LesbianIn case you were wondering, this is what it looks like to misappropriate a gay/lesbian "identity" as a solution to life's problems.

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[–]SeasideLimbs 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Thank you! People are starting to realize that transtrending is a thing. But I see few people who realize gaytrending is a thing, too.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I think people noticed the 'bisexual trend'. Suddenly lots of straight women were saying they were bi lol. But now, it's changing to lesbian/gay instead of bisexual and I agree with you, I really don't think people have realised it yet.

[–]LiterallyawomanTERF IRL 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

This happened in my highschool and college years- a friend actually confided in me her "goal" for the end of the year was to "become bisexual" and plenty other women who wanted to be "not like the other girls" were suddenly bi with no bi experiences or desires lol. Meanwhile I came out as bi and was socially outcast at my small cornfield college then fetishized by men to the point I never told anyone again (currently dating a man).

It's nothing new, except along with the teens trying to redefine themselves and redefine sex as they have since the beginning of time we have lots of emotionally stunted adults doing it to.

[–]reluctant_commenter 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Whoa, holy shit. I did not realize it was that bad. I thought people were just being hurtful by saying stuff like that.

I'm sorry you had so little support! Hope you're doing okay now.

[–]LiterallyawomanTERF IRL 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you! Its been cool over the years to realize I had no reason to feel shame or feel isolated being bi. Though in this new TRA environment I don’t feel comfortable being openly bi either. I just keep to myself outside my closest loved ones about it.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think it is because lesbian and gay words are redefined by gender ideologists as bisexuals, to a point when they are synonymous for outside-people who are checking UK/Canada news time to time.