They didn't understand that this post maybe was directed to the "transbians" on AL

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[–]blackrainbow[S] 65 insightful - 7 fun65 insightful - 6 fun66 insightful - 7 fun -  (24 children)

From the comments:

"Lesbians don't do dick" is transphobic whether or not you accept that.

What's a real dick? Like lesbians can have bigger dicks than cis men if their strap-on allows it. Also there's trans girls who have a "real dick" it's just soft and adorable

NOW I WANT TO VOMIT

[–]blackrainbow[S] 64 insightful - 11 fun64 insightful - 10 fun65 insightful - 11 fun -  (3 children)

Funny story actually, before I came out of the closet as a trans woman, I didn't think it was creepy. After all, what straight man doesn't constantly imagine themselves in a lesbian relationship, having lesbian sex? Turns out most amab people do not think like this, and instead fantasize about lesbians in a creepy way.

You're not a lesbian and you're still creepy. Get over it John.

it turns out constantly fantasising about being a woman and dating other women is a symptom of being a gay woman

Yeah... Sure

OMG there are a lot of comments like this, I don't have the time to cite them all. It is disgusting though. They are all creepy straight guys.

[–][deleted] 36 insightful - 4 fun36 insightful - 3 fun37 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Wow... what the actual hell was that?!

And ''translesbians'' say that they don't fetishize lesbians...

[–]Cicerosolo 25 insightful - 6 fun25 insightful - 5 fun26 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Lol at autogynephiles claiming their proclivities are overwhelmingly common among the male population. The next claim they make they makes me laugh is when they say straight dudes and women love futas. Okay agp.

[–]distortedlindsLady Muse 11 insightful - 7 fun11 insightful - 6 fun12 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

"get over it john" LOL

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 42 insightful - 5 fun42 insightful - 4 fun43 insightful - 5 fun -  (6 children)

Is there any demographic that thinks a penis can or should be soft and adorable? Even for gay men, that penis would just be pathetic and undesirable.

[–]Eurowoman24 28 insightful - 6 fun28 insightful - 5 fun29 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

only creepy transbians and uwu queers perhaps?

[–]Shadow_Lurker 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It's a cope!

HRT ruined their dicks, so they must resort to shit like this to assure themselves they haven't commited a terrible mistake.

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I thought the same. A flavor cock is a sad cock, no?

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

If by soft they mean skin texture and not flaccid, then yeah. I like the feel of smooth dick skin. And "adorable" can simply mean "able to be adored", and if you're a raging (big scary f word that retarded automod will nuke my comment for) like me, that makes sense.

But I don't think trans dick has either of those qualities. Dick attached to narcissists who think highly of themselves is never quality, nor do they know how to use it well.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I would think that the skin of a penis, which is the most nerve dense area of the male body and is more nerve dense than most areas on a female body, would still be softer than most, if not all, areas of both men and women that a skin graft would be taken from, so if that's what they're going for, it could very well be backfiring on them. And the term "adorable" is too subjective to make any actual conclusions from. I would think that something adorable would be small and weak or otherwise harmless, though, like a defenseless puppy or some adult dogs that wouldn't hurt a fly.

[–][deleted] 37 insightful - 1 fun37 insightful - 0 fun38 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

My favourite is this one:

Oof yes. I really liked pictures of wlw couples being loving and tender. The cuter and more wholesome the better. I later figured out I want to be a girl in a loving wlw relationship. I still have impostor syndrome over it though, so I haven't pursued it at all. I even ignore all my dating app matches. 😩

That's because you are an imposter.

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I have plenty of loving, tender, and totally wholesome sex with my boyfriend. Imagine that.

[–]blackrainbow[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They all have strict gender stereotypes in mind, a man can be tender and loving just like a girl.

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Also, that's not what "impostor syndrome" is...

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    [–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

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    [–]Rosefield 28 insightful - 3 fun28 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    What a dumbass. "Hurr durr what's real???!!11"

    A penis is a male sexual organ. THE END

    [–]mevesiisick of flags 21 insightful - 8 fun21 insightful - 7 fun22 insightful - 8 fun -  (2 children)

    soft

    Correct me if I'm wrong, but I was under the impression that would definitely not be a selling point for anyone who likes dick, lol

    [–]reluctant_commenter 23 insightful - 9 fun23 insightful - 8 fun24 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

    They think they're "women with dicks" and they think that "everything about women is always soft uWu" so they have to have a "soft dick". (Someone hold my vomit bag, please.)

    [–]Freetochoose 10 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 5 fun11 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

    I laughed reading this

    [–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    As much as I like dicks sexually, I'm pretty sure MTF dicks are the least "adorable" there is. Dick attached to a raging narcissist full of hate is never quality. Same reason I avoid "tops" like the plague and don't use dumpster fires like Grindr.

    They say "don't stick your dick in crazy", but the reverse also applies. Don't go near the dick of a narcissist, it's never work it and they're so full of themselves they won't be good at using them either.

    [–]blackrainbow[S] 44 insightful - 9 fun44 insightful - 8 fun45 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

    So, men are fetishising lesbians and glorifying dick under a post that denounces men fetishising lesbians. I don't know what to say anymore.

    [–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 40 insightful - 14 fun40 insightful - 13 fun41 insightful - 14 fun -  (2 children)

    I can enjoy the attention from a man without feeling attracted to him. I consider myself a lesbian but there’s also the “fantasy” of men vs the “reality” of men, sometimes fictional men do it for me, real ones never do. (I’m super into furry guys somedays don’t @ me)

    Um what. Checks profile A transbian. Of course it is.

    [–][deleted] 20 insightful - 7 fun20 insightful - 6 fun21 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

    pseudo-bisexuality! point!

