Before all the TQ+ madness begin, did anyone see the slope that lead to it before? I'm sure there are lesbian equivalents of what I'll be describing as I've heard of some of them, but I'm mainly speaking with a gay male perspective.
A few years back on Reddit, I've usually browsed gay subs like gaybros, askgaybros, gay, r/ainbow, ect. Content was pretty decent back in the day, but I can't help but notice flamewars erupt somewhat frequently. Most of the flamewars consensus I've seen usually went along the lines of "Masculine gay men who are into other masculine gay men are just straight-acting" and "Masc gays have internalized homophobia, bish just let you inner-gay run wild!". Such topics has always worried me, why can't they just be themselves? For a community who's slogan was "Be yourself" they always act like there's a tiny "Terms and Conditions" to it.
Flamewars like this were usually started by those edgy and rebellious feminine gay men who seemingly can point out every piece of toxicity in masculinity despite being their misogynistic interpretaion of being a stereotypical feminine women. (IE: Being bitchy, princess-y, bratty, gossipy and manipulative.) I've also heard some lesbians' stray complaints how some edgy masculine lesbians' interpretation of being masculine is to be a lazy asshole that talks about their gfs as if they're just their personal toys. Like what the hell? Most of the flamewars I've seen were also started by such petty reasons too; such as being denied in a hookup/dating up, where literally everyone is shallow, or meeting the rare "Anti-Femm" gay men which now they use to put such a massive blanket on every masc gay men (Which really just caused more masc gay men to become "Anti-Femm" at the time).
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Everytime such flamewars erupts it usually goes like this:
Femm gay complains about something petty and puts a blanket over all masc gays. besides the good ones
Eruption of flame against masc guys starts, calling them fake, straight-acting and having internalized homophobia.
Masc gays blow backs and put a massive blanket of femm gays.
Some sane people gets too tired of everyone's shit and finally starts a "Peace" post calling everyone calm down.
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I wonder what your thoughts are on this? Did lesbians encounter a similar problem before? Did you even encounter this problem before? Was this a part of the slope that lead to the TQ+ madness, paved by those edgy and rebellious activists who were really just in it for the thrill?
Sorry for the long rant, it's been on my chest for a very long time. Now that most of the people move on to becoming edgy "queers", "enby", "DEERS" and such. I felt like it's time to unearth this topic.
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