LGB ErasureWhy It’s Transphobic to Deny Attraction to Transgender People - an article that I found. What a load of bullshit.

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[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (17 children)

No one’s saying that you have to sleep with us, but if you don't you are biggot

They are never changing.

Why they just can't take "No"? As everyone saying to them - anyone have right to deny sex to anyone else. No one have a right to demand sex from others. However, they are failing to understand this every time.

One should ask themself what’s so repulsive about being from Asia that it makes a dealbreaker?

So "I don't want to date or have sex with asian people" means that I am racist and hate asian people?

[–]LasagnaRossa 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

So "I don't want to date or have sex with asian people" means that I am racist and hate asian people?

Some SJW really do think that

[–]ColoredTwice 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

So everyone owe sex to men by their logic? And saying "no" is hateful? I guess rape is not a crime then?

[–]bastetkat 26 insightful - 5 fun26 insightful - 4 fun27 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Using their logic, incels are the most oppressed minority because they can’t get laid, and we’re the bigots for rejecting them.

[–]3MistersAndAMissy 18 insightful - 5 fun18 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Turn it around and say ‘I really REALLY want to date and have sex with Asians” and see if that doesn’t become problematic on a different level lol.

‘You are fetishizing an entire race of people”

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I don't get why people are soooo concerned about who other people are fucking. As long as they're not hurting anybody, why on earth does it matter who they're inviting to their bedroom?? Why does it matter?????

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Same questions we were asking homophobes who were against cancelling anti-gay laws or against allowing same-sex marriages. For some reason our personal life matters a lot to them, for both old conservative homophobes and new genderfluid woke homophobes.

[–]lavender_menace 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It’s because no one invites them.

[–]ChodeSandwichtender and moist 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

If you do date (minority) you're a fetishist and dicking a (minority) doesn't mean that you're exempt from being bigoted. However if you don't date (minority) you're also a bigot.

That's right, there is no way to win. It's just another excuse to scold you and get some keyboard warrior high off their own righteous catharsis.

[–]just_lesbian_things 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

dicking a (minority) doesn't mean that you're exempt from being bigoted

True

date (minority) you're a fetishist

Depends, but sometimes true

However if you don't date (minority) you're also a bigot.

Untrue. Most people don't care. Like with everything, there's a few entitled nutcases, but the majority don't care. I personally prefer if people were more upfront about it so I don't waste my time, but I understand that not everyone is comfortable with that level of bluntness. I hate it when T tries to play the racism card.

[–]Eurowoman24 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

got no problem comparing black women and muslim women (less but I've seen it) to men though.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I saw that argument too - "If black women are allowed in women's toilets, then why transwomen aren't?". And it wasn't even single case where I saw it, multiple different trans activists were saying phrases like this. Are they comparing black women to men in dresses? Or do they saying that black women are somehow less women? What does they even mean? This is so wrong and racist, that I can't even understand them at all.

[–]Eurowoman24 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

both. This takes us back to as recent as the 1920's? for the longest time black women we're seen as manly, beastly, there's been several of these racists archetypes in films and you can find old ads depicting black women as ugly, heavy, unattractive, while the white woman was always pretty, feminine a proper woman. https://www.ecosia.org/images?q=racist+depiction+of+black+women+in+1800s#id=257D504AD0C9DF5D834DEB3E41CED272E0186BCA

https://www.ecosia.org/images?q=racist+depiction+of+black+women+in+1800s#id=DC33B0029606A66CA4005C238BE98B71E3C11F62

Their racism is really shining through and would show more if they didn't get hate from a good amount of people online for it. Still a large portion like those tweets which is sad.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I see, thanks. Here slaves were mostly white people and asian people, so I am not aware of such stuff.

This makes their words even worse than I thought initially. Why their ideology so homophobic and racist, and why so many "progressive" people are on board with them?

Not related: I wrote "white people and asians" at first, then changed to "whites and asians", but then remembered that someone said "whites" is a slur. Is "asians" a slur too? Or only "whites" and "blacks" are slurs in English? Or they aren't slurs and that person was just wrong?

[–]Eurowoman24 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

np, it is extremely bad. These archetypes can be traced back to black slavery in the states where the black woman was a woman but less then a white woman since she was black considered a black mare and they were treated like animals, forced to breed to make more slaves, raped by the white slave masters, lots of racism also built on the fact that no one wanted to consider that they could be attractive and therefore they had to make sure the white woman(wife of the slave master) wasn't jealous. I have no idea why so many people are on board with them tbh, no idea. Whoever said that is to sensitive, "whites" "blacks" "asians" can be divise and used to divide people, put them into categories, not slurs though. I think it because bad when it's used as a negative stereotype "black people X".

[–]Tikiri 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

They also never consider the fact that maybe people don’t want to date people of a certain race/religion/culture because they’ve already done that, perhaps multiple times, and had such awful, traumatizing experiences that they don’t want to do that again, ever.

🔔DING DING DING!!🔔

[–]lavender_menace 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter to them. You have unlearn that bias and look for reasons to date them anyway. We already heard those arguments when they said rape victims had to unlearn their fear of dick.