TIF whining because gay men behave like gay men

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[–]RoundFork 61 insightful - 2 fun61 insightful - 1 fun62 insightful - 2 fun -  (15 children)

That was truly traumatic. I felt like she was filled with false promises then reality kicked her in the teeth.

If a woman wishes to transition to access sex, she should be slapped with that study where no one wants to date/sleep with a TiF (was on r/GC... dunno where it at...), so much work for so little reward. Just develop a more interesting personality jfc.

[–]IridescentAnaconda 64 insightful - 2 fun64 insightful - 1 fun65 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

This might sound dismissive or cold, but she's probably better off in the long run. The last thing people need is to be having sex with multiple random strangers. Yeah, I'm judgmental about promiscuity, but it's based on lived experience.

[–]Gravyness 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm judgmental about promiscuity, but it's based on lived experience.

It is also a health issue, so you can say it's based on data too.

[–]ZeWombat 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And she's better off sooner than later with the reality that actual gay men are not interested in a woman.

[–]just_lesbian_things 40 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 0 fun41 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I felt worse for the gay men, tbh. Maybe that's because I've been on the receiving end of this behavior from male trans people. Hets need to fuck off from homosexual spaces.

[–]Kelseyann93 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Same, this is why I gave up lesbian apps. It's mostly men trying to score women.

[–]joeytundra 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

now if only heterosexual had the same luxury of telling homosexual men to fuck off from our spaces but when we do it it's "hate"...yet it doesn't stop gay men from using multiple platforms to seduce straight men into thinking about becoming gay and how transwomen are real women so no homo.

[–]just_lesbian_things 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

They have as much of a luxury as the rest of us; so they can suck it up. Half the dating profiles I see are men or het couples despite me putting down women only. Het men don't deal with jack shit.

[–][deleted] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Cheers to that. If I never get another disgusting het couple message it will be too soon. Maybe the people who treat lesbians like sex dolls can find out what it feels like when nasty people hit on them.

[–]msteacherlady 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Somebody's buying though, if the old casual encounters listings on craigslist were any evidence.

[–]msteacherlady 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I mean, I can't even imagine what it's like to be a gay man who enjoys going to orgies, yet I still have empathy for them in the situation. It's supposed to be a sexually charges male-only space, but then there's this boyish chick with her tits out walking around like one of the guys. It would be violating and kill the mood! I'm imagining the scene in my head and it really seems like a SNL skit.

[–]weirdthorn[S] 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I felt like she was filled with false promises then reality kicked her in the teeth.

How does one get to that point, though? Was she never told "no" before? Usually one figures that stuff out in elementary school at latest. She seems to get social clues judging from the thread, so???

[–]a_blue_bird 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

How does one get to that point, though?

She probably spent her whole life on Tumblr and Twitter.

[–]msteacherlady 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Swapping yaoi stories where gay men had sparkles for penises and really big hands.

[–]3MistersAndAMissy 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because as a woman, the one guarantee is that someone will sleep with you.

It’s why the TIMs feel so wronged when they transition and the sex they thought being a ‘woman’ would get them doesn’t come through.

[–]Lapis_Lazuli 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's not just that she wants sex—she wants gay sex as a gay man. That's the fetish. It's never going to happen, but she'll ruin her body and her life chasing the impossible fantasy.