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[–]LtGreenCo 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

The first step to recovery is admitting you have a problem. He's so close.

[–]Chipit[S] 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

Sunk cost fallacy. He's put so much into this that he can't be wrong. His mental health simply could not take it. I don't doubt at all that this is the case. So, self-delusion is the answer. Anything is better than facing the ugly truth.

[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

So let's face the ugly truth. The world is a terrible place and must be run by devils. Just look at it. 99.9% of all the life that's ever been lived is just absolutely miserable. Evil always prevails. Everyone is inherently evil deep down, like Gyges who pretended to be a good person until he found a ring that let him be invisible. Even the laws of physics show that the universe cares about one thing only: "might is right". Everything is determined by luck and fate. What even makes it exist? And what force-feeds it to my mind?

That's only the beginning. Then you get into stuff like this: https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1wilson_fde.html

It is absolutely clear that the whole of material reality is a lie. Something is having us run a rat race.

[–]Dzonatan 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Jesus fucking Christ! Were you ever hugged in life? Did you never had friends and family sing happy birthday to you? Get help.

[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I have. But that's zooming WAY in on the good specks and missing the bigger picture. Not to mention that even if life were pleasant you're still enslaved to fate.

[–]Dzonatan 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I almost get the feeling you hate existence itself for having the audacity to be anything else than an utopic vision.

[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It saddens me that you don't see how that's simply common sense.

[–]Dzonatan 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The common sense where I come from is appreciation of each day with your surrounding friends and family. I don't know where you're from but it sounds miserable.

[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't remember but it sure is better than here.

[–]UncleWillard56 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Call me whatever you want, but as a straight man, I'm not dating another man. I don't care how you "alter" yourself.

[–]Chipit[S] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

SuperStraight!

[–]clownworlddropout 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

98% of straight men won't date a TiM and the other 2% is gay and doesn't know it.

The snarts threatened and screamed their way into our institutions, but the last bastion is our bedrooms, and there's no fucking chance they're weaselling their way in there.

Calling someone a transphobe for not wanting to date outside their sexual preference should be punishable by law, it's attempted rape by coercion given the damage such a label can cause a person.

[–]Banik2008 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

He'll never be able to force an erection out of me

[–]JerzyZulawski 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Or into you.

[–]jet199 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Lol at the "they'll be coming for your rights next" crowd.

Here we want to give gay people more rights to own the troons.

[–]clownworlddropout 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Dude, it's so frustrating, all soundbites and no substance. They have no idea what enabling this lunacy is actually doing to people.

[–]LyingSpirit472 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You can take the snarts' penis, but you'll never take their "all these women must be lesbians because they won't sleep with me" attitude!

[–]BenitoGreen99 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

“My mental health simply can’t handle the truth.” This is pretty much how it works for all of them!

[–]iamonlyoneman 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

[–]jet199 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Likely he imagined the responses would be "no no no, you are pretty. It's definitely transphobia, not you. You are perfect."