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“Abandoning the lesbian label and create something else” by windrunner in Lesbians

[–]Golly 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Girl that post is ollllld news. Besides, the idea was pretty much dismissed

Would you date a transman? by Srime in Lesbians

[–]Golly 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is something I've wondered about too. Do homosexual trans men even want to date lesbians? I'm guessing no? But if they chase after straight women the same way transbians chase after lesbians I haven't heard anything about it. So idk

Would you personally date a bisexual woman? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

[–]Golly 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

damn girl. Maybe relocate...?

Why can’t lesbian just be female homosexual? by CuntWorshiper in Lesbians

[–]Golly 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Feels great to be privileged 😎

Are you people for real? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Golly 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Here's the comment. I don't think she meant the "hate-bonding" thing in a disparaging way. She just stated it matter-of-factly. I guess she's technically correct.

Are you people for real? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Golly 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

what exactly is the goal of s/lgbdropthet? Is it like a circlejerk/venting sub? I think I saw a comment saying it was for hate-bonding

Is anyone else seeing a crazy amount of long time lesbians dating men all of a sudden? What the F is going on? by berlin13 in Lesbians

[–]Golly 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not seeing the same on my side.

yeah, I don't either

Would you personally date a bisexual woman? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

[–]Golly 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Personally, no. I feel like I relate better to other lesbians.

The “Gold Star” Problem by WordsHaveMeanings in Lesbians

[–]Golly 8 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Still waiting lol

The “Gold Star” Problem by WordsHaveMeanings in Lesbians

[–]Golly 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you make a thread asking "if it is ok if I don't want to date or be associated with lesbians who have history with males" I'm sure most people will just say "You can date whoever you want" or "why are you asking us who you should date?"

If you make a thread called "there is nothing wrong with being a goldstar" everyone will agree and also say "there is also nothing wrong with not being a goldstar"

So go on

The “Gold Star” Problem by WordsHaveMeanings in Lesbians

[–]Golly 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

you think they will attack you? Prove it then. Make a thread.

The “Gold Star” Problem by WordsHaveMeanings in Lesbians

[–]Golly 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ok. You know what? Make a thread about being proud to be goldstar. Then you will see that no one is attacking you. I don't know how else to get through to you. You seem very desperate to be a victim...

The “Gold Star” Problem by WordsHaveMeanings in Lesbians

[–]Golly 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lavalanche and VioletRemi were not talking about ALL goldstars. You are taking all their comments out of context, you didn't even see what they were replying to. Also, most gay men don't care or talk about this stuff either so I don't know what you're on about.

You are allowed to be proud of being goldstar. Here is a thread for you to go be proud in: https://saidit.net/s/Lesbians/comments/72c5/gold_stars_share_your_experiences/ Or even better, make a new thread dedicated to yourself called "I'm proud to be a goldstar!" or "Being a goldstar is my greatest achievement in life!" No one is going to stop you. No one hates you for being goldstar. What is your problem?

The “Gold Star” Problem by WordsHaveMeanings in Lesbians

[–]Golly 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

don't project your own victim mentality and persecution complex

Girl you are the one with a victim mentality and persecutory delusions. You the one thinking everyone is against you and attacking you when in reality no one cares. Your friend Stoneywhatever was banned cause she's creepy and was constantly talking about het sex and violating sub rules. Not because she's goldstar.

on dating bi women/ ‘new lesbians’ by berlin13 in Lesbians

[–]Golly 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Whenever I see a relationship situation like this, the obvious solution is "break up". I know, easy for me to say that as an outsider looking in

Moderators . Why did you delete a political discussion? Are lesbians not allowed to have different opinions and ideas? by Anniesworld in Lesbians

[–]Golly 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Girl if you think this place is hostile you need to go spend some time over at The L Chat. And that place has tons more activity so I don't think hostility is what makes a place dead. It's Saidit. This site has a reputation for being a haven for tin foil hat wearing right-wingers to discuss their deranged beliefs. Having an active lesbian sub over here just isn't going to happen.