your replies are highly similar to what a homophobic muslim would say to justify away minimizing homophobia. you really do think gay males are just straight men lite. Nothing you said even comes close to being accurate. Just last year, there was a group of heterosexual males who found a gay medical student who obviously couldnt "hide" being gay and not just through mannerisms but no girlfriend, no sexist comments towards women. A group of men killed him and smeared the words "he was gay" in his own blood on the medical school building. Thats a normal part of that culture. I've only heard muslim extremists parrot your views with the "well, you need witnesses so it's ok!" garbage. The murdering of gay males is considered a normal part of their culture where these women are supposedly "oppressed". Theyre nowhere near oppressed as gay people are. And as for your heterosexual women friends in that medical school when interviewed, not once did they mention homophobia. They mentioned how THEY felt unsafe that this happened at their medical school in their country. You've concocted some borderline psychotic fantasy of what it means to be a gay male in homophobic societies. You're removed so far from homophobia by a factor of 10 thousand degrees and go out of your way to diminish it im starting to understand why gay men of the past just dismissed you and never sympathized with you. You are to gay males what heterosexual men are to women when it comes to apathy, "man splaining" but instead, women splaining to gay men something you never experienced. I feel towards you right now as a lesbian would feel about a bisexual pretending to be as oppressed as she is. And no, nothing compares to homophobia in a patriarchy. If it did, gay men wouldnt be trying to escape it to run into womanhood by being some weird transexual looking monster over a gay person any day. I genuinely dont think you belong in the homosexual community now.