Thinking in terms of race feels like it's helped me a lot. I feel like I understand better who I am, and how I relate to others around me. I don't think it has to mean hostility, and I don't think pretending we don't have differences is the way to genuine friendship. I'd rather be among people like me, and I'd also rather have friendly and mutually beneficial relations with people who are different.

We can be united, but seperate.

Excerpt from a post from reddit that I liked (emphasis added):

Remember the original Black Panther Party. Although the New Black Panthers are a black supremacist group, the original Panthers were black nationalists, socialists, and anti-racists. They monitored the behavior of their local police, worked with organizations of other ethnic groups like the Young Lords (Puerto Ricans), I Wor Kuen (Asians), and the Young Patriots (white southerners and Appalachians), and they set up free breakfast programs and community health clinics. The FBI did everything in its power to destroy this organization. What made the Black Panthers so dangerous is that they were not some kind of evil anti-white group. They were blacks who cared passionately about their people and did what they could to help them. As a result of the decline of the black power movement, many young African American men got involved with organized crime instead of political organizations. A big part of the growth of the Crips and the Bloods came from the decline of the positive alternatives. Black criminals are far less of a threat to the elites in the United States than smart, reasonable black identitarians.

Needless to say, the situation whites find ourselves in is far different from that of the Palestinians and African Americans in many ways but here, I think it is comparable. The elites who are against white identitarianism do not want a moderate white identity politics to exist. They want all white identitarianism to be like the KKK or neo-nazism. They need us to be their villains. If it turns out that white advocates can be reasonable individuals who don’t hate anybody and just love their people (much like the advocates for most other ethnic and racial groups), they suddenly become far more difficult to demonize. They want you to be a hateful racist who calls for the extermination of other groups, uses slurs, believes conspiracy theories, and thinks other races are subhuman. That's all bullshit. You can love your people without hating any other people. You can be pro-white without being anti-nonwhite. Never let yourself turn into the ridiculous, stupid adversary they want to fight against.