This is something I've been thinking about, but my physical attraction to women almost entirely depends on me finding her face attractive.
I'm usually attracted to her body too as long as I find her face attractive, but I'm never attracted to a woman's body alone. I might think she's definitely attractive body-wise, but I only feel that magnetic pull and crush if I'm very attracted to her face, if I'm not then she could have the most perfect body in the world and it wouldn't matter. I'm bringing this up because men seem to talk a lot about being boob/ass men and women's bodies as objects, and I just can't relate to that at all. Of course I like boobs as much as the next lesbian, but it's not something I think about when I'm attracted to a woman? It's her presence, her smell, her voice, physical closeness of any type and her face that I'm primarily entranced by, I've never been really into a woman because "she has nice tits" like guys seem to be. All tits are good tits.
How do you all feel about this? I'm so face focused in my attraction to women that I actually thought I must not be a lesbian for ages because women's bodies are objectified so much in media, and I simply felt wrong engaging in that and I don't think like that. I also tend not to be into female celebrities but I find many women in real life attractive, the only exception is Olivia Wilde lol. But when I hear people go on about how attractive a certain celeb is and straight girls "girl crushes" on airbrushed celebs in make up, I just don't feel attracted to those women because it doesn't seem genuine. Even though they're clearly beautiful. Idk, am I making sense?
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