    [–]reluctant_commenter 16 insightful - 6 fun16 insightful - 5 fun17 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

    Lol, is there a point system for observing what the case for these commenters actually is? Hahaha

    I feel like one could do pretty well by just guessing "AGP straight male" every time...

    [–]julesburm1891 42 insightful - 4 fun42 insightful - 3 fun43 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

    I really don’t know what else will wake up lesbians at this point.

    [–]reluctant_commenter 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    To be honest, I'm kind of convinced most of the commenters are just men or bisexual/straight women. I feel like any lesbian would've noped the fuck out of there by now. And I mean that even compared to several months ago, when I analyzed the survey data they put out.

    [–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 40 insightful - 4 fun40 insightful - 3 fun41 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

    i actually did worry i was being creepy because the idea of being a lesbian and being in a lesbian relationship absolutely fascinated me? wlw resonated with me on a level the straights just didn't, which seemed odd given that i still thought i was a straight dude it turns out constantly fantasising about being a woman and dating other women is a symptom of being a gay woman the thing actual men do, which is more like fantasising about turning lesbians straight? that's what's creepy

    Splitting hairs. You're still just a creepy straight dude, just with long hair, fake hormones and a bigger sense of entitlement.

    [–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 38 insightful - 7 fun38 insightful - 6 fun39 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

    Every. Single. Time. Jfc, stop speaking for us. They mean you. It's amazing how you can tell, but every time I check a suspected transbian's profile, I'm right.

    I mean, it's true though. I'm an exhibitionist, and I love the attention I get when I'm running a scene with another girl. Men can fantasize about whatever they want to as long as they stay respectful towards me.

    Flair = "Plot twist: I'm gay." Checks profile again. Another transbian. This one claims to be "high femme." In his dreams. And of course he's into kink and polyamory and wanted to talk about polyamory with a customer while working as a cashier. But what are boundaries anyway?

    I'm slowly getting over the fetishization, I guess I have some experience since I'm trans and people love to see us as a porn category too

    Says a period-fetishizing transbian. Literally no one fetishizes and pornifies trans people as much as trans people themselves. Every transbian's profile I clicked on in this thread alone shows countless examples of the transbian fetishizing and sexualizing themselves for themselves and other men.

    What i find super confusing, and pretty damn creepy as well, is how many men i see fantasising, not just about lesbians, but like, actually having sex with them, or like "breaking a gold star's streak" (yes i actually saw that one time).

    That happened. And yes, it was another transbian who needs to step away from the porn.

    They'll like big clits or biological strap-ons that feel VERY good when played with in the right way

    Barf. And this poster's bio description: "Just a small town girl, living in a happy world or at least trying to!! I'm currently trying my best to love my body while flirting with as many cute girls as I can haha!!!!! Remember I'm fucking GAY." Duh, it's another transbian. They use the word "cute" more than I did when I was 9.

    Also, there are many non-binaries complaining about the sexualization of women in that thread. So much irony. Might that be why you don't identify with womanhood?

    [–]diapason 22 insightful - 4 fun22 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

    Also, there are many non-binaries complaining about the sexualization of women in that thread. So much irony. Might that be why you don't identify with womanhood?

    Ding ding ding

    [–]chazzstrong 28 insightful - 6 fun28 insightful - 5 fun29 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

    And yet these are the same people who think lesbians who won't fuck a trans-woman are 'transphobic'.
    I can't even crack a joke, because no joke would be as funny as these fucking imbeciles.

    [–]chz_g0d 28 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Omg these takes are spicy hot... I love when they state something fetishistic or creepy then follow up with "it turns out, I was a lesbian the whole time hehe". No. You weren't nor will you ever be. AL is now a bunch of men cheerleading and encouraging eachother to pressure unwilling participants to include them in their dating pool.

    [–][deleted] 26 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    I have to fucking laugh at the absolute lack of self-awareness amongst the cough 'transbians'.

    You are exactly the men that lesbians are referring to.

    Autogynephilia is a thing, as these people persistently prove.

    [–]oyasuminasai50 24 insightful - 3 fun24 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    All of the tone deaf comments are from trans women. Could it be that living life as a certain sex and spending most if not all of your formative years as that sex MIGHT prevent you from seeing things from the POV of the opposite sex? And that that might be an irrevocable blind spot for you?? Is that possible????

    [–]marmorsymphata 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Of COURSE the pathetic transbian doesn't understand what rape is

    [–][deleted] 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I'd almost be ok with transbians in the community, but for the fact that whenever a woman says that she doesn't like dick, or that she isn't attracted to transbians because they have male features, transbians will treat it as an opportunity to push her boundaries. For example, if they were saying things like "lesbians don't like dick including girl dick and that's fine by me" or "I can understand why you do not what to date trans women and I accept that" that would be ok. But I've never heard someone say that. It's always something about how girl dick is so different to "real" dick, or how they wouldn't want to use it anyway. Or how not wanting to date a transwoman as a general rule is always transphobic. When I told one that I wouldn't be with a transwoman with a neo-vagina because they'd have other masculine features like broad shoulders and massive hands / jaw, they typed out a 10 point list of how hormones make a man change to be just like a woman. It's always the case that if a lesbian sets a boundary around having sex with transwomen that one of them (or all if it's AL) will try to push her that one step further because they need the satisfaction of knowing that all lesbians will be attracted to them. And of course when a woman sets a sexual boundary that's something that's up for debate. It's the straight male reasoning of "how can I persuade / pressure her to have sex with me?" "she says no, but can I convince her otherwise?".

    [–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    How ironic lol

    [–]Ninaran 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    The irony of that thread being on that sub with all those AGP straight men wanting to coerce rape my L sisters is seriously upsetting.

    [–]lazy-summer-godSuper Gay 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    'Straight man bad, unless he say he a woman'