TRAs in Internet Arguments

DummDick_998634230 · 2021-03-12T05:17:30+00:00

As a side note:

I personally believe that we should try to argue with people not to try convert them, but to affect the bystanders' opinions that reads through the argument. If the TRA/s you were arguing with changed their mind, then that's just a bonus. We should try to make the impression to the public that we're better than them.

DummDick_998634230 · 2021-01-29T03:30:52+00:00

It really isn't an unspoken "BLM too" or "BLM more", people just don't like them because they have a habit of martyring criminals and using them as an excuse to cause trouble while hiding behind "good intentions". The "mostly peaceful protests" after Floyd's death was pretty much a death sentence to their legitimacy.

DummDick_998634230 · 2021-01-12T09:23:13+00:00

Everytime I describe my sexuality, I just say: "I'm attracted to guys" instead of "I'm gay" because the similar reasons to you :L

I don't want people to think I'm a "proud gay" or "queer" type. Then again, maybe I'm looking at it too deeply, I tend to over-analyze/predict how people react and I want the most predictable results as possible.

DummDick_998634230 · 2021-01-12T03:40:43+00:00

Archived Link Don't give these people clicks nor ad revenue.

DummDick_998634230 · 2021-01-12T03:13:15+00:00

I really hate how (faux)Liberals became from anti-censorship to pro-censorship the moment they got into power and found a hole in the First Amendment. They've also generally became hypocrites, switching their beliefs to ones they used to be against for; EX. From anti-corporate to pro-corporate bootlicking the moment they started slapping rainbow flags on fucking coffee cups.

This damned people are so infuriating to deal with. They've completely abandoned old liberal ideals in favor of "feel-goodiness". They genuinely believe that everything they is always good despite setting up dangerous precedents if they loose their throne. I can only worry how big will the blow back be from less-than-liberal folks.

Somehow, they made me fill safer to be inside of "Natzee" spaces than their specially designed echo chambers for me. I don't feel welcome in liberal spaces anymore, it always feels like I'm being watched and ready to be silenced for even the slighting wrong-thought, they've absolutely ruined themselves. All for what? To own the drumpfs?

DummDick_998634230 · 2021-01-08T02:20:13+00:00

Yeah, this is the problem I assumed lesbians would face. Feminists, similarly to the LGBTQ+ community telling you to "Be yourself", would give you the illusion of choice and if you chose the wrong one they might think you're a traitor. They might think you're lying to yourself or have Stockholm syndrome if you still chose to be a feminine woman.

I really don't understand why such phenomenon happen with activist groups, they say they give you freedom yet they become very authoritative when they feel like you chose wrongly. Such insane gate-keeping I guess is just what happens when there's no "central" point in activism, controlling narcissist jump into the bandwagon of Good Intentions to abuse it as an excuse to police others. :(

DummDick_998634230 · 2021-01-07T12:52:10+00:00

Accusing people of internalized homophobia is these idiots' go-to when they couldn't simply attribute criticism of their toxic personalities to homophobia classic. I've been accused of internalized homophobia countless times by people who think that me criticizing all the disgusting nooks and crannies of mainstream "gay culture" is somehow an attack on homosexuality

It really is annoying how you can't point out the degeneracy of certain people without them retreating to thinking you're against them for being gay. Like no, dude. I'm not calling you a degenerate for being gay, I'm calling you a degenerate for showing up with a harem of pups in bondage gear in a PRIDE EVENT with CHILDREN.

DummDick_998634230 · 2021-01-07T12:47:15+00:00

but a lot of gay men wanted every gay men to act a certain way. These gay men did not just attack masculine gay men. They also attacked feminine gay men who weren’t rude, sarcastic, obnoxious, narcissistic, catty, vapid assholes like themselves.

I see, a similar view as REPTILIAN. It was more nasty than I thought it originally was.

But that wasn’t the only slippery slope. I’ll explain more when I come back to edit this comment, because I have to get back to work.

I gladly await your input on this. :D

DummDick_998634230 · 2021-01-07T12:42:29+00:00

because I've pretty much only seen the reverse. "Feminine guys aren't real men/Feminine guys are trans in denial/'Traps' aren't gay/You're not gay if you're into feminine males because they're basically like women"

Yeah it was definitely present too, it's was a back n' forth back in the day until some people smack some sense into everyone. All it takes is just for a few stupid people to LARP as if the ebul masc or the bitchy fems are threatening their very existence to start some dumb blanket-throwing flamewar.

I'm not at all masculine and I'm very open with my femininity. Buuut I don't have "the gay accent" or ever talk about my sexuality, and most people IRL assume I am straight now. Am I "straight acting", or does simply wearing eyeshadow mean that I am "gay acting"? It's dumb.

Yeah it's seriously fucking stupid how those terms where thrown so much back in the day. There's literally NO OTHER intrinsic property to being straight other than being attracted to the opposite sex, like do they just ignore so many straight guys with a less than masculine manner? There was an old post of a comparison of 2 guys from instagram, one guy was a makeup artist and regularly wears tons of makeup and the other was hiking and generally looked manly. The gay one was the one hiking and the straight one was the makeup artist, why? There's no innate instinct that tells gay men to act feminine or straight men to act manly, it's their choice to be that way, but it's not like they would've understood that back then lol.

Also in my experience, stereotypical "feminine" guys are nasty to actual GNC males, I've had a lot of them attack me for not being the "right" kind of feminine (aka not stereotypical and sexist, sexualized behavior) and call me a bunch of names.

Yikes, yeah I really don't understand it when more feminine people have a bad habit of inheriting the nasty portions of the stereotypes too. Like what's so hard of just having a long hair, slim body and a general interest of everything without acting catty, kween-like and limiting their interest to stereotypical feminine ones? They throw around "straight-acting" yet it really feels like they're the one acting to make up for their boring personality

DummDick_998634230 · 2020-11-27T15:06:21+00:00

recall that story about the FtM who ended up crying in the bathroom of an orgy because nobody saw her as a real man

That sounds pitifully hilarious, where is the link to this story?

DummDick_998634230 · 2020-11-21T03:22:50+00:00

So basically, I feel like I need to firstly analyse how 'woke' the bisexual person to see if he/she's a decent bisexual person.

Jeez, a little unrelated, but this sounds like me lately. Anytime I consume media that has Homo/Bi characters (Especially very outwardly ones) I end up worrying and going: "Is this going to be wokey-shit representation?". Wokeys and their "rEpReSeNtAtIoN" of us has made me so distrustful of it because of how bad they represent us.

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