BisexualBi-furious rant

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[–]julesburm1891 61 insightful - 2 fun61 insightful - 1 fun62 insightful - 2 fun -  (13 children)

Bi people shouldn't be expected to be attracted to mixed-sex characteristics.

Also, no one is obligated to be into surgically created genitals.

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 31 insightful - 5 fun31 insightful - 4 fun32 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

Exactly. There are so many people who have a hard time being attracted to plastic-surgery body-parts, especially if they're poorly made. I've heard too many men laugh at women about "bowling balls bolted onto her chest" or "Donald Duck face." You can't force people to be attracted to something their instincts red flag as unnatural. Even the type of men who'd usually stick their dick in anything take pause when plastic surgery doesn't look right.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 25 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. For example, I've HATED fake boobs since as long as I remember. I want natural boobs on my woman. I personally prefer a flat chested woman over a woman with huge fake boobs any day. For me, natural is always better. Fake boobs are just very hard and look unnatural to me.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

mixed-sex characteristics

Exactly the words. It's so discordant, and never going to work because there are just many features which can't be modified to match the target sex. Not to mention genitals which are built using parts from elsewhere on the body. It's like a fevered dream that someone up and decided was a good idea to bring into reality. I mean, they can go ahead and do it, but don't expect other people to be turned on by it.

[–]julesburm1891 19 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

One of my guy friends is bi. A couple of years ago he went on a few dates with a transwoman who’d been on hormones and had breast surgery. He was all good with the situation because, in his mind, he like both. (He said his date was perfectly fine too.) Then, it came time for the clothes to come off. As soon as he saw dick and boobs together, he said his dick went completely soft and he couldn’t do anything to get hard again. It was evidently mortifying for him and the transwoman was pretty embarrassed as well.

A person may like two things just fine on their own, but never ever be about their combination.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I can definitely understand the logic he used. It makes perfect sense as simple bi-rithmetic. But with physical attraction, Something Good + Something Good doesn't necessarily compound and = Something Better. Instead, I feel it's more like chemistry, where 2 very characteristic(but very different) features in proximity can alter each other in completely unpredictable ways or even cancel out one another's poignancy and strength when mixed(like acids and bases), leaving one with nothing in the end..

[–]PeakingPeachEaterfemale♀ | detrans🦎 | eater of peaches 🍑 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

Thank you!

I like my men and women that are without "neo-peni/vaginas" because they were "born in the wrong body". No thank you.

[–]julesburm1891 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Just to confirm I’m reading your flair correctly, you are trans and acknowledge there’s a difference between genitals and surgically created genitals?

[–]PeakingPeachEaterfemale♀ | detrans🦎 | eater of peaches 🍑 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Oh nope, I am NOT trans. I thought that ⚥ was for bisexual?

Trans is this ⚧, no?

Edit: I think I will remove flair, I am not too sure what it is.

[–]julesburm1891 12 insightful - 6 fun12 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 6 fun -  (2 children)

Nope. You’re right. That is for bi. I’m an idiot and had it wrong. (My amazement that a trans person was being honest about it was very short lived though.)

[–]PeakingPeachEaterfemale♀ | detrans🦎 | eater of peaches 🍑 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Oh lol hahaha gotcha! I was confused on the sign to be honest. I detransitioned(FtM) nearly a decade ago. I peaked kinda early though in questioning sex vs gender and "what the hell am I doing?" when I wanted to transition. Luckily, I did not go through with surgery. Didn't want to...which made me question everything more lol.

[–]8bitgay 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've seen some, but they get pushed out of their own community.

[–]deliciousdogfoodmy name isnt a puppyplay reference i swear 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

No one is obligated to be into anything or anyone.

[–]Rosefield 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Don't let the Transstapo hear this