Glad I never got into transformers

JerzyZulawski · 2023-03-07T11:51:59+00:00

Agreed, in my experience NBs are about 90% women, 9% gay men, 1% straight male sex pests.

JerzyZulawski · 2023-03-03T01:08:33+00:00

Or into you.

JerzyZulawski · 2023-02-03T19:37:03+00:00

The power of AGP goggles is breathtaking. They always massively overestimate how well they pass. It's like they've never seen a woman in their lives.

JerzyZulawski · 2023-01-31T14:59:06+00:00

He looks like Paul Shane.

JerzyZulawski · 2023-01-30T20:33:05+00:00

"What is a trans woman?" is the question that needs to be asked. It cannot be allowed to mean "literally any man who says they're a woman".

JerzyZulawski · 2023-01-27T10:37:48+00:00

You are very welcome here. Reach out whenever you need.

JerzyZulawski · 2023-01-25T11:31:24+00:00

This is one of the top stories in the UK at the moment, it's peaking the whole country. The BBC coverage only uses the picture of him wearing his female disguise but most other media are using his male picture as well.

JerzyZulawski · 2023-01-21T01:09:09+00:00

Literally this.

JerzyZulawski · 2023-01-13T15:41:06+00:00

Seconding this - it comes up surprisingly often with hard-wired AGPs, particularly the ones who dress in an older/frumpy style.

JerzyZulawski · 2023-01-13T10:05:23+00:00

He has a serious case of AGP forehead.

JerzyZulawski · 2023-01-13T10:05:05+00:00

Ugh, these autogynephiles are absolutely disgusting. And I hate that people assume they're gay (because they're wearing lipstick or something) when it's clearly just a creepy straight guy with a fetish.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-12-06T18:48:55+00:00

I'm a hairy bearded gay man and I put my gender as "Take a wild guess". And yeah, there are an increasing number of AGPs on there now. Not nearly as many as the lesbians have to deal with on their apps, but definitely more than there were a couple years ago.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-11-29T22:43:11+00:00

Sometimes people who have been sexually abused transition as a way of opting out of their own sex. It's a dysfunctional trauma coping mechanism, a kind of protective shield. If you've been victimised or preyed on due to your female biology, transitioning to male is a very attractive idea. Some kids who are abused also try to gain weight and become obese so their abuser will no longer be attracted to them.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-11-27T23:03:25+00:00

Every online forum and community I was part of got torn apart by, got shut down because of, or became unusable because of culture wars bullshit. Not specifically trans stuff, but that was part of it.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-11-22T21:23:09+00:00

The trans brain study didn't control for homosexuality, so it was simply picking up gay men - the trans individuals were HSTS.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-11-21T20:25:00+00:00

A lot of AGPs do have surgery though, specifically the ones with anatomical autogynephilia

JerzyZulawski · 2022-11-20T12:04:48+00:00

It was a passing HSTS, not an AGP troon.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-11-20T12:03:47+00:00

I hate the hole between my legs, it's a portal to another dimension and I keep sending mice through it

JerzyZulawski · 2022-11-16T21:18:57+00:00

"It's not because most trans used to be gay, AGP has always been more common than HSTS in the West"

I'm not so sure about that, at least in regards to the UK - I watched a 1970s BBC documentary on transsexuals and all of the transwomen in it were attracted to men or in relationships with men. Even in the 1990s and 2000s most of the trans celebrities I can think of were HSTS. And I'm not sure about "most drag queens used to be straight men" - certainly guys like Danny LaRue and Stanley Baxter were assumed to be straight at the time but have come out later in life, they were just in the closet.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-11-16T21:11:31+00:00

We're not the cancer, a lot of us are fighting hard against this shit.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-11-16T21:10:31+00:00

Most of the "trans" today are actually straight though - straight men identifying as "transbians" and straight girls as "gay transmasc". And that's what's causing so much of the problems. Back in the day it was largely gay people who transitioned, the T in LGBT was basically short hand for "gay people who choose to transition are still welcome in our community"

JerzyZulawski · 2022-10-31T12:42:00+00:00

It's frequently presented as men yearning for a female identity, whereas he suggested it's actually the peak of maleness. [...] Which might suggest why there seems to be a correlation between certain jobs and AGPs, particularly military and computer sciences.

Yeah, it's both of those things. AGPs are very male-brained and often autistic, which is why they're disproportionately in professions like the military, computer sciences, engineering, finance etc. It's also why they pass so poorly, as they have low EQ and lack an intuitive understanding of what a woman really is.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-09-29T12:41:39+00:00

It's not known, but early experiences and surroundings play a big role, and that includes the media environment and internet access, as you suggest. They're not ingrained at birth but develop in early childhood. Taboos in different countries play a role - i.e. Japan has a far higher rate of men with fart fetishes than Western countries do. Zoophiles are much more likely to have grown up on a farm or at least in a farming community. Men with amputee fetishes often report knowing or meeting an amputee when they were kids. The fetishistic male brain has a tendency to sexually imprint onto things. And full-fledged AGPs often have an absent mother (their mom left or died when they were a kid, or was unloving/emotionally absent, or they weren't otherwise close to their mother).

