The actual harm done to transwomen is actually closer to ‘transwomen are extra extra gay’ so homophobes and men who feel tricked by non disclosing transwomen are the ones harming them. Not anyone who comprehends sex and doesn’t follow gender dogma.

I don't think this is true. Only a small minority of transwomen are sexually attracted to other males. And only a tiny proportion of those who are attracted to other males have any chance of going stealth because most don't "pass." Most males who have sex with transwomen know full well ahead of time that these persons are male.

When transwomen suffer physical and emotional harm it's almost always at the hands of others of their own sex and it most often occurs in the context of ongoing and mutual domestic violence and emotional abuse in relationships with lovers, roommates, male spouses, friends - in other words, with close intimates who know the transwomen well and presumably have no problem with them being trans. Or the physical and psychological abuse occurs in relationships connected to some other kind of illegal activity, such as drug dealing, criminal enterprise (gang muggings, theft, fraud schemes, etc) and sex work.

Whilst some transwomen who do "sex work" do get physically assaulted by johns, those johns are rarely strangers. And transwomen "sex workers" who suffer physical violence and verbal abuse often do so in altercations with other transwomen fighting over turf, a man, money, drugs, stolen items, insults, etc.

Sometimes the lovers, roommates, male spouses, friends, etc who cause emotional and physical harm to transwomen are trans themselves too. The last transwoman known to have died of homicide in the UK - which IIRC was in 2017 or 2018 - was killed by another transwoman.

There's always been a lot of infighting, jealousy, envy, covetousness and temper tantrumming amongst transwomen who hang out together such as those who are in the ballroom scene and live together in group "houses" or in the old-style transvestite gangs of yesteryear - and this has always resulted in a fair bit of slapping, punching, hair pulling, wig snatching, kicking, biting, stomping, knifing and so on.

Sadly, a lot of males who identify as trans are rageholics with poor or no impulse control liable to fly off the handle and go into violent attack mode at the slightest provocation - and they tend to hang out with and have intimate relationships with other males like themselves. These persons are very quick to take offense, and once they take offense they tend to get very angry, going from zero to 1000 on the rage scale in a flash. Lashing out in violence is "second nature" to many such persons, just as it is to a lot of males who don't identify as trans.