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[–]lolwhat[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am bisexual, I maybe did express myself poorly, my english is flawed but I do try my best.

I think we are allies, but I also think that it's more hard for LG people out there with the TQ.

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[–]lolwhat[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You can continue doing what you're doing, wich is making openly fun of them while they do not even know you exist except for the little part where they can be agressive towards you when they feel like it, but I do not think it's going to work or be helpful. Did it so far ? I know it didn't help me feel truly better. From where I stand it just looks like a bunch of people yelling at eachothers for virtue signaling points. They're doing their weird stuffs, and you guys are here to comment how weird and gross it is while everyone else in the world live their lives and try to make it work. I think LGB people deserves better than commenting every new crazy thing TQ+ have to put on the table, to be fair. You guys are not dissociating them from us by making it all about them, that's all I'm trying to say here.

Paedophilia play is ok if you're a delusional woman larping as a gay "little boy" NSFW by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Why is this all so disgusting?

so what happened to their dysphoria? I don't get any of this bullshit

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[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am not amused at sexifying children games.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh my god, this is brilliant.

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[–]book_hoarder 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's almost like people are gay because they're sexually attracted to the same sex and not because they're trying to "get with the times." Weird.

Paedophilia play is ok if you're a delusional woman larping as a gay "little boy" NSFW by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Retardation_station 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hilda! Hol mir meinen Flammenwerfer!

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[–]Retardation_station 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The only surefire way I've ever seen to deal with these people is a decisive "No.".

There will be fallout and depending on how deep you're in, it will likely cost you something. But weathering the storm is the only way out at this point.

Capitulation does not work. Bending your principles does not work. Retreat does not work.

Unless you draw a line in the sand they will not stop until they get what they want from you before throwing you in the garbage and moving on like locusts. Do not back down or they'll drive you to the cliffs.

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[–]Retardation_station 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Of course not. They don't teach biology anymore because that might offend TRAs.

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[–]PatsyStone🚔Bisexual Sheriff 🤠 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh my fucking God this dumbass. "Implying that people without genital preferences are automatically bi" is correct. It is what it is.

You don't like what "being bi" means in social terms? Live your life the way you want to and change it. Be the bi you hope to see.

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[–]PatsyStone🚔Bisexual Sheriff 🤠 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

"We're all just clumps of cells, why not abort ourselves?"

-Pink News (probably)

Pomosexual comrades, do you stress out when you don't have a label? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]PatsyStone🚔Bisexual Sheriff 🤠 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

She means FOMOsexuals lol 😂

I don't know by lolwhat in LGBDropTheT

[–]Cass 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You're the kind of person who turns trans just so they have more drama in their lives.

Ah, now it makes much more sense! by DickFreeBacon🥓 | ♀️ | 🇵🇱 | SUPER🌈LESBIAN in LGBDropTheT

[–]xandit 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Someone who only likes women with a penis I think.

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[–]xandit 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hope you're training yourselves to speak and write in a proper manner

Nope.

if the situation get really badly out of control.

They are telling us sex is a construct and homosexuality is a fetish, how much worse can it get?

So try to be smart about what you're posting here, and how you're doing it, and why. Try as the best as you can to be reasonable.

Reasonable to who? The people who hate us? Wanna punch us?

Blaming the kids with "blue hair and ugly clothes" won't do any of you any good.

Sjw’s are the reason we are in this mess. They amplifed the queer theory gender nonsense into a pseudoscience.

I truly suggest you to try and see how you can be more revelant, less insulting

You can ask jk Rowling about whose side is more insulting.

This place became a collection of everything TQ does wrong, instead of focusing how WE could do things right as LGB people.

What should we be doing? The people at Lgb alliance tried to be heard for a year before they had to break off from stonewall. Tra’s don’t want to listen, they want us to conform to their beliefs. So what do you suggest besides “being reasonable” whatever that means?

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[–]Cass 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Bisexual allies

????

You engaged in wrongspeak by excluding the bisexuals and demoting them to "allies".

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[–]Daddiescummies 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You do realize advocating for gay rights is social justice, right?

You're ALSO an SJW. Unlike you, I'm also agressively antiracist, because I'm not white and racism affects me in gay spaces.

