you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–]newguy 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (23 children)

It does though. It only exists when you stop to think about it. If you stop thinking about your obsession with conforming to gender norms, they stop mattering eventually. Also the obsession with sexuality wanes as you enter your 30s.

[–]Vulptex[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (22 children)

I explained numerous times already that I have no obsession with gender roles. Biology is not gender roles.

[–]iamonlyoneman 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

and neither is perception your body. just because you feel some kind of a way doesn't mean it's wrong what you live in, it means your feelings are twisted up

[–]Vulptex[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Or maybe the devil cursed me with a crippling disease or 100 like he does to so many unfortunate people.

[–]iamonlyoneman 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

or maybe you need to get yourself some EMDR therapy and stop playing

[–]Vulptex[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I don't have the kind of traumatic memories you're thinking of. I was never sexually abused, I don't hate men or masculinity, I have no trouble getting by in society as a male. There's literally no reason for it. Just because something is rare doesn't mean it isn't real.

[–]iamonlyoneman 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

You don't need to be traumatized I told you already the autism is enough

And you are not a fox, or a woman. That's not rare, it is not possible. I really wish you would help yourself come to terms with reality by seeking the help you so-obviously need.

[–]Vulptex[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

How can you state with such certainty that a crappy gender disorder is impossible?

[–]iamonlyoneman 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Mental disorders are both possible and common. Emotional disorders also.

Gender is a linguistic concept that applies to words. Degenerates, literally bad people took and twisted the concept to apply to people but the tl;dr version is gender=stereotypes based on sex. People don't have gender, people have stereotypes, and sex. You have a sex. You can never change it. You can change how you think about it. Thinking that you are defined by a set of stereotypes is misapplying the concept of gender to you. Thinking that you are the wrong gender is describable as "not even wrong".

You cannot be a woman (female sex) because you are male. You cannot be a woman (feminine gender) because people don't have gender. You can be a flaming queer and act like a woman according to various sex-based stereotypes, and be a man - but doing so will never make you a woman.

To answer the question directly: because gender disorders aren't a thing, except inasmuch as they are a disorder of the person's mind.

[–]Vulptex[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

🤦‍♀️ You're projecting TRA crap onto me.

I'm not a flaming queer ultra-feminine ladyboy. I have no social motives to do this and every social motive not to. Somehow I seem to have ended up mentally primed to live with the wrong sexual characteristics. Real, actual physical characteristics, not gender stereotypes. This is a real condition, and a quite hopeless one. There's ways to make your body function more like the opposite sex, but our current treatments don't work very well (and never will if we continue insisting that gender is entirely socially constructed and that biological sex doesn't exist), especially MtF ones (you cannot undo many of the changes, and the male body changes way way way more than the female one). You won't see me claiming to be a "woman", because like you said, that doesn't exist in the sense TRAs give it.

Fortunately this DISEASE is pretty rare, so much so that until recently few people other than professionals knew about it. And now even fewer people are aware of it, because it's completely overshadowed by transvestites and the gender identity movement.

[–]newguy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

If you only care about biology, then you aren't possibly trans unless you were in the 0.01% born intersex.

[–]Vulptex[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

It probably is some kind of intersex.

[–]newguy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Probably? If genitals are normal, then you're normal. Compare to online pictures. This is not complicated

[–]Vulptex[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

The genitals aren't always clearly affected. XXY males for example have seemingly normal genitals. There are also intersex complications caused by hormones alone. On the most extreme end this can actually result in a XX male or XY female. Born, not transed. There are issues with fertility but they otherwise function normally. The difference is they had those hormones since before birth, whereas trannies were already mostly developed one way before switching them.

My guess is, someone like me had abnormal brain development pre-birth. That doesn't really mean I have a "female brain", because 99% of the differences come along during puberty; but unfortunately my sense of how my body should feel (and to some extent certain skills I should have) seems to have been set from the beginning.

This condition has been linked to certain genetic defects, on genes that just so happen to be involved with hormonal development. What a coincidence. It's also linked to other intersex conditions such as XXY (which I actually might be).

I do have a few physical abnormalities too. Nothing noticeable, but I have slightly curvy hips, and some feminine facial features I've not noticed on any other men. I don't know if that's connected. It's not nearly enough for me in any case.

I've completely failed to develop either a sexuality or a gender identity (if such a thing even exists), so there's no explaining this as me wanting to escape gender expectations. Although I very much do, I acknowledge that as a completely separate issue. And I don't have much desire to fit into female roles either, so there's that. Actually, I'd be fine with only changing sexes in my own perspective. Referring to me with certain a pronoun isn't going to do me any favors or disservice. I understand that those people want to be seen a certain way and included, but they are facing sexism, not sex dysphoria (I'm trying to avoid the word "gender" since its definition changes every like, minute).

[–]newguy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Then get a genetic test if it bothers you so much. The lack of a "gender identity" doesn't mean anything because that's based on social stereotypes anyway. Gender stereotypes progressives spent decades trying to overcome and get rid of, which they've now done a 180 on and decided are the most important thing in the world.

If you have a penis, you're a guy. It's not complicated. The fact society has convinced you this is a complicated and intricate thing is the problem. If you just accepted your body and personality as it is, there would be no problem. You can be a guy with feminine hips. No one cares. Stop trying to fit in to what MSM society says.

[–]Vulptex[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

This is pretty much what "trans" shit I go through. It needs to be DESTROYED. I'm intrigued by the possibility of XXY chromosomes because that's a possible cause.

[–]newguy 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Even if you knew that's what it was for 100% certainty, how would that change how you live your daily life?

[–]Vulptex[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It's mostly curiosity. And if something has helped ruin your life, you at least want to have answers.

Knowing could help a little. It could make treatments slightly more informed, and most importantly, provide insight on how to prevent this disease in the future. I can't ever be healed, but I pray that this will soon be a thing of the past. But that can't happen as long as TRAs control the narrative. And big pharma, because when they see trannies they see $$$.

[–]DELINQUENTFELON 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Maybe you could get some medication that would help you to shoot poison gas out your butt like these bugs do..

https://youtube.com/shorts/oQMQQldove8?si=mb2W9L2oytepy3f6