I hate when women act like little girls

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I get being cutesy, but I hate when they mimic a high-pitched voice and use babyspeak in an attempt to look cute. And when flirting, they say things like 'I'll be a good girl' as if that's supposed to be sexy. Women acting or dressing like children is an instant turn-off. I just wanna shout "Act like a grown woman!" That's what I find sexy, a woman who acts like an adult, confident, mature, independent, free-thinking.

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[–][deleted] 38 insightful - 4 fun38 insightful - 3 fun39 insightful - 4 fun -  (4 children)

Its performance for men. Men love neoteny. big eyes, small nose, super red cheeks, baby-ish acting, hairless bodies. Its based in pedophilia but people like to ignore that.

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    [–]Rubyredpython 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    This! I 1000% believe it

    [–]bbbarbican 4 insightful - 6 fun4 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

    the most popular type of porn worldwide is teen (with very young women - some I'm sure are barely 17 and maybe younger- pretending to be teenagers). Says it all. In many countries on this planet, girls are married to adult men. Men DO fuck children and it's perfectly legal. Girl children mostly. Which is not a coincidence.

    [–][deleted] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    This is the sad truth.

    [–]lovelyspearmint 28 insightful - 3 fun28 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

    If a women does that, it's likely that she isn't a lesbian, either bi or straight. It's something men find hot, but they don't understand that women don't.

    [–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    This is probably it.

    [–]censorshipment 20 insightful - 8 fun20 insightful - 7 fun21 insightful - 8 fun -  (2 children)

    It's honestly quite repulsive.

    On a Netflix series called "Love Is Blind", a 34 year old woman (Jessica) changed her voice during conversations with men.

    Clip from The View about Jessica: https://youtu.be/zZKKlFC_Yys

    [–]ShotsFired 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    ew that made my skin crawl.

    [–]votkriscan 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    Is this happening a lot in entertainment recently? I've got to admit to being a bit out the loop. 😃

    Well, as the others have wonderful articulated, it's certainly mostly a straight/bi woman positioning thing to appeal to straight men. Most lesbians favor a normally classy or directly sexy approach which rings woman and not child.

    [–]Lizzythelezzo 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    I don't find "babyspeak" attractive but I do find a certain childlikeness or vulnerability can be appealing... I tend to like women who are outwardly strong and tough, but inwardly a bit more gentle and sweet. I like to feel like I can nurture their soft side. I also like when someone can be silly, playful and goofy, but I don't think that's quite the same as the "I'll be a good girl" kinky stuff that men seem to like. Perhaps the difference is childish versus childlike.

    [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Perhaps the difference is childish versus childlike.

    Yep!