Girlfriend's past with men makes me feel sick

Srime · 2021-08-29T04:09:34+00:00

Ask her to stop telling you about it if she hasn't already (its not uncommon for people in relationships to not want to hear about their partner's past partners). It is pretty weird that she's talking about "if she were straight." If she doesn't stop when you ask and explain, you might need to end a relationship.

If she agrees to and you still want to overcome your disgust about other peoples' sexual history, then stop looking up things online that you know will piss you off. The things you already know about will continue to irritate you, but you'll stop caring over time, provided you continue to stop looking for things to be mad at or paying prolonged attention to annoying things that accidentally make their way into your life.

Srime · 2021-08-16T04:02:04+00:00

Last week was really rough, then it was really good, and then it turned back to shit. I'm a wildland firefighter for the season and we were on assignment for the past two weeks. We're about halfway through the season and I'm already this👌🏾close to burning out. We had 3 days off and we're back at it again today and for the next two weeks. Don't know how I'm gonna make it another month and a half (probably by making everyone on the crew increasingly uncomfortable with how introverted I'm becoming), but I need this money.

The bright side is that the mini bike I ordered got delivered over our weekend and now I have something fun to do during my days off. It's soooooo fun to ride and I'm hoping to take it up some hiking trails.

My car's been out of commission for a while due to a cracked radiator but it looks like I'll be able to fix that myself in a few days and be able to drive myself around again.

If I remember correctly, my first crush was on a girl I shared a class with in 3rd grade. I thought she was cool because she was older than everyone else in the class despite knowing it was because she had been held back a grade. I really wanted to be her friend but I had god awful social skills back then and she thought I was annoying lol

Srime · 2021-07-15T03:27:18+00:00

*LGBT+ youth

Srime · 2021-04-05T17:21:21+00:00

Dark, but not actual healthy dark, more like Hershey's dark

Srime · 2021-03-28T23:46:07+00:00

So, can we like...make another TL now?

Srime · 2021-03-02T19:15:12+00:00

Didn't even think about that. Being more attracted to their feminine features might actually upset someone wanting to present more masculine. Might not work out anyway

Srime · 2021-03-01T00:06:43+00:00

Yeah, wouldn't be surprised if the hate for the mod generated from the actions on that post is what finally got to her.

Srime · 2021-02-28T23:30:00+00:00

Follow up question: is r/truebutch still a thing? I sent a mod message once but never heard back

Srime · 2021-02-26T23:59:24+00:00

Never had any real career aspirations as a kid, not until 2-3 years ago at most. For a short while I figured I'd go along with my mom's wishes and make bank as an engineer and that was going along smoothly until I took my first engineering class in college and realized there was no way in hell I was going to be able to do that shit.

I've had tons of positions in short-term, dead end jobs since then and have come to the realization that most work sucks lol. I've walked out of a handful of jobs in the past ~~(like just yesterday)~~, stopped showing up, or just slowly lost any motivation to do good work b/c the jobs were literally pointless and unengaging or b/c management was awful.

Lol I know I sound like a bum, but I truly can't stand wasting 8-12 hours a day standing in one spot doing nothing important. I've proven to myself time and time again that money isn't enough motivation for me to stay in a miserable position. I'd been in a bad funk all week and couldn't figure out why. I felt terrible at work for the first couple hours so I decided to leave and my mood improved tenfold out of nowhere. I had just been sleep deprived from 12 hour shifts doing pointless, menial tasks and tired of dealing with attitudes from managers.

I absolutely love busting my ass for something challenging and/or meaningful though and am finally hopping into a field I can see a future in in a little less than 3 months from now, wildland firefighting. Until then, its another few weeks of another boring warehouse job.

A fulfilling job is a necessity for me at this point; I need to get my shit together.

Srime · 2021-02-05T17:31:44+00:00

I guess it wouldn't matter b/c it'd only "tarnish" the image of bisexuals and masculine lesbians, not the "proper" lesbians lol

Srime · 2021-02-05T16:40:01+00:00

Yeah that's a meme lol

Srime · 2021-02-05T10:48:12+00:00

Yuck, butch4butch master race

Srime · 2021-01-29T19:49:08+00:00

Fam, that sounds awful

Srime · 2021-01-26T22:45:25+00:00

Idk these people. How is the wife a psycho?

Srime · 2021-01-21T13:09:37+00:00

Dude same, I'm genetically a stick figure. I started lifting weights a few months ago because I was tired of being scrawny and do hip thrusts all the time b/c I feel no one will be into me if I don't at least have a visible ass lol

Srime · 2020-12-07T00:25:41+00:00

I'm pretty skinny and have a tiny bit of muscle from weightlifting for 3+ months. And I'm 5'7.

Definitely into in shape, muscular (but not extremely so) women. Around my height or taller is a plus. Can't say I've ever been attracted to curvy women and I'm not too curvy myself. Toned butts though👌🏾

Sounds like I'm attracted to women who are similar to myself.

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