You can't advocate for gay people without considering how racism affects gay BIPOC. Now drop it.

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[–]xandit 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Do they really not know why organisms have sexuality?

Paedophilia play is ok if you're a delusional woman larping as a gay "little boy" NSFW by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]xandit 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

For sale by owner: pair of brown eyeballs, slightly used, recently gouged out.

Ah, now it makes much more sense! by DickFreeBacon🥓 | ♀️ | 🇵🇱 | SUPER🌈LESBIAN in LGBDropTheT

[–]Criticallacitirc 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sapphic with a male preference? ......what?

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]tu_jode_mucho 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I haven't been asked pronouns directly at job or interview but when I was applying for jobs around March-May I encountered a few applications that asked about gender and sexuality. I did a little experiment and told the truth on applications where I didn't care much about the company, and omitted or lied on ones that I was more keen on. No call back from any companies where I selected my actual sexuality (I even selected they/them pronouns on one) and got call backs from all companies where my application would indicate I'm a standard hetero female. When their stupid woke ideas just result in another way for companies to discriminate eye roll

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[–]TransspeciesUnicorn 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think we know the real reason you don't like gender critical/radfems is because you're a TRA SJW troll. Many people here are aware of that, I don't know why you're continuing to pretend like that isn't the case.

Nice username btw, "daddie's cummies". Flaunting that you're some creep that's into the disgusting DD/LG-LB shit and like to fantasize about fucking your child. Classy.

Y’all are bigoted transphobic monsters by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]shveya 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks, Aiden Jr, your empty-headed transwashing of history has finally convinced me that I owe my life to a couple of junkie prostitutes in NYC.

Pomosexual comrades, do you stress out when you don't have a label? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]hufflepuff-poet 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sooo Questioning but make it into a permanent label of your sexual orientation....

How can none of the other labels fit you? Who are you attracted to, that's all the label is supposed to describe, it doesn't need to be this complicated.

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[–]DickFreeBacon🥓 | ♀️ | 🇵🇱 | SUPER🌈LESBIAN[S] 3 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

he eats stuff.

Guess now he also eats stuff out...

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[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How the fuck does om nom have any sexuality at all? Its a green little monster from a game cut the rope. he eats stuff.

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[–]julesburm1891 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Ah, yes. People’s sexual orientations are equivalent to having an avocado green fridge.

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[–]Rage-Xion 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

That's superphobic.

Ah, now it makes much more sense! by DickFreeBacon🥓 | ♀️ | 🇵🇱 | SUPER🌈LESBIAN in LGBDropTheT

[–]hufflepuff-poet 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When did someone's sexual orientation (an innate and unchangeable part of themselves that we have no control over) become something to apologize for?!?! These people really don't understand what sexual orientation is...

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[–]lolwhat[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't know about the later and if it's true, but I do know that there's a lack of taking accountability and responsability in those communities that have little to nothing to do with LGB problems in the first place. LG and B already share a part of the problem and that's enough problems sharing, there's no need, in my opinion again, to also drag every random angry community with us.

Then again I would understand why it happened, and the need of "more allies" but, to be fair, I do not encourage this mix. Or any mix. Homosexuality goes with it's own problems, so does bisexuality and we already try to work with eachothers so... yeah.

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[–]Daddiescummies 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So they fetishize trans women.

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[–]Daddiescummies 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

. I also don't think the close alliance to gender critical/radical feminism is helpful, in term of being heard by the population or even taking responsability.

I agree with this 100%. I find most gender critical and radical feminist groups center the voices and needs of white women. Men and minorities are marginalized in these space, and they don't hold spaces for anyone who isn't a white woman.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]Mermer 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

"If I say It's he/him will I get paid more?"

Lil Nas X is supergay by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Bipassxx 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Peak trans: when being homosexual is transphobic. Tell me again why is the TQ attached to the LGB? #dropthet

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[–]Bright_painting 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Actually, the Mass Effect series did this really well. Depending if you played a male or female Shepard, different people would be interested in you. Most of the romances are straight, but Liara and Kayden are bisexual and in the third game, there is a lesbian and a gay man that only will be interested in you if you play as the "right" sex. You can't turn them, they just won't be interested in you. It still suffers from the EA-romance formula, but it respects the characters' sexualities.

