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[–]LasagnaRossa 25 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I still don't understand why they're unhappy about chasers. Some people seek and appreciate you for that specific body part, you should be happy. Unless they also objectify you, there's nothing wrong.

The situation is the same if you are blonde and attract "blonde chasers".

[–]greenish 24 insightful - 3 fun24 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Because 'chasers' are interested in them for being trans, not for being women, and what they want is the validation of someone of their preferred sex (LOL) being attracted to them on the basis of being women, not as trans, which is invalidating of their delusions.

Many even like being objectified, but only if they think it's because they're women, not because they're trans. They will complain bitterly about the latter and use it to prove their "oppression", while being flattered by and seeking the former, because it makes them feel soooo sexy and validated.

[–]LasagnaRossa 19 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Hmm, I think you're right.

Because 'chasers' are interested in them for being trans, not for being women,

Well, who else would be attracted to them otherwise? What do they expect? LOL

Casually my boyfriend is one of those people who like trans women (too) for their "transness". When I told him his taste would actually be frowned upon by the trans community itself, he was surprised.

But that's reality: we are attracted to people because of their bodies too. I for example like women for their "womaness" and men for their "maleness". So called chasers are no different.

which is invalidating of their delusions.

I'm pretty sure that's the key.