A woman can often get whatever she wants on a golden platter, and if that doesn't work she can just cry about it and you're a monster if you don't give in. While a man can go die in a war or suffer the worst torture imaginable--with lower pain tolerance, mind you, both mentally and physically--and no one will give a shit; in fact, he will be punished if he doesn't suffer, without complaint. Women can get away with almost anything with no consequences

I suggest you look at the mass rapes and abuse of women and girls that men routinely commit in war. Look what the Japanese Imperial soldiers did to the women of Nanjing, China in WW2, and to the Korean women they forced into prostitution for the Japanese troops. Look at the mass rapes of German girls and women that Soviet troops committed at the end of WW2. For present day examples, look at the what ISIS and the Taliban have done to women in war.

Also, look into history and world events more generally.

When I was growing up in the US in the 1960s, American women had no right to legal abortion - and it was legal to fire female employees from their jobs and kick girls and women out of school for getting pregnant. Girls and women who got pregnant when they weren't married were scorned as sluts, privately and publicly shunned and sent away.

In Ireland (both the republic and NI), girls and women who got pregnant outside of marriage - or merely had the temerity to flirt with boys - were locked up and enslaved in places the workhouses known as Magadelene laundries and institutions called mother & baby homes. Those who gave birth usually had their babies taken away against their will and given to married couples for adoption. Many of the children who were not adopted out died due to malnutrition, lack of medical treatment, abuse by officials and other suspicious circumstances.

For decades, the stories of these places and the atrocities carried out in them, were largely unspoken — despite calls from the mothers who became virtual prisoners within their walls and children who spent their earliest years there, later sharing stories of neglect and abuse.

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/12/world/europe/ireland-mother-baby-home-report.html

The Magdalene laundries remained in operation until 1984. The mother and baby homes until 1998. More than 56,000 girls and women in Ireland ranging in age from 12 to 44 were sent to these institutions for getting pregnant outside of marriage, or sometimes just for having flirted, kissed or been sexually abused by boys or men (including priests and other clergymen and their own brothers and fathers). But not a single one of the boys and men who had sex with these girls and women and fathered their children suffered any negative consequences whatsoever.

In most of the West, women only got the right to vote in national elections 100 years ago - and this right certainly was not handed to women "on a golden platter." In my own lifetime, girls and women lacked basic rights like the right to attend certain schools and study certain subjects, the right to apply for certain jobs and enter various professions, the right to get a credit card or bank loan without a male co-signer, the right to have scholastic sports, and the right to prosecute if we were beaten or raped by the men we were married to.

As for war: what many men through history have suffered physically and emotionally in warfare is horrible. But nearly all wars over the course of human history have been started and waged by men. Used to be, warfare was called delayed male infanticide - a way that older men past their prime could legally kill off young males once they reached the age when they were at their sexual and physical peak and could compete with, challenge or overthrow the older men.

With the exception of outliers like Golda Meir and Margaret Thatcher, few women have started and waged wars coz very few women have been heads of state or commanders of militaries.

Women have always done their bit in various wars in all sorts of ways both on the home front and on the front lines, including serving in combat:

https://www.history.com/news/women-wwii-military-combat-front-lines

https://www.airforcemag.com/PDF/MagazineArchive/Magazine%20Documents/2014/October%202014/1014Witches.pdf

While a man can go die in a war or suffer the worst torture imaginable--with lower pain tolerance, mind you, both mentally and physically--and no one will give a shit

I suggest you spend some time looking into what human labor and childbirth entails for women mentally and physically both as it happens and in the months and years down the line. In the poorer parts of the world today, the leading cause of death for teenage girls is pregnancy/childbirth.