Text Analyzers - Male or Female? by IridescentAnacondaI'm super, thank you for asking! in LGBDropTheT

[–]TumbleweedFireflies🍷 your ol' drunk mod 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your understanding!

If you ever have ANY questions or concerns, please don't hesitate to ask us mods by sending ModMail: https://saidit.net/message/compose?to=/s/LGBDropTheT. There aren't many of us around these days, but those of us who are, we're more than happy to discuss.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]jim_steak 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I could be wrong, but to me this seems like a way to weed out difficult people from the workplace. I definitely avoid people with weird pronouns in my personal life, it would make sense for a job to want to avoid bringing in people who are going to throw a temper tantrum if people don't follow the specific rules for interacting with them.

TQ+: Weaponizing Empathy with Brandon Showalter - Life Through a Distorted Linds by distortedlindsLady Muse in LGBDropTheT

[–]TumbleweedFireflies🍷 your ol' drunk mod[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

This video is an hour and a half long - that's the length of a movie!

u/distortedlinds, rule 5. We are not here so you can gain viewers or self-advertise. You need to participate here with us and earn your keep beyond posting your latest YT vid.

I watched the first 15 minutes and it was about transing children, but there wasn't anything about LGB and/or sexual orientation specifically.

This is an LGB sub, and LGB is our focus. I'm not going to keep watching on the off-chance it MIGHT become relevant at some point.

In the future, please give a short summary/synopsis so we understand why this is relevant to our sub and why our users should watch. If you don't, your post will be removed and you will need to comment in our weekly Sunday Social thread. I'm leaving this current post up as a reference point.

Text Analyzers - Male or Female? by IridescentAnacondaI'm super, thank you for asking! in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnacondaI'm super, thank you for asking![S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's fair and I understand.

Text Analyzers - Male or Female? by IridescentAnacondaI'm super, thank you for asking! in LGBDropTheT

[–]TumbleweedFireflies🍷 your ol' drunk mod 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I absolutely 100% understand what you're saying about how our sexuality is being argued as based on gender instead of sex. It's within our rules that the conflation of the two is not allowed, and LGB is sex-based. That discussion is absolutely relevant here.

We have an intermingling with gender/sex-specific subs, but at the end of the day, our goals are different. We are here to reinforce LGB sexual orientation, whereas the other subs reinforce that sex/gender are different.

Here, our fight is for LGB first and foremost, with sex/gender coming in second and immediately after that. We're here to focus on lesbian, gay, and bisexual needs/issues/concerns.

In other places, the fight is about sex/gender first, with LGB and even hetero coming after that, in no particular order or priority. They exist to dismantle gender and sex-based roles, regardless of sexual orientation.

Does that make sense? Like, we have similarities and can hold hands, but we're not fighting for the same things. And it does a disservice to each of our goals to mish-mash us together, because then we all end up feeling overrun and colonized as our goals are redirected.

The responses in this thread provide examples. No one is talking about LGB or sexual orientation. They're talking about male/female or man/woman.

Text Analyzers - Male or Female? by IridescentAnacondaI'm super, thank you for asking! in LGBDropTheT

[–]TumbleweedFireflies🍷 your ol' drunk mod 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Agreed, not the best gauge, at least where that one is concerned.

Text analyzers aren't great because writing skills can be learned, or not learned at all ... and/or easily adapted to an audience.

That sentence I just wrote scored me at: 56% female / 44% male

Someone who wants to manipulate others can just study and emulate.

That sentence scored me at: 62% male / 38% female

Text Analyzers - Male or Female? by IridescentAnacondaI'm super, thank you for asking! in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnacondaI'm super, thank you for asking![S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I understand your position and of course you are the moderator.

My only rebuttal is that the argument is made all the time that we should be selecting dating partners based on "gender" and not sex. When we ask what "gender" means, the best we get is some kind of mental state. But if that were true, there should be objective evidence that supports the idea that some people who (e.g.) are male in terms of sex have more female brains and vice versa.

