As an actual late-bloomer, I am kind of on a mission to root out all of this gay misappropriation that I see rampant in places like r/latebloomerlesbians, r/actuallesbians, etc. Quite honestly this behavior harms actual LBLs like myself because people are going to think I'm like these self-deluded tourists and it trivializes the issues that actual gay, lesbian, and bisexual people face as a result of their same-sex attraction.

This mindset goes hand-in-hand with TQ ideology, which supports that people can identify in and out of sexual orientation and equates being gay or bisexual with being open-minded. It also mirrors TQ behavior and particularly Rapid-Onset Gender Dysphoria (ROGD) because it has these women trying to re-write their history to fit a narrative that is not theirs so that they can shoehorn themselves in based on stereotypes and turn being gay/lesbian/bisexual into an identity/feeling.

Anyway, this woman's post history is full of her questioning her sexual orientation as of less than three weeks ago based on the following:

I was on tiktok last week and my feed was full of hot women. I started thinking that I found them attractive and wondering what it meant.

I follow this girl on Instagram who recently came out as gay after having been in relationships with guys and their relationship looks so easy and happy and it made me jealous. I don't know if it made me jealous because she was with a woman or because she had found her soulmate.

She then spends apparently that whole day chattiing with women on dating apps and trying to convince herself she's so gay over the course of the next few days while talking about admitted physical attraction to men's bodies. She is clearly in a bad place, probably lonely AF during quarantine as a single mom to a young child, and wants an excuse for her failed relationships. What's missing? Uh the main thing that makes a woman a lesbian: exclusive, natural, and obvious sexual attraction to female bodies. She's worried she won't like vaginas. Like wtf.