

The second was some whining and also saying that the pyramid of debate and rules within it give a loophole to report someone if banter gets out of hand, and one of the debaters is insulted (despite also throwing out insults).

[–]literalotherkinNorm MacDonald Nationalism 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Nahh it's fine mate I just didn't quite get it. I understand now.

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Thanks

[–]literalotherkinNorm MacDonald Nationalism 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Take responsibility for the fact that YOU started insulting people last night. It's a simple point and it's undeniable.

Also no nothing in my original comment to you before you started with the low tier insults was a personal insult.

What exactly are you expecting after you've insulted someone in ALL of your responses?

You called me a 'fucking idiot', I called you a 'faggot'. You're the only one whining and trying to make up lies about 'look mommy, the bad men insulted me first.'

You started the insults last night. Just accept it, stop lying and move on.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Take responsibility for the fact that YOU started insulting people last night.

This is unrelated to the present thread. I don't know what you're talking about.

It's a simple point and it's undeniable.

You've not identified the 'last night' thing that you now want to include in the discussion.

Also no nothing in my original comment to you before you started with the low tier insults was a personal insult.

Yes, there were, for reasons already explained to you.

You called me a 'fucking idiot', I called you a 'faggot'. You're the only one whining and trying to make up lies about 'look mommy, the bad men insulted me first.'

Did I whine about anything? I responded to your concerns because you said your feelings were hurt. Perhaps I shouldn't have. Moreover, you are still insulting me in every one of your responses in this thread. Why to you have to do that? Is this important for you?

You started the insults last night. Just accept it, stop lying and move on.

All of my comments in this thread were made between the morning today (in the US) now, just before midnight on the East Coast.

[–]literalotherkinNorm MacDonald Nationalism 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

There is absolutely nothing in your posts - other than "silly goose" - that indicates that you are kidding about anything.

I'm an adult male I don't go around complaining if people hurt my feelings. Hopefully any other reader would understand that but if you can't then so be it. Be pedantic and continue lying and playing the victim.

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any other reader would understand that but if you can't then so be it. Be pedantic and continue lying and playing the victim.

And another insult. You can't stop with the insults, can you?

You complained that I hurt your feelings, which is why I responded. Why do you insist that you did not complain? Don't bother answering these questions. This is ridiculous.

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You're totally amping up the victim complex shit. Just calm down, call each other stupid names for a minute, and get back to your points. You're losing focus on what's important in your debate and letting it slide to being butthurt instead, and that doesn't help anything.

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    [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

    You told him to kill himself after tossing out multiple insults yourself. You're equally guilty of bullying.

    [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

    Not equally. (See the other comments, if you're curious.)

    [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

    I did a quick scroll through s/all comments and got the summary. Anyhow, I'm not god mod (or mod of anything) and have zero control over what happens here, so how I assess the situation between the two of you (or between anyone on this site) ultimately makes no difference. I'm just not a fan of watching someone hurl insults and then taking offense at it being done back to them, and later moving to point out each thing that they're insulted by within a stream of comments. That's shitty. I get wanting to defend yourself, but that's not defense, it's just tattling after doing similar shit. I would ground you on the basis that you're tattling.

    [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

    tattling

    WTF? I didn't "tattle" on anyone. Perhaps one portion of the comments you missed is that I was fed-up with constant insults from one of the users, told him to kill himself, and was thereafter reported to mods for telling him to kill himself, and then I was asked to apologize to him, which I did. So many of the posts in this thread have insults - perhaps 95% of them. I don't think I deserve your judgement.

    [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I've had to identify insults, because I was accused of starting trouble with insults, whereas I merely responded to insults - many of which you can see in this thread of 134 comments. For this reason, I am not "amping up the victim complex shit" when I refer to the insults. These are not emotional references. I did however let send_nasty_stuff know that I am upset about Afghanistan, but not in a way that indicates that I am a victim.

    Normally I respond to insults because I don't want to tolerate bullying. I wouldn't be on Saidit if I couldn't tolerate any bullying, however.