Of course the approach I wrote out in 10 minutes is supremely flawed for a lot of different reasons (the training set used to train the analyzer might not generalize to the target population, confounders such as age and social context). But I would argue the larger scale objective is important and relevant to LGB, whose identities are based on sexual orientation, which is objective. I do not think "gender" is objective at all. Demonstrating that is important to our cause (if it can be done).

Text Analyzers - Male or Female? by IridescentAnacondaI'm super, thank you for asking! in LGBDropTheT

[–]TumbleweedFireflies🍷 your ol' drunk mod[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

This is very interesting! But in and of itself, this isn't quite right for our sub. A gender/sex-specific sub, rather than an LGB/sexuality-specific sub, would be best.

I'd recommend s/GenderCritical, s/GenderCriticalGuys, or s/ThereAreTwoGenders. Maybe even the debate sub, s/GCdebatesQT - wouldn't hurt to reach out to their mods to see if they'd be interested.

That said, if you plan to specifically analyze FTM/MTF who claim to be LGB and provide those results, then it would be appropriate here.

I'm removing this thread from our sub, but I would encourage you to share about this in our next Sunday Social. Maybe there's a better online analyzer, maybe there are coders among us who want to create their own tool, maybe there are researchers and/or statisticians who want to help analyze, etc etc.

Text Analyzers - Male or Female? by IridescentAnacondaI'm super, thank you for asking! in LGBDropTheT

[–]IridescentAnacondaI'm super, thank you for asking![S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm open to this part being wrong, specially when they are being rapey.

Text Analyzers - Male or Female? by IridescentAnacondaI'm super, thank you for asking! in LGBDropTheT

[–]onetwothree123 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I disagree with your hypothesis. I can tell immediately when I'm reading something written by an MtF. I then look through their reddit post history to confirm, and I've only ever been wrong once. I'm curious to know why you think a man would be better at acting like a woman than a woman like a man.

Text Analyzers - Male or Female? by IridescentAnacondaI'm super, thank you for asking! in LGBDropTheT

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I used it to analyze my most recent posts:

https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/86hk/how_was_your_experience_as_a_gay_or_bi_person_in/uevn - 95% female

https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/86hk/how_was_your_experience_as_a_gay_or_bi_person_in/ueed - 92% female

https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/85s5/where_are_the_straightidentifying_women_in/uc49 - 88% female

https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/7z6i/oh_the_pain_the_pain_the_agony_of_these_dickless/tsgh - 85% female

Last time I checked, I have a dick and balls between my legs. I really don't think text analyzers are all that accurate (or maybe I'm just a pretentious asshole who breaks them).

Text Analyzers - Male or Female? by IridescentAnacondaI'm super, thank you for asking! in LGBDropTheT

[–]Criticallacitirc 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I just through 3 posts from MTF and they were all 75-93% female. I would say this thing is bunk lol.

Text Analyzers - Male or Female? by IridescentAnacondaI'm super, thank you for asking! in LGBDropTheT

[–]sneeuweekhoorn 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not sure how accurate that is. I put in stuff from men(normal men, not men who think they're women) and it gave female results.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]ArthnoldManacatsamanOoh, flair. 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Then proceed to not work there.

Indeed.

Part of me thinks that my unrelenting need to be professional would override the urge to have a little fun with this kind of thing, especially if it were a job interview that I had worked really hard towards or it was a job I really wanted or I was desperate or something.

Then another part of me thinks that if this is a job interview question and they're deadly serious then this is clearly a place where I would not enjoy working, and my opinions will not be welcome. In which case, why not have a little fun? If one of the interviewers reflects on their ridiculous interview questions in light of your baffled 'what-the-hell-kind-of-linguistics-test-is-this?' response to their question, then perhaps it wasn't a complete waste of time after all.

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[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is why I have a mod that determines every generated sim's sexuality. And I can pick my own sim's, too. So that way he can reject any woman's wooing, like an actual gay man would.

Epic. A feature like this should by default be in this and other games(like RPGs) considering how prevalent Everyone Is Bi is. I think it's kinda lazy and thoughtless when realistic sexuality or individual preferences are skipped over in favour of an easier code-able 'everyone can like anyone or win anyone over, all you need is time to turn them.' pansexual perspective. When irl some people just can never be turned, and others who can be turned can also go in the other direction over time (like when someone is incompatible or too aggressive).