One theory is that these kinds of hard-wired fetishes have their roots in childhood psychosexual fears, which is why so many of them are of things that are frightening (uniforms, pain, bondage, subjugation, plaster casts, missing limbs, balloons popping, giants, clowns, medical procedures, asphyxiation) or gross (urine, farting, mud, vomit etc.). Kinks may be a psychosexual defense mechanism whereby the developing brain sexualizes a stimulus that it finds too overwhelming to process in order to render it safe. A sexualised trauma response. Another model for understanding fetishes is as a sort of sexual synesthesia, where instead of sounds being perceived as colors or tastes as shapes, other types of interaction stand in for intercourse, and other body parts or objects become the primary erotic focus in place of the genitalia. This concept of erotic target location errors explains why some fetishes are more common than others, and has some speculative biological grounding in the case of the foot fetish: the genitalia and feet are located next to each other in our brains’ cortical homunculus of sensory input, so this common kink at least may simply be a matter of overlapping wires.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-09-29T12:23:06+00:00

Paraphilias are much deeper and more hard-wired with that. Someone with one wouldn't even look at porn because they would have no interest in sex. They'd look for pictures relating to their kink instead (pictures which may not even be obviously sexual let alone pornographic... e.g. pictures of feet, shoes, clowns, people getting muddy, object destruction, whatever).

JerzyZulawski · 2022-09-29T12:19:02+00:00

With the women it's something different. It's just the men who have paraphilias.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-09-29T11:03:02+00:00

I used to be active in the asexual community and have been to 3 asexuality conferences... basically every male asexual I've spoken to is asexual because they have a fetish that's the only thing that turns them on. So a straight asexual guy might have no interest in sex with women because the only activity he enjoys is, say, being trampled by a woman in stilettos, or watching a hot chick pop balloons, or jerking off to a girl wearing a plaster cast. The kink activity takes the place of sex. A lot of guys in the asexual community are like this and closeted - they identify as asexual publicly because they're ashamed of their fetish and/or because it's easier to explain to people. I left the asexual community before the wokeness completely took over and partly because I realized what was going on under the surface (at least on the male side) was unhealthy.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-09-17T20:11:27+00:00

Agreed, the HSTS trans people I know in the 2000s were absolutely fine.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-09-03T08:48:19+00:00

Awesome post

JerzyZulawski · 2022-09-03T08:46:17+00:00

These aren't gay men - 90% of people calling themselves "non-binary" are girls in their teens/20s, mostly straight girls. And some of them use the word "fag" themselves, ie. straight girls calling themselves "trans fags".

JerzyZulawski · 2022-08-30T15:24:03+00:00

When I was a kid in the 90s my music teacher told me that he still felt like a 16-year-old on the inside. I just took it as a casual comment. Two decades later I found out that he had sexually abused one of the other students (a teenage boy).

JerzyZulawski · 2022-08-30T15:18:32+00:00

The more "trans-age" people like this that come crawling out of the woodwork (who just so happen to all be creepy men who identify as children), the better - it will peak more people and cause them to start seeing through the entire house of cards. In their fervor to write a positive diversity story, it's flabbergasting that the journalist and editor in this case couldn't see that the guy is clearly an autoephebophile, an adult man who identifies as a teenage girl for autoerotic/sexual reasons. #itsafetish

JerzyZulawski · 2022-08-25T17:53:10+00:00

Anime avatar incoming

JerzyZulawski · 2022-08-22T21:40:49+00:00

Low EQ/poor social skills. Their caricatured version of a "woman" is so bizarre you'd think they'd never seen a woman in their life.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-08-08T21:42:33+00:00

"If The Simpsons had included no South Asian characters, everyone would have been on their case for being non-inclusive. If they had included him, but made him non-stereotypical, say a basketball player or a butcher, everyone would have complained about him being whitewashed. If they had included him as an unsympathetic character, everyone would have called them racist. If they had tried to bring out all the nuances of the South Asian immigrant experience by including a multitude of South Asian characters from different walks of life, they would have been accused of cultural appropriation. So they included a nice, rounded character everyone likes and quite a few identify with, and WHAT have they done wrong exactly?" - Indian filmmaker Gulserene Dastur, on Twitter

"As I see it, there are two primary products that second generation Indian American comedians sell - the ridiculousness of their parents' 'culture' (arranged marriage and 'my son, the doctor' are the commonest tropes); and the racism of white Americans. It is not hard to see why these two lowest hanging fruits are plucked all the time. [...] What Kondabulu has done is nothing new. He picked almost the most identifiable Indian project possible in the US. And he plugged into the market for identity-based outrage." - Professor Sanjoy Chakravorty, author of "Indians In America", to BBC News

"I like Apu [...] The controversy about the stereotyping is classist snobbery - Indians in America don't want to be reminded of a certain kind of immigrant from their country - the shop keepers, the taxi drivers, the burger flippers. They would rather project only Silicon Valley successes, the Wall Street players and the Ivy League products, with the proper accents, people they meet for dinner - by itself a stereotype. The millions of Apus in America, the salt-of-the-earth types, with their less 'posh' accents, are an inconvenience to that self-image of this small group of Indian-Americans." - Sidharth Bhatia, Editor, thewire.in, to BBC News

JerzyZulawski · 2022-08-08T16:06:58+00:00

Most gay men are completely unaware of AGPs and ROGD. The trans people that gay men encounter in their media and social circle tend to be the HSTS type who are largely unproblematic. My millennial gay friends who are pro-trans simply aren't aware of the extent to which straight male fetishists have colonized the trans community and don't follow the trans debate closely.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-07-27T10:33:44+00:00

Exactly, social class is a huge part of it.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-07-17T08:27:23+00:00

See also: "Diktator:innen wie Putin" https://twitter.com/phoenix_de/status/1532037351085690880

JerzyZulawski · 2022-07-03T10:20:12+00:00

I can't wait till this fake DID stuff goes mainstream and people start getting cancelled for innocently referring to someone as an individual when they claim to be a "system". It's going to peak so many people.

JerzyZulawski · 2022-07-02T21:12:04+00:00

I feel the same way. I didn't realise how much TiA was keeping me sane until it was banned.

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