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[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Reminder that there is about a 99.7% chance that this is a HUMILIATION fetish - because men like this see being female & female body functions as inherently shameful. It's not just creepy and stalkerish, the fact that they get off on this says a lot about how they view women in everyday life.

Never believe the lie that kinks "stay in the bedroom." I can tell you with experience that they don't. Men who get off on being humiliated by "being made into a woman" are sexist outside of the bedroom, and men who get off on "dominating" others are narcissistic assholes in everyday life too.

[–]reluctant_commenter 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Reminder that there is about a 99.7% chance that this is a HUMILIATION fetish - because men like this see being female & female body functions as inherently shameful.

Whoa. That's a really good point. I'd never connected those particular two dots before, but now I'm REALLY curious.

Have you read anything about overlap between the two? Like, humiliation/masochism paraphilia and AGP? I know people with paraphilias often have multiple, but that's a short logical step from one to another, in the case of those two. I might go see if there are any papers talking about it.

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Not sure if there's any "official" studies or anything (because let's face it, these things are too "transphobic" to study) but I'm positive there is an overlap. /r/itsafetish, before it got deleted by Reddit's ban wave and before it was taken over by whiny femcels, also used to post numerous examples of this. Of course TRAs always called it "cherry picking" but when there were new posts each day of MTFs with a "feminization" humiliaton fetish... well it's hard to argue it's just a coincidence.

I also remember hearing that MTFs are more likely to have paraphilias. Possibly because being MTF is a paraphilia in itself, or that people with paraphilias tend to be... for a lack of a better term, "weirder." Like how furries tend to have an assortment of bizarre fetishes, despite the base idea of being a furry in itself not specifically sexual - but furries as a whole tend to be stereotyped as a sex thing simply because for some reason it attracts a ton of perverted men.

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Gotcha... that's fascinating. Seems like there is a direct link between misogyny -> humiliation fetish, and misogyny -> trans identification ("being a woman is all about wearing makeup!"), and humiliation fetish -> trans AGP (paraphilias tending to cluster together). I have seen a couple studies demonstrating the paraphilia cluster phenomenon. Maybe I'll make a post about it, it is a weird subject but waaayyy relevant to dropping the T from LGB. Thanks for explaining!

[–][deleted] 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

No woman I have ever met in my life gets off on using pads, tampons, menstrual cups, pantiliners, etc. They are literal necessities with huge stigma attached to them because men see our bodies and bodily functions as dirty. Most women want to get used menstrual products as far away from themselves as possible as quickly as possible and manage the inconveniences that periods bring.

Meanwhile this pervert is getting back pats for his disgusting fetish.

[–]lostinreverieMy ovaries are transphobic 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Looking at this before bed was a mistake.

[–]reluctant_commenter 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I thought your post title was going to be clickbait or a joke. I think that's the most disgusting thing I've seen in 2020.

Short summary, NSFW: a man bragged about how he

  • self-identifies as a woman

  • stalked a woman til he knew her menstrual cycle

  • goes into the women's bathroom where she works and takes out her used tampons/pads from the trash and puts them on.

WTF. I feel ill.

edit: with pictures, and excited comments from other sexual predators as well.

[–]Tikiri 13 insightful - 7 fun13 insightful - 6 fun14 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

This, during a global pandemic. I don’t want to wish Covid on anybody, but ...

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There is a reason why restraining orders exist. What a sick fuck. Enabled by self-ID laws.

[–]diapason 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Rule 41: If it exists, it's someone's fetish.

[–]NiceDickBro 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

What a fucking depraved cunt...

The “Cock and balls” caption got me tho.

[–]Lesbianese 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

If you hate having eyes, here's a whole thread of men like this: https://kiwifarms.net/threads/period-fetishists-on-fetlife.51278/

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And it's still not as depraved as some of the stuff on the trans sideshows thread. 😬 Not a fetish tho

[–]BiHorror 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

the link doesn't work :(

[–]LasagnaRossa 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Have you tried to click the link twice? Everytime I need to click, exit the page, and click again to make it work.

[–]BiHorror 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, it's working now! Earlier it just either kept sending me to Twitter's error page or right back to saidit. :/

[–]CheesyPeas 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

They have protected their tweets now.

They always turn turtle.

[–]BiHorror 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They did? The link doesn't send me to protected page. It goes to TRA Misogyny' specific tweet still.

[–]Lesbianese 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Kiwi Farms is banned in certain (woque) countries, maybe that has something to do with it? Or it could be your browser, I was having trouble with the DDG earlier.

[–]BiHorror 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

kiwi Farms link was fine, it was the Twitter link that wasn't working. Could've been the browser tho.

[–]Lesbianese 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Oh sorry, thought it was in reply to me. Twitter doesn't want to work the majority of the time I click on a link from here tbf, takes me refreshing like 4-5 times.

[–]BiHorror 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's alright! But yeah, it does the same thing for me.