Gaming being heavily intertwined with woke/trans culture nowadays- I wonder how many young naive trans apologists are so influenced by this kind of convenient depiction of human attraction that they project it onto the real world as if it was natural law. So now they have not the slightest clue how to deal with others in a reasonable way that respects their boundaries and they think this is somehow acceptable to propagate.

Lil Nas X is supergay by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel like we could solve half the problems on the internet by forcing teenagers to get part time jobs so they didn't have time to obsess over dumb shit after school.

Let's top that off by wrapping schools in a faraday cage so none of their phones work while in the building. Just get them off the internet in general.

TQ+: Weaponizing Empathy with Brandon Showalter - Life Through a Distorted Linds by distortedlindsLady Muse in LGBDropTheT

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is over an hour. You mind giving a synopsis so we can judge why we should spend that much time?

I could listen over a long train ride but that's still a huge time investment.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]yousaythosethingsWomXXn 👩‍❤️‍👩 WomXXn 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Instead of “well my name, surely” I would sub in an awkward pause followed by stating your name or nickname in a confused but calm tone that conveys, “is this what you wanted?” It’s important to not be too on the nose. I would think they would move on after that point.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]yousaythosethingsWomXXn 👩‍❤️‍👩 WomXXn 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think the way to handle it is to politely and indirectly make them feel silly for asking and make them question in their heads and have to justify why they’re asking you. If they already know you’re gay because they’ve looked you up online or from something on your resume, it will be helpful for them to call into question their expectation that you must be used to it and in favor of it.

I think acting genuinely bewildered and caught off guard but not dwelling on it is the best policy.

My what?

My pronouns??

My pronouns for what? Sorry, I’ve never been asked that before.

Then change the subject since this is a job interview.

. . . Only if they persist:

(For how you identify)

In terms of what? Sorry, I don’t understand.

Are you asking me if I’m male or female?

Then proceed to not work there.

Lil Nas X is supergay by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]clitoriana 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

translation: "I wish for this gay man I have never met and never will and have zero connection to beyond a parasocial obsession and projection to be raped by a dildo because he said something that didn't explicitly validate my self-image"

Serious or satirical? Should peak a few people either way. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If people would legitimately agree with this, then it is no longer satire. The original intent may have been, but agreement from the insulted group would just mean that it is the legitimate opinion

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I’ve never been asked for my pronouns in interviews. And I’ve had six or seven interviews for the last year. Granted, I live in the west of Ireland; yes, Ireland is woke, but not that woke. Nobody asks for your pronouns here, you have to state them if you are a weird person.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]powpowpowpow 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's smart

Y’all are bigoted transphobic monsters by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It seems like some victims tend to convince themselves that they liked it and they were in control and they were actually the predator as a child.

Milo Yianopolis did this back when he was popular then got cancelled for the exact wrong reason. He was able to spread some very clear information on the harm of TRAs then he got weird and decided to go all in with trying to court neonazis for his own fame but they actually cancelled him by misrepresenting his comments on JRE and painted him as a pedo.

He was actually there defending the pedo who molested him as a child because he wouldn't admit that he was the weak one or the prey in the situation. He didn't turn trans but now he is out there pretending to be "exgay" because he preyed really really really hard.

r/lgbt - "I am so sorry that lesbian you sprung a dick on when the clothes came off didn't validate you! How dare she!" by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

[–]PatsyStone🚔Bisexual Sheriff 🤠 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Transwomen? Fantasists?

Yeah, now that you mention it. Wise not to take this seriously.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

The only person I've interacted with in real life (ie not on the internet) who added pronouns was a local politician in an email signature... (Which is still somewhat of an internet phenomenon) I'm assuming he has to do it to avoid being cancelled by some random nutter constituent.

I don't intend to ever participate in tautological postmodern metaphysical essentialism. That's my answer to being asked about pronouns.

