BuT BlOnDEssssss HaVe MoRe FuN by fckme in Lesbians

[–]randomlesbian 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The whole blonde=stupid thing started because some people believe that you can't be smart and attractive at the same time. My gf is blonde and she's litterally the smartest, most logical person I've ever met, I feel so dumb when I'm around her sometimes

Attraction primarily to faces or bodies? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

[–]randomlesbian 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

To me personality comes first, then face and lastly body. As long as you aren't anorexic or morbidly obese I will like your body. Small boobs, big boobs, small ass, big ass, they're all great. I never understood some men's fixation with bodies, especially boob size.To me it really doesn't matter, every woman's body is beautiful. I like unique features, like having a bump in your nose, textured hair, moles, or dark spots. All these things some people consider imperfections, I find them hella attractive. But overall, personality is really what makes a difference. Beauty doesn't last forever. Confidence is definitely the most attractive thing a woman can have.

TRAs, allies and lgbTTTT press FAIL to damage JKR's sales. Let the triggering commence! by Uranian in LGBDropTheT

[–]randomlesbian 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

They literally have reddit and all the internet to backing them up, can they just leave 1 space to us ? Why does it bother them so much ?

How did you discover you were homo/bisexual? by indeepshadows in LGBDropTheT

[–]randomlesbian 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I grew up thinking that every girl gets crushes on other girls, so I never really tought much about it until i was 14 .There was a guy that almost every girl had a crush on,and were always talking about how "hot" he is ,to me he looked like every other guy: plain. I was thinking,why do I have to date men? Can't I just live with my female best friend for the rest of my life? After some time passed , I asked myself , if I had to choose between kissing a girl or kissing a guy,I would obviously choose the girl,because girls are prettier. If every girl feels this way,why do they still choose to date guys? Am I normal? That's how I discovered I liked girls, but I didn't want to call myself a lesbian because I tought they only do it for the attention of men, and I didn't want that. So instead , if someone asked me , I told them I was "bisexual,but I only date girls"(weird, I know, I was very stupid at that time). Later I learnt that lesbians irl are not like in porn, and they don't do it to get attention, so I started calling myself that. It wasn't just a single moment , it was more of a long process of accepting myself.