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[–]dilsencySame-sex community 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have noticed how not-feminine gay men are bashed online. As if the only explanation for a gay man not being hyperfeminine is that they're lying to themselves and pretending.

Now, I am by no means masculine. But bashing people for fitting into the ideal, or being what is considered conventionally attractive, is stupid, and doesn't make me feel better about myself at all. It just makes the bashers look bad.