So I found this little piece of hypocritical garbage being an official in-game object (The Sims 4) by DickFreeBacon🥓 | ♀️ | 🇵🇱 | SUPER🌈LESBIAN in LGBDropTheT

[–]TiredTrendersSuper-gay 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Glad I wasn't the only one who failed to stiffle my laughter after reading that.

r/lgbt - "I am so sorry that lesbian you sprung a dick on when the clothes came off didn't validate you! How dare she!" by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

[–]JulienMayfair 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I suspect a lot of these stories are fake and made up for attention/sympathy. There really aren't that many transwomen out there you can't clock within a few seconds.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 17 insightful - 8 fun17 insightful - 7 fun18 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Crazy stuff. You should say your pronounce are "your highness, the queen"

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]RiverSong 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Like you I'm unmistakable female, and if that ever happens to me in the future, I'll probably speak before I think this through, ask the interviewer "what do you think?", then I won't get the job, and that will be that.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]Retardation_station 21 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Run. Now.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]ArthnoldManacatsamanOoh, flair. 41 insightful - 22 fun41 insightful - 21 fun42 insightful - 22 fun -  (0 children)

When this inevitably happens to me I'm going to just play dumb:

A: What are your pronouns?

B: My what?

A: Your pronouns?

B: My... I... pronouns? I, my, me, mine? This? These?

A: No, how do you like to be referred to?

B: Well my name, surely?

etc.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun[S] 16 insightful - 5 fun16 insightful - 4 fun17 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I wanted to be professional, so I just said I'm a she, but I'm sure the surprise on my face was evident.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]PatsyStone🚔Bisexual Sheriff 🤠 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Fortunately, it hasn't crossed my path yet. How did you respond?

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]strawberrysun[S] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The recruiter who reached out to me about this had pronouns in his email signature, so I probably should have seen this coming.

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

[–]TransspeciesUnicorn 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Nope, never been asked about my pronouns at an interview. Some people where I work put their pronouns in their email signatures but that's it.

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]MyLongestJourney 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

"Ok,you are not a lesbian".

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you haha.

Lil Nas X is supergay by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Rosefield 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Gay man: Dick = 💜!

Trans loons: 😠😠😠

What a clown world. Intense homophobia inside the lgbtabcde... alphabet soup of horror. The homophobes must be dropped.

Dude won’t feel complete until he gives birth. Shockingly can’t find a boyfriend either, so sad. by EveSerpentFiregender Mon-Fri / Pyrogender Wknds & Holidays in LGBDropTheT

[–]Rosefield 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Play stupid games...

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Aww, so cute and caring, almost heart-melting lol I like to make someone feel special too.

Dude won’t feel complete until he gives birth. Shockingly can’t find a boyfriend either, so sad. by EveSerpentFiregender Mon-Fri / Pyrogender Wknds & Holidays in LGBDropTheT

[–]Rosefield 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's not going to happen

Dude won’t feel complete until he gives birth. Shockingly can’t find a boyfriend either, so sad. by EveSerpentFiregender Mon-Fri / Pyrogender Wknds & Holidays in LGBDropTheT

[–]Rosefield 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Don't believe this shit. It's trans pandering bullshit. They can't provide any evidence.

Dude won’t feel complete until he gives birth. Shockingly can’t find a boyfriend either, so sad. by EveSerpentFiregender Mon-Fri / Pyrogender Wknds & Holidays in LGBDropTheT

[–]Rosefield 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

NO. Wtf.

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh I want to use my hands believe me ;) but it's true that I tend to use them less than a more active woman in sex. And no, I didn't date them at the same time. But when I'm with a woman, I want her to feel special and confident, so I never make comparisons to other women I've been or dated. It's more or less how bottom gay men lie to their tops in bed and say their dicks are huge just to make them feel confident haha 😝 I don't lie, but I kind of will do everything in order for her to feel "unique" or "special" even though she might not be doing anything much different from other women I've been before lmao.

So I found this little piece of hypocritical garbage being an official in-game object (The Sims 4) by DickFreeBacon🥓 | ♀️ | 🇵🇱 | SUPER🌈LESBIAN in LGBDropTheT

[–]ArthnoldManacatsamanOoh, flair. 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Because they spend all their time at home on the internet creating terrible artwork like this, instead of being outside exercising or doing literally anything else.

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lucky bastard lol You got one of the most attractive lesbian feature. Wait you were dating two chicks at the same time behind their backs? lol

Although your hands are a bit wasted to me honest lol Since you like to be fucked more than fucking LMAO Nobody will ever praise my small hands but they could praise my ability to use them and tongue or well, my agility to pussy ride, I suppose ahah

PS: Is your nickname after the handmaiden's tale series?

Oh, VioletRemi has beautiful long pianist fingers too. I'm so attracted to them. They're meant to fuck women.

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's very funny you're talking about this, because since I'm a kid basically I've been told I have very big hands in comparison to my height and body proportions. And a funny thing is both of the two women I seriously dated loved my hands, one of them told me I had the most beautiful hands a woman could have and the other told me she wanted to marry my hands 🤣 obviously I never told the last one that she wasnt the only one enjoying my hands because I wanted her to feel special 😝 I have long thin fingers and tbh it seems to be one of my most attractive features. Honestly, as a lesbian, it was really pleasing to have my hands complimented, when one of them told me she thought my hands were big was really hot.

So I found this little piece of hypocritical garbage being an official in-game object (The Sims 4) by DickFreeBacon🥓 | ♀️ | 🇵🇱 | SUPER🌈LESBIAN in LGBDropTheT

[–]powpowpowpow 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I stopped playing this game a long time ago, it became to woke and TRA for me and also EA sucks, The Sims 2 is waaaay better

Lil Nas X is supergay by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]PassionateIntensity 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

WTF? Imagine typing this to an openly gay celebrity. They want to convert us more than any conservative.

r/lgbt - "I am so sorry that lesbian you sprung a dick on when the clothes came off didn't validate you! How dare she!" by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Pretty sure the only reason they say this is so they can claim it as a reason to not need to date other trans people.

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My fingers are just small since I'm small, but not stubby. Kinda pianist fingers. But for a lesbian fingers lenghts are perticulary important, but I always say, women hot spot are outside and first 2-3 inches of vaginal canal, you don't need long fingers to please a woman. Yet, I can't deny that I'm attracted to long fingers ahah

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]PatsyStone🚔Bisexual Sheriff 🤠 12 insightful - 6 fun12 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Look at my giant hairy man hands and not my mustachio'd face said the "lesbian."

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]ArthnoldManacatsamanOoh, flair. 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As someone with short, stubby little fingers I appreciate this.

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]julesburm1891 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah. Or that she was obnoxious and always had to talk about how gay she was. Or that she was a virgin. Idk. I’ve never seen it in seriousness and I wouldn’t be on board if I did.

Self-ID prompt in WorkDay (I am so fucking done) by jjdub7TERF (Trans Exterminating Reactionary Fascist) in LGBDropTheT

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

WTF is that definition of asexual?

Lil Nas X is supergay by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So delusional it hurts.

Masterful virtue signalling- but skirt still go spinny by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]PatsyStone🚔Bisexual Sheriff 🤠 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We had some boys pull something similar at my high school, but with eyeliner. It was only allowed for girls at the time, but our goth and emo brothers rose up in defiance ✊

They got a lot of other guys to wear eyeliner for a couple of days before the administration relented and agreed to stop enforcing that part of the dress code. They replaced the eyeliner rule with a "no distracting makeup" rule that got some of those same goth boys in trouble later. Your eyeliner couldn't be noticable, no drawing on your face, or unnatural colors.

Lil Nas X is supergay by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But TRAs say they don't pressurize gay people to have sex with them. This never happens. /s

Y’all are bigoted transphobic monsters by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

All I can say to this he/him is to just cry more. Lol.

So I found this little piece of hypocritical garbage being an official in-game object (The Sims 4) by DickFreeBacon🥓 | ♀️ | 🇵🇱 | SUPER🌈LESBIAN in LGBDropTheT

[–]artetolife 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

The game has aliens in it.

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 14 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Wow, this lesbian has such long fingers, as a small-hand owner I'm so jealous. But what's matters is how you use them not the size... and beinga real woman while using them... :D

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 10 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

There is a femme lesbian on the comment who actually does it lol

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]yousaythosethingsWomXXn 👩‍❤️‍👩 WomXXn 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

This is an excellent point. I don’t know anyone with the “lesbian manicure” IRL. I think it looks ghastly and tbh if a lesbian had it, I would assume she’s bad at sex.

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

His facial features tell it all.