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[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 31 insightful - 8 fun31 insightful - 7 fun32 insightful - 8 fun -  (3 children)

All this "Genital preference" is just another form of bi-erasure. We like BOTH and we still don't want you. The problem isn't the genital, it's YOU.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

100%. Though it's also a form of bi-erasure. Naturally it affects all of LGB. We just get targeted as "you like both so you have to like us" more often, perhaps. Utterly failing to note that what we LIKE is not what they are offering, just like it isn't for L and G.

Plus there's that whole problem of being ugly on the inside, which might have been what you were referring to anyway. I will never be attracted to a narcissist. I have a severe allergy.

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Plus there's that whole problem of being ugly on the inside, which might have been what you were referring to anyway.

Haha, yeah this!

I have found some drag queens 'hot' in the past, of course they were gay and didn't give me that RED FLAG feeling of being lesbian fetishists who see women as props to play out their fantasies. The problem isn't the costuming, the problem is the mental illness, and the second problem is the way the cross-sex hormones affect their bodies. I don't want a man with a shriveled up girl-dick and floppy bitch-tits. I don't want a woman with a 2-inch clit/penis and dried up vagina you need to stick like a half a jar of coconut oil in there to lube it up. I can even deal with these problems if they occurred naturally due to a health issue, and I happen to love the person, but if they had a perfectly healthy body and they did this shit to themselves due to mental illness, I don't want it.

There isn't a person out there in the world today who isn't suffering from some kind of mental trauma or illness, but I still get to choose which type of crazy I date.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am sure that people who medically transition would be a lot happier in a future where drop-in, natural-seeming replacement parts were the norm. In the meantime, wrecking your perfectly-good bits isn't the best sales pitch. I have no problem with people medically transitioning, but that doesn't suddenly make them relevant to my life. That's what they don't seem to get—the pushy ones: They didn't achieve relevance.

[–]Rosefield 25 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

These idiots think sexual orientation is learned. Implying being lgb is a choice.

Unlearn your same sex attraction, bigots! Your only job is gender identity validation!!

[–]fuck_reddit 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well, to them, it is a choice. Every label they apply to themselves screams of “treat me special!!!” And not an innate fact of their being...

[–]Smolders1Cock is god's greatest gift. 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Stop being attracted to biological sex. You only exist to 'validate' (such a stupid word) those who have mental disorders."

Can't believe people like this represent our community in such a manner on one of the biggest social media platforms in the world. How aren't more people seeing that the gender identity bullshit has nothing to do with sexual orientation? We desperately need separation from their group.

[–]chandra 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's pretty obvious at this point that these people's entire worldview is built around their desire to get laid. Like, they feel excluded because so few people want to date trans, so they've redefined sex out of sexuality and decided any thought that they're sexually different to cis people is bigotry. If you ever wanted to argue 'all politics is sexual pathology,' trans ideas about sexuality are so obvious an example it feels like cheating.

It's equally obvious that it's not working, from the fact that they have to keep writing these essays and posting 'trans women are women' everywhere. Any man who must say 'I am a man' is no man.

[–]reluctant_commenter 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They need to tell that to the straight people. Why are they always targeting us?

[–]Locke 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've always had thoughts like, "If I loved someone and their genitals somehow magically switched I'd still love them." It took me way too long to realize this isn't "normal", I'm just bi. It would have been so much easier to figure that out about myself without all the "genital preference" bs.

There's nothing "woke" about the fact I'm just wired a certain way. It's such a contradictory mindfuck how bisexuality is treated. You simultaneously get the messages, "Everyone should be like that!" and "You should just 'pick a side'!" I kinda forgot what the original topic was, sorry. I've been working on accepting that I'm bisexual and this community is a helpful breath of non crazy fresh air to help with that.

[–]peruserprecurer 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is the only person I've ever heard use the term 'colorism'. Is this "Gay Ass Little Frog" trying to say